Psychology Today Article- “Humor’s Sexual Side”
Today I found an article from Psychology Today which reinforces a lot of what I teach in my free ebook ‘Seduction Secrets…Revealed‘. This article titled- “Humor’s Sexual Side”, discusses how humor is one of the most sought after traits that both men and women want in a mate.
While looks are important, as a race we seek people that can be entertaining and fun.
What I liked about this article is how it discussed that there is a strong relation between how much a woman laughs and her level of interest. It basically says that women will be sexually attracted to a guy who can be funny while demonstrating a level of value.
In other words, it discusses that women are turned on by guys who act in an aggressive humorous manner. In other words, the like cocky-funny!
Anyway, there is a lot more about humor that’s discussed in the article. Be sure to take a look at it!
December 7, 2006
David DeAngelo and Cocky Comedy Video
Today I was checking out YouTube and found a great video from a David DeAngelo, which covers “Cocky Comedy”. This type of interaction is probably the most important lessons to be learned from his “Double Your Dating” System.
What is great about Cocky Comedy is that it’s a great way to make both yourself and women comfortable in conversations. If you do it right, it can be an excellent way to build attraction.
The video covers cocky comedy and emphasizes having a balance between a jerk, while remaining funny. He mentions that you should avoid doing too much of either extreme. Being too cocky means you’ll come across as arrogant. On the other hand, if you’re too funny women will think you’re a clown.
Finally David DeAngelo brings up a few guest speakers which show real examples of cocky comedy. One of my favorite lines is a guy’s response to a woman telling him to have a nice day. His line was something like: “Don’t tell me what to do…I just met you and now you’re ordering me around”. Pretty classic!
Well hope you enjoy the video…if you want to find more about Double Your Dating, check out his site.
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November 9, 2006
How to Be a Jerk and Succeed Wildly With Women
Have you ever seen a guy who acts like a jerk but still manages to go home with beautiful women?
Well these guys know a secret which you can learn a lot from.
What they know is that many women are attracted to men who successfully combine being a jerk with having a humorous personality.
Often called “negging” or “cocky-funny“, the idea behind this attitude is to act slightly arrogant while displaying intelligence and funny traits. It works because you are letting women know that you are confident while humorous enough to be desired.
If done correctly, this an incredibly powerful technique that makes girl instantly attracted to you. Here is how you can be the “funny/jerk” that women want…
First you should always remember to balance the attitude of a jerk while remaining funny. By acting too arrogant, you’ll end up repulsing women instead of attracting them. On the other hand, if you spend the whole time cracking jokes you’ll end up looking like a clown. Your goal is to carefully combine both attitudes and create the perfect “funny/jerk” personality.
So how do you go about becoming a funny/jerk?
To become a funny/jerk, it’s important to create a certain attitude during your entire conversation with a woman. Your goal is to never making her completely comfortable when you are talking to her. This means you should tease her behavior or comments, and make her work for YOUR attention.
It works like this:
Whenever she says anything to you or asks a question, you come back with a comment that is funny, while slightly mocking her.
For instance, if a girl asks your name, you tell her that you can’t reveal it, out of fear of her stalking you.
What you want to do is constantly use humor to catch her off guard. Anything she says should be responded to in a funny, slightly arrogant manner. Furthermore, try to implement a bit of sexual innuendo into your comments.
To create a successful “funny/jerk” attitude, need to work on altering your behavior in conversations with women. You can do this by sitting down and thinking of everything that a woman will typically say during a conversation. Then work on creating witty responses to the standard topics that often come up. Your focus is to create different statements that will catch her off guard while putting you in a position of dominance. The best lines will be ones that are humorous and slightly negative.
These principle behind the “funny/jerk” works because you are creating value for yourself to women you encounter. By being a little arrogant, you are letting her know that you are confident in yourself and that she’ll have to work to get your attention.
My final piece of advice is to practice, practice, practice!
Creating a “funny/jerk” attitude is all about knowing what to say in each situation. At first, it may seem to go against the common thought of being “the nice guy” towards women. So in order to implement this attitude, you need to practice with women as much as possible.
When I say practice with women, I mean you need to try to take advantage of every situation where you are talking to a girl. Even if you don’t want to pick them up, it’s important that you use interactions with women to practice your comments and learn how to judge their responses.
Simply by practicing at all times, you’ll learn the fine art of being a “funny/jerk”. As a result, you’ll discover that your interactions with women will improve and you’ll end up going home with more women.
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November 7, 2006
[AWTD] Get Her to Like You By Making Fun of Her
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for November 7th, 2006.
Get Her to Like You By Making Fun of Her!
Yesterday I discussed how being a nice guy usually gets you nowhere when it comes to attracting women. This is due to the fact that many women feel that nice guys are boring and provide no challenge.
So how can you challenge women without being too much of an a**hole?
You can use one of my favorite flirting tips which is to make fun of her.
While it might seem counterproductive to mock a girl you’re trying to pick-up, teasing can an extremely effective way to build attraction.
It works because:
a) You are demonstrating that you not the “average nice guy”
b) You have a sense of humor
c) You are reversing roles by making her “work” for your affection
Making fun of her includes teasing her or calling her out on anything she says. You can also try taking some of her comments and twisting them into a sexual innuendo.
By teasing or making fun of her, you are creating a situation where she isn’t sure if you are into her or not. As a result, she will think you’re of a challenge and will think you’re interesting enough to date.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.







