How to Eliminate Sexual
Performance Anxiety
Believe it or not, all men have suffered from sexual performance anxiety. If
you are experiencing such anxiety, you are definitely not alone. You have
probably wondered if you are pleasing her or worried about your performance in
the bedroom. To make matters worse, the more you dwell on these questions the
more anxiety you will experience and the more likely it is to affect your sexual
performance.
The good news is that you can eliminate your performance anxiety with a few
easy steps. Pay attention to the following tips and you can eliminate your
apprehension and nervousness in the bedroom and improve your sex life.
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Tip 1: Relax
Though this may be easier said than done, it is very important that you approach
sex relaxed and not stressed. This alone will eliminate a lot of your
nervousness and anxiety. Sex is not a contest to see if you can be her best
lover, but is supposed to be an enjoyable time. By taking on a relaxed attitude,
you can make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.
Tip 2: Manage Your Stress
It is important to manage stress outside of the bedroom. For many men, stressors
in your life can carry over to the bedroom and may be influencing your
performance. As above, learn to relax both in and out of the bedroom.
Approaching sex with a relaxed, fun attitude can make it a greater experience
and much more enjoyable.
Tip 3: Exercise
It is a known fact that much of sexual performance anxiety can be due to a lack
of -exercise. By becoming more physically active and getting more exercise, you
will relieve a lot of general tension which may be a large factor in your sexual
performance anxiety.
Tip 4: Talk Yourself Into It
Be cautious of your thoughts. The mind is amazing in that what you are telling
yourself may be hurting your confidence in the bedroom. It could be a matter of
self-fulfilling prophecies. If you are telling yourself that you will perform
poorly, then you probably will. If you are telling yourself you are nervous,
then this nervousness will carry into the bedroom. Instead, tell yourself that
you will just enjoy the sexual experience regardless of what happens during it.
Give your mind a break and relax!
Tip 5: Find the Right Girl
Much of performance anxiety is from internal factors, but anxiety can often stem
from outside factors such as your partner’s expectations. She may not have such
overwhelming expectations as you think, but by not communicating with her openly
and honestly, you may be causing anxiety that can be eliminated through
communication. If she is actually pressuring you to meet certain expectations,
you need to have an open discussion with her and tell her what is going on. If
you do not feel you can have this kind of conversation with her partner, then
she may not be the woman for you.
Sexual performance anxiety can cause a lot of harm to your sex life, love life
and life in general. By learning how to manage your internal and external
stressors, you can begin the process toward eliminating your anxiety in the
bedroom and open the door to fantastic, fun sex!
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