The 4 Best Sexual Positions Mistakes Guys Make

A group of women gather at a local restaurant or bar for drinks. What is the one topic the conversation always turns to? Well, if you were to pay attention you would see that a group of girls always end up bragging or complaining about their sexual partners, whether it is their husband, boyfriend or friend.

Don’t let the pressure get to you, but take this as a warning that you may end up the next topic of “girls night out.” This may be a terrifying thought if you are lacking in the bedroom skills. The good news is that there are a few common mistakes to avoid in the bedroom and avoiding these mistakes can help you become the best sexual partner she has ever had.

One misconception guys have is that great sex starts with a good sexual position. They make the mistake of concentrating on discovering the best positions, forgetting about everything before and after. Incredible sex does not consist of putting her in a pre-determined sexual position and finishing by banging away. This will, surely, cause you to be the topic of conversation.

You can change this, though, as this is not the solution to a great lovemaking session and will get you pinned at the complaining end of the women’s conversation. In order for you to correct this and become a fantastic sexual partner, you first need to understand what you have been doing wrong, learn how to correct the mistakes and retrain your sexual ways. Take a look at the following sexual position mistakes guys commonly make:
 

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Mistake 1: Lack of Variety

If you want to bore a woman quickly, go ahead and put her in the same sexual position every time. Though it may be one of your favorite positions, she will get bored and tired of the lack of variety. This is a sure-fire way to gradually lead to boredom in the bedroom and a sigh of relief from her when the lovemaking session is over. Men who understand the secrets to incredible sex are those who understand the significance of variety. Go ahead and transition into different positions. You may just find you have a second favorite!

Mistake 2: The Faster and Harder the Better

Now, fast-paced sex has its place in lovemaking but one mistake guys commonly make is to slam into her as fast as he can. This may satisfy women on porn movies, but it will not always work in the bedroom. Unfortunately, due to the growing prevalence of porn movies, men are often mistaken by thinking that the faster and harder they bang away the better lover she will think he is. However, while you are banging away you are missing the bored and glazed-over look in her eyes. Do not try to imitate what you see on porno movies. Rather, take your time and focus on her. Most women tend to prefer slower-paced lovemaking which feels more passionate and intimate than fast, hard “banging.”

Mistake 3: Taking “Variety” Too Far

Yes, the first mistake above was lack of variety and sticking to the same position will lead to boredom. However, do not take that suggestion too far by trying to get too fancy. The Kama Sutra guides may be filled with fancy, interesting positions but it is not a guide to lovemaking generally. You do not need to try every fancy position in the book to become a great lover. Trying to bend her in every possible position will not do the trick. Stick with the standard positions and aim to please her.

Mistake 4: “Taking a Break” When She’s On Top

When the woman is on top, this is not necessarily the time for you to take a break and just lay there like a dead fish. This may be a time when she is in the dominant position, but you still need to do some work especially if you want to encourage her to be on top more. This is a good time to stimulate her erogenous areas and just touch her. Run your hands long her body and she will enjoy being on top much more because she can still feel close to you.

Mistake 5: Afraid to Be Dominant

Believe it or not, a lot of men look at sex with nervousness, fear and even some anxiety. That you are afraid of saying or doing something wrong will definitely show through and she will be turned off. For example, if you ask her over and over if she is enjoying herself, she will probably think you are a wimp and then start treating you hike a wimp outside of the bedroom. Women are attracted to men who act like a man and not those who act like a wimp. If you do not are lacking sexual confidence and act like a wimp in the bedroom, she will soon hate having sex with you.

There are two basic things you can do to become the best partner she has ever been with. First, know the best positions and avoid these mistakes above. Trying to please her and cater to her sexual needs does not mean you are a wimp. What it will do, though, is turn you into the man that she wants to tell all her friends about. You can influence how you will be discussed in these female conversations. So, go ahead and take a closer look at these mistakes and do all you can do to avoid making them.

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