[AWTD] 7 Kissing Mistakes You Need to Avoid
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 6th, 2007.
7 Kissing Mistakes You Need to Avoid
In order to make things more intimate with a woman, you need to kiss her. What this means is sex needs to be initiated simply by leaning over and kissing a woman. But in order to get her “hot and heavy”, you have to know how to properly kiss her.
If you kiss her badly, then you’ll have little chance of turning her on and making her want to “go all the way” with you.
In this tip, I’ll cover seven of the basic mistakes for kissing. So the next time you try to kiss a girl, please avoid the following:
- Clamping your mouth down hard on her face
- Jamming your tongue down her throat and trying to lick the back of her throat
- Not caressing her hair during your kiss
- Rushing things and ONLY using kissing to progress to the next level
- Making smacking or other loud noices when kissing her
- Trying to use your hand to lock her head down
- Ignoring other parts of her body like her neck or ears
In order to become a great kisser, you should do the OPPOSITE of each of these mistakes. Simply by making small changes to your kissing technique, you’ll discover that it’s easy to become a great kisser.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
February 7, 2007
4 Ways You Can Find a Sexual Partner Tonight
I know this doesn’t come as a shock to you, but there are times in every man’s life when he just wants to get laid!
While it’s important to date and establish relationships with women, we all get that instinct sometimes to have a one night stand. Now as well know one of the worst ways to accomplish this way is to hire a prostitute. Unless you like the idea of exposing yourself up to STDs, hiring a hooker is never a good idea.
Fortunately there are a few ways you can quickly locate a sexual partner without being forced to pay for it. In the next few paragraphs, I detail four different ways you can find a sexual partner in a limited time.
Let’s get started…
1: Hook up with your booty call
The most obvious resource for having sex in the near future is track down a “Booty Call.” If you’re like me, then I’m sure you know a few women who you’ve dated in the past that you can meet at a moment’s notice.
What’s great about the ‘Booty Call’ is you both have established your relationship. In other words, you both understand that the interaction is primarily physical and it won’t lead any situation where feelings could be hurt.
Now it’s important to remember to always stay in contact with your ‘Booty Call’ and make sure you talk to her once in awhile. In essence, you’re ensuring that you continue to have a resource that you can go back to time and time again.
2: Contact women you’ve dated briefly
In your life, there are probably a few women who you’ve gone dated a few times. While you might not have slept with these women, you could still have an opportunity to make things more intimate.
Now I don’t mean you should call them up like you would with a booty call. Instead try contacting them and ask them out for a few drinks. If you play your cards right, this date could lead back to your bedroom.
3: Find an old girlfriend
Here is one tip I am mentioning with a bit of hesitation…
One of the find a sexual partner is to contact an old girlfriend. Since you two probably had a sexual relationship, you could easily contact her, meet up and then have sex.
But I have to warn you, trying to rekindle an old flame could have some disastrous results.
By having sex with an old girlfriend, you might create a situation where one of you starts to develop feelings for the other person. Just remember there was a reason the two of you broke up. So keep that in mind if you decide to contact her.
4: Use an ‘adult friend Finder’ service
One of the most interesting ways to quickly find a sexual partner is to use what’s known as an ‘adult friend Finder’ service. Basically these sites work similarly like an online dating site, but it has one difference. Instead of meeting to establish a relationship, you’re trying to work towards a purely sexual situation.
It’s kind of like shopping for a sex partner.
While I’ve never personally used one of these services, I do see it as an excellent place to make an instant connection.
Well these are four ways you can find a sexual partner in the next few days. If you noticed, I talked at length about different women you have in your life. If you don’t have any women in your life, then I recommend you check out my free ebook- Seduction Secrets…Revealed and learn different ways to meet and attract women in your area.
January 12, 2007
[AWTD] Build Physical Contact By Using Sensual Rubs
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 12th, 2007.
[AWTD] Build Physical Contact By Using Sensual Rubs
In order to be a great lover you have to be skilled at foreplay.
Now one imporant part of foreplay is knowing how to give erotic sensual rubs. If you’re good at giving a woman sensual rubs, you can put her in a relaxed (and turned-on) state which makes it to seduce her.
Learning how to give sensual rubs can take a bit of time, but there are a few basic rules which can dramatically improve your skills:
* Darken the lights, use candle illumination and put on soft music
* Use lotion as a way to avoid skin friction
* Make sure she is warm and relaxed before starting. If you have to, set the room temperature higher then normal
* Massage her with the flat of your hands and your fingers closed together
* Use a consistent rhythm and keep a the same pace
* Only use your fingers when working on really tense spots
* Work all over her body, starting with her her shoulders and back. Then move down to her intimate areas as she becomes more relaxed
By knowing how to give great sensual rubs, you’ll find it’s much easier to put her in the mood and transition into a more “intimate encounter”.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
How to Get Laid Tonight in Seven Simple Steps
Here’s a recent letter I recently received from a reader…
“Hey Scott-
Thanks for the great tips man! Reason I am writing you is because you have too much stuff to learn. Can you give me like a quick breakdown on how to get laid tonight! I really need to know how I can be knockin’ boots like as soon as possible.
Peace,
Tim (Gulfport, MS)”
Well Tim (and fellow readers), knowing how to get laid with ANY random woman takes a bit of practice. So while I can’t guarantee you can succeed with every girl, there is a fairly simple process you can follow that’ll definitely increase your chances of scoring.
If you can learn (and apply) the following seven step system, you’ll see a dramatic increase in your ability to “close the deal” with a woman.
For simplicity sake, I am going assume you’re trying to get laid when you go out to a bar. Just remember you can adapt these steps and apply them to different locations.
How to Get Laid Step 1- Read her body language
The first step is probably the most important of them all. Before initiating a conversation with a woman, you have to target somebody who is interested in you. So what you should do is scope out different women you’re attracted to.
Once you find a woman you like, observe her body language. When you check her out, observe if she is demonstrating the following “positive body language” cues:
• Her back is to the bar and is facing the crowd
• She’s having fun with her friends and seems to be in good spirits
• Her body language is open and not showing closed off signs like boredom
• She is looking around, scoping out different guys
My advice is to ONLY approach a girl who is showing you these signs. While you still can succeed with a girl who’s not showing these body language cues, it’s a pretty hard to do if don’t know what you’re doing.
How to Get Laid Step 2- Make eye contact and approach her
Once you’ve spotted an attractive woman, make eye contact with her and then smile. If she smiles back, then you have received an invitation to go over and talk to her.
Now here’s where many guys make a HUGE mistake…
When you approach her, DON’T use some corny pick up line. Instead try to initiate a conversation in a more natural way.
For instance, you could ask her a question, request an opinion, give a genuine compliment or simply introduce yourself.
The key to getting laid is to immediately make her interested in you when you start a conversation. So make sure you start talking to her in a way that will make her INTERESTED IN YOU!
How to Get Laid Step 3- Have the right attitude and talk about fun topics
Women are attracted to confident guys with the right kind of attitude. This means you must project yourself in a slightly cocky manner with a bit of humor. The best advice I’ve heard on this topic is to treat your target woman like a bratty younger sister.
Use the conversation to bust her balls and tease her. Your focus is to “increase your value” in her eyes while proving that you’re a confident person.
In addition, this conversation should focus on fun topics instead of boring things like work or school. If you have to, write down a list of questions beforehand that’ll spark her curiosity and interest.
Finally you should have a few good stories about yourself that puts you in a positive light and makes your life seem exciting.
How to Get Laid Step 4- Talk about sex in your conversation
The quickest way to get laid is to bring up the subject in your conversation. Now don’t start talking about how you want to bang her. Instead mention a story or two about one of your friends or tease her by saying how you “know she wants you”.
By weaving the topic of sex into the conversation, she’ll subconsciously wonder what it’s like to have sex with you.
If you see her respond back in a positive way, then increase the innuendos and comments.
How to Get Laid Step 5- Initiate physical contact
When you’re talking to her, try to initiate physical contact. You can do this by touching her when you want emphasize a point or lightly swat her in a teasing way.
Physical contact is a way to build attraction and make her wonder what you’re like in the sack, so if you want to get laid tonight, you have to work this step pretty hard.
How to Get Laid Step 6- Remove her and yourself from the location
Unless you like the idea of having sex in a bar, you have to get her out of there and to a place where you two can be more intimate. If you’ve followed the previous five steps correctly, she should be receptive to any request to leave the bar.
Generally a simple move would be to suggest that you “go back to your place and continue the conversation”. By now, she’s probably made up her mind if she’s going to sleep with you. So don’t worry if this comment seems transparent. You both know what going back to your place involves.
How to Get Laid Step 7- Make your move and close the deal
Once you have her back at her place, you should make a move to escalate the physical contact. Typically you can this by kissing her or giving a sensual massage.
In my opinion, there is a lot you can do to close the deal and have sex with a woman. But for the sake of limited space, let me say this…
Your goal during this seventh and final step is to eliminate any last minute resistance to having sex with you. Typically women want to get laid as much as we do. So your job is to get her to want to have sex with you.
This is where knowing how to seduce women is an important skill to have.
Naturally your physical contact and kissing will eventually lead to sex…
Congratulations, you’re getting laid!
Well that was a quick breakdown no how to get laid tonight. While this system won’t always work, it can definitely increase your chances of having a one night stand with a woman.
But one piece of advice, it’s often better to get to know a woman before you jump in the sack. That way, you can have a little bit of time to get to know each other better and maybe avoid doing something that you might regret later on.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource,Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 4, 2007
[AWTD] Three of the Best Sexual Positions Tips Revealed
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 4th, 2007.
[AWTD] Three of the Best Sexual Positions Tips Revealed
Have sex with a woman can be both a nerve wracking and exciting prospect. While you’re happy to be doing the dead, it can be nervous if you’re not sure what positions you should try.
In today’s entry, I’ll cover three of the best sexual tips which can help you improve the pleasure of your woman.
Sexual positions tips #1- Missionary
While many people consider the missionary position to be boring, it can be a great way to start having sex with a woman. This position allows for more intimacy then other positions will allow. In this position, you can kiss her and maintain eye contact. By far, a lot of women love this position.
Sexual positions tips #2- On Your Sides
Another great sexual position is when you’re both on your sides and you are penetrating her from behind. This is an excellent way to have sex while having access to her inimate areas. She’ll love it because you can have sex while continuing to stimulate sensitive parts of her body
Sexual positions tips #3- Her On Top
The final great sexual position is her on top. While I wouldn’t recommend this position to start with, having her on top can be an excellent way to let her control some of the action. She’ll enjoy this position because it let’s her have some say in the pace of your sex session.
Well I hope you enjoyed these three sexual positions tips. By implementing them into your life, she’ll definitely enjoy your sex session.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 31, 2006
Want to Learn the Secret Technique to Seduce Girls?
Allow me to tell you a truth about guys and what most of us want from women…
Simply put, we want to get laid!
When we start talking to a girl or bring her out on a date, our ultimate goal is to get her in the sack. While you might want a relationship or simple companionship, your first thought is wondering what sex will be like with her.
That’s why knowing how to seduce girls is an important thing to know.
The one problem you might encounter is how difficult it can be to transition from a date to “getting it on” with a woman. I don’t have to tell you that it’s frustrating to want a woman, but have no clue how you can make a move on her.
But let me tell you secret…
When women want sex as much as we do! So when she has sex with you, there is no seduction. It’s a conscious decision on her part.
On other hand, she doesn’t want to make the first move. In fact, women want to be pursued and made to feel desired. Ultimately this means you have to have the courage to confidently make the first move.
If she’s into you, then there’ll be no resistance.
Now I know you might be a little nervous about making a move, but there is a simple technique for progressing from a date to having sex. From the moment you meet her, you should look for opportunities to make “a transition”.
A transition is basically a moment when you can elevate your interaction with a woman. An example of a transition is when you’re talking to a girl you make things more physical by kissing her.
In one of his resources, seduction guru David DeAngelo talks about the importance of how to transition from one stage to another. What he discusses is how there are key points in when you’re with a woman that provide an opportunity to progress to the next step.
David’s technique emphasizes the importance on knowing what your next move will be. What you want to do is plan out your actions from the moment you approach a woman to the moment you’re having sex with her. If you know how to navigate through this process, you’ll find it’s easy to seduce girls.
So what you want to do is to write down all the times when you might encounter a potential stopping point where a specific action is needed. These moment could include getting a girls number, asking her for a date, touching her, going for a kiss and then seducing her.
What you want to do is write down that action you’ll take to make that transition. Then put it to memory. By having a plan of action for advancing to the next step, you’ll be able to make these transitions with confidence and ease.
Knowing how to seduce girls is a skill that can be learned. If you study these transition techniques and make to point to learn them cold, you’ll discover it’s easy to have sex with girls you meet.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 30, 2006
How to Increase Sexual Performance with These 5 Simple Steps
A lot of women judge men largely by their performance in the bedroom. If you can last only for a few minutes, then you’ve probably failed at pleasing her. As a result, she might end up looking for sex from another guy.
That’s why it’s important to know how to increase sexual performance with a woman. It could be disastrous if you don’t learn how to do this.
To help you out, I am going to cover a few simple tricks that’ll help you last longer in bed. In addition these tips will give help you develop the willpower to increase sexual performance with a woman. The more you can apply these techniques, the more she’ll go crazy during sex.
Step #1 - Learn to relax
I know it’s hard to relax when you have performance anxiety. But in order to increase sexual performance, you’ll have to learn to not think about what could wrong.
To be successful in the bedroom, you can’t worry about what you’re doing wrong. Not only will you probably end up with a self-fulfilling prophecy, you’ll probably turn her off with all your anxiety.
So no matter what happens, just relax and enjoy the sexual experience.
Step #2 – Start with foreplay
Now the key to increase sexual performance is to never concentrate on your own pleasure. Instead focus on the woman you’re with. If you can think only about her pleasure, then you won’t be so worried about your own performance.
In order to do this, all you have to become a master at foreplay.
By paying attention to her needs and concentrate on her pleasure during foreplay, you’ll build up some major intensity. This’ll definitely make her crazy with passion.
Step #3- Tease Her Mercilessly
When engaged in foreplay, start teasing her by initiating sex then pulling back. What you want to do here is make her beg for sex. The more you can make her crazy with desire, the more she’ll explode once you start having sex.
Step #4- Be a Master at Oral Sex
If you’re really good at oral sex, then you won’t have to worry about knowing how to increase sexual performance. Instead you’ll be able to push “all her buttons” and make her orgasm without even having standard sex.
Oral sex is the perfect tool for guys who can’t last very long in the sack. So if you’re unsure of how to do it, try reading a book or doing research online.
Step #5- Take your time and tease some more
When you start having sex, you should make sure to take your time and tease her some more. If you start out at a fast and intense pace, you’ll probably finish too quickly.
So slow down and take your time.
One technique you can try is to pull out often and tease her in a suggestive manner. By doing this often, she’ll probably go crazy with desire. She’ll love the fact that you’re in control and teasing her.
Knowing how to increase sexual performance is a key element to having a great sex life. By paying attention to the steps that I outlined in this article, you’ll find it’s easy to become the greatest lover she’s ever had!
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
Sexual Tips for Guys- How to Find Her Sweet Spot
Finding sexual tips that’ll improve your lovemaking can be extremely difficult with all of all of the conflicting information that’s out there. In fact, every site seems to disagree on what is the best technique for pleasing your woman.
So how do you know where to start when looking for advice which will improve your sex life?
Well that’s a hard question to answer…
While there are a number of ways to please a woman, a great lover knows the key to fulfilling her every desire starts before the act of sex. If you can find her “sweet-spots”, then you’ll be one step closer to giving her the big “O”!
What are these sweet spots?
Since every woman is different, I can’t list every area that turns her on. But what I can do is talk about different areas that are commonly known to be sources of great pleasure. If you pay attention to the sexual tips provided in this article and concentrate on these areas, you’ll definitely rock her world!
If you haven’t guessed it by now, the sweet spots I’ve been talking about are called erogenous zones. These are areas on a woman which produce excitement whenever stimulated.
While you might think the only erogenous zone on a woman is her breasts, in truth there are a lot of areas which can get her excited when properly stimulated.
If you’re having trouble locating her erogenous zones, here are few areas where you can start:
Her Neck-
Women’s necks are probably the most sensitive area on her body. If you learn to properly kiss and caress this area, you’ll probably drive her wild. When playing with her neck, you should try to gently run your fingers along it and kiss this area lightly. Another thing that works is to lightly nibble her neck.
Her Hands-
A woman’s sense of touch is very important to her. That’s why knowing how to caress and kiss her hands can build quickly build excitement.
Try playing with her fingers, running your hands along her palms and even giving her a hand massage. Focusing on her hands is a powerful technique because most guys never take the opportunity to concentrate on this area.
Her Ears-
A woman’s ear is another really sensitive area. She’ll probably go nuts if you nibble or lick her ears.
One word of caution though, sensitivity in a woman’s ears often varies. Some love it, while others hate it. So be cautious, start slowly and test out her reactions.
Her Feet-
If you’ve ever seen the movie ‘Pulp Fiction’, then you know the power of a good foot massage. By learning to caress and touch a woman’s feet without tickling her, she’ll practically melt in your arms.
Try giving her a foot massage by gently touching and kneading this area. Look for her reactions and then move on from there.
Her Inner Thighs-
This area on a woman is incredibly sensitive to touch. Since her inner thigh is an area which is close to the ‘promised land’, you have to earn her trust you before you start to caress this area.
Try stroking this area, perhaps even kiss it (if she allows you to). She’ll love you for it!
The erogenous zones on women can be a constant source of excitement and pleasure. By knowing how to properly stimulate these areas, you’ll have her practically ripping your clothes off, begging for sex.
All you have to do is follow the erogenous zone sexual tips that I provided in this article, and you’ll be one step closer to becoming her best lover!
Want to learn 50 different ways to
meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s
Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 29, 2006
4 Sexual Foreplay Tips That’ll Drive Her Wild and Make Her Beg For More
The secret to great sex begins long before you get into the bedroom. In fact, you can easily create a pleasurable sex session simply by knowing how to do one thing really well.
Want to know what that one thing is?
It’s called foreplay!
To have great sex all you need to know is how to be really good at foreplay. If you can master this technique, you’ll have women begging you for sex.
So if you’re serious about pleasing your woman, then pay close attention to the 4 sexual foreplay tips that I am describing in the next few paragraphs.
Tip #1- Make her feel special in public
The first of your sexual foreplay tips starts way before you even get your woman in the bedroom. In truth it can start HOURS before you even think of having sex.
It works like this…
When you’re out in the public, do little things that’ll put her in the mindset for what will happen later. You want her to know how attracted you are to her and how beautiful you think she is.
To demonstrate these feelings, you should kiss her or constantly touch her. If you’re at a bar or club, dance with her suggestively and touch her like she’s the last woman on earth.
The more you do to arouse her, the easier it’ll be to ramp up the foreplay when you’re alone.
Tip #2- Give Her a Sensual Massage
When you’re finally alone in the bedroom, you can start one of my favorite sexual foreplay tips- the sensual massage!
If you really want to get her in the mood for sex, a sensual massage can be the perfect tool.
You can start massaging her by rubbing her shoulders and neck. After doing this for awhile, move on to more intimate areas like her chest, lower back and upper thighs. In addition, you should use special oils that carry pleasant fragrances and warm these areas.
Since massages are a great way to get a woman in the mood for sex, it’s important to learn these techniques. If you don’t know how to give sensual massages, it’s definitely worth your time to read up on them and learn different techniques. Then practice till you are perfect at giving them
Tip #3- kiss her the Right Way
After massaging her, you should start kissing her. What you want to do is kiss her slowly at first then see how she reacts. Eventually you’ll see your woman become passionate. That’s your cue to start building up the intensity of your kissing.
Another thing to remember when kissing her is to explore other areas of her body with your kissing. You can also try kissing her neck, upper chest and ears.
Women are sensitive creatures, so you’ll score some serious points by knowing how to kiss and explore the areas around her face.
Tip #4- Make Things More Intimate
Eventually your kissing and foreplay will naturally lead to sex. As you make the transition, it’s important to take your time and not rush things.
Use this opportunity to undress each other and explore one another’s body. Then start with oral sex to get things really going. The key to this step is to delay the act of sex and tease her. If you can make her really want to have sex with you, she’ll go nuts once you “consummate the act”.
Foreplay is a key ingredient to a healthy sexual experience. If you can learn and use these four sexual foreplay tips, she’ll probably rip your clothes off in passion every time she sees you.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 24, 2006
5 Easy Tips to Seduce Women
Transitioning from talking to a girl to having sex with her can be a difficult process.
While it’s easy to engage a woman in a conversation, it can be hard to move things into the bedroom and get more intimate. Unless you come across that rare woman, you’ll need to learn the art of seduction.
So if you’re having problems getting a girl to have sex with you, have no fear!
All you need to seduce a woman is the proper technique and a bit of practice. Today, I’ll provide you with five tips to seduce women. If you take the time to learn each and implement them when you’re with a woman, you’ll find it’s pretty easy to make things more intimate.
Let’s get started…
Tip 1- Make her attracted to you
Before you can seduce a woman, you have to make sure she’s attracted to you. Without this, the other tips to seduce women won’t help. So it all starts here.
When you’re talking to her, flirt heavily and introduce the topic of sex into your conversation. Also, don’t be afraid to tease and fun with her.
The more relaxed she is in your presence, the easier it’ll be to seduce her.
Tip 2- Initiated physical contact
This is one of the most important tips to seduce women!
During your conversation, touch her when you want to make a point. In addition, initiate physical contact as much as you can without going overboard.
Seduction is not about whipping your clothes off and jumping in the sack. It’s about building attracted and chemistry.
By initiating physical contact, you’re getting her comfortable with you. If she keeps on shying away when touching, then that means she’s probably not interested in you in as a sexual partner.
Tip 3- Move things to a private location
Again this one of those tips to seduce women that has to be done before the last two can work.
In order to seduce her, you have to be in a location where you can do the deed. Unless you like the idea of having sex in the middle of a bar, you need to move things back to one of your places.
Now in order to do this, she has to trust you!
So when you’re flirting with her in your conversation, work on being trustworthy. Don’t do or say anything off the wall. The more she trusts you, the easier it is to seduce her.
If she knows you won’t bite (unless she asks), then it’ll be fairly easy to move things to a private spot.
Tip 4- kiss her passionately
After you’re in a private spot, it’s time to start making things more physical. Here’s how to do it…
Once you’ve been touching her and see the signs that she’s attracted, you can kiss her. Now it’s important to go slowly and not ram your tongue down her throat.
Instead, kiss her slowly and lightly. Then when you see her respond, you can make things more intense.
Tip 5- Build up the intensity
To conclude these tips to seduce women, you’ll move from kissing her to having sex.
After kissing her for awhile, start to tease her. Kiss her neck, nibble a little bit on her neck and lightly pull her hair.
Your focus here is to do all you can to her on. So take your time and concentrate on HER pleasure, not yours.
After teasing, you can start with other means of foreplay. If you’ve done the previous steps properly, it’ll be easy to transition into having sex with her.
Just remember to take your time and build things up slowly.
If you follow these five tips to seduce women, you’ll find it’s easy to have sex with a woman. All you have to remember seduction is a process of building up attraction and developing trust. If you learn these methods and practice them, you’ll find it’s a simple process to seduce a woman.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 12, 2006
Do You Know How to Kiss a Girl?
It’s often said that a woman will judge a man as a sexual partner by the first kiss they share!
If a guy can give her a sensual, electric filled kiss, she’ll start to wonder what he’ll be like “in the sack”. Furthermore, a well done kiss can quickly alter a woman’s perception of a guy. In other words, he’ll go from a dud to stud in no time!
That’s why knowing how to kiss a girl is one of the most important skills that a guy can learn.
The problem with most men is they think they’ve already mastered the art of kissing. Many of them think their past experience with women makes them a master at kissing. But the truth is a lot of girls think that most of the guys they’ve kissed do not live up to their expectations.
So statistically speaking you probably need to learn how to kiss a girl.
The good news is learning how to kiss a girl is actually a fairly simple process. All you have to follow a simple formula which has been proven to work for hundreds of years.
It works like this…
First you should establish contact with her.
Jumping into a kiss without establishing any sort of body contact will end up surprising her. The best way to prepare her for a kiss is to touch her during your conversation. Whether it’s her arm, shoulder or hair, touching her will do wonders for building attraction.
The next step is to get rid of any nervousness or tension.
If you’ve been talking to a girl for awhile, you can tell if she wants to be kissed. Usually she’ll give you cues like maintaining eye contact or looking at your lips. When you see these signs, it means she wants to be kissed!
Since you see indicators which show she wants to be kissed, don’t feel nervous! By demonstrating signs of interest, she’s practically guaranteeing she won’t reject your attempt to kiss her.
When you see signs of interest, don’t hesitate! Go for the kiss!
You should lock eyes with her, angle your head, and then slowly move towards her. If you’ve read her signals right, she’ll move towards you and the two of you will start to kiss.
Now once you’re kissing her, it’s important to start slowly and be gentle at first. While you might want to build passion and intensity, it’s critical that you avoid jumping the gun and jamming your tongue down her throat.
By starting out in a slow sensual manner, you’ll be able to build up an incredible amount of intensity which can be used later. As your kissing progresses, you can try open mouthed kisses and a little bit of tongue. A simple trick is to read her signals and follow what she wants.
The last step is to take the time to experiment and find out what she wants.
Try varying the intensity and kiss her in different places. This can mean her face, neck and the upper part of her chest. As you do this, you’ll start to notice her reactions will be much more passionate.
Knowing how to kiss a girl is an important step to developing a *hot and heavy* encounter. If you take the time to build up intensity, it’ll be easy to move beyond kissing into a more intimate scenario.
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December 10, 2006
4 Explosive Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Orgasm
Having a healthy sex life is an important part to a healthy relationship. When both parties are truly enjoying themselves, it’s quite easy to develop a very sexual bond between the two of you. But when a guy has trouble making his girlfriend orgasm, it can have a devastating impact on his relationship.
So if you find yourself having difficulty in this area and secretly wonder how to make your girlfriend orgasm, then this article is for you!
As you read on, I’ll reveal four simple techniques that’ll give your girlfriend powerful orgasms.
Step 1- Train yourself to go longer
Making your girlfriend orgasm starts with how you *treat yourself* before the actual encounter. We all know that guys masturbate (probably more frequently then we’d like to admit), so if you feel the urge to masturbate, don’t fight it. In fact, giving in to these urges will probably help your next session.
When you feel the urge to *take care of business*, make sure you have a lengthy session. If you do this often, you’ll train yourself to go for a long time before climaxing.
Step 2- Make her feel like the most important person in the world
If you want to make your girlfriend orgasm, you have to get into the habit of letting her know how much she means to you. When your next sexual session begins, tell her how much you’re attracted to her and what you love about her. If you say these statements with a strong level of confidence, she’ll love it and start to be really turned on!
By taking the time to set up your sexual encounter, you’ll discover it’s pretty easy to turn her on simply by using the power of your voice.
Step 3- Take your time and give her foreplay
Another explosive way to make your girlfriend orgasm is to make sure you give her enough foreplay. Keep talking to her in a commanding voice and let her know that you’re in control. After you do this, start kissing her all over and exploring her body.
You can heighten her emotional state by taking time in areas that are often ignored. Also the longer you delay the *main act*, the more worked up she’ll get.
Step 4- Commence with the main event
While doing foreplay, you should ease into having sex with her. This is where it’s important to take your time. What you should do is tease her and make her want it real bad. In addition, try altering your speeds between fast and slow. If you do your job right, she’ll start going crazy, maybe even orgasm!
One final thing…All women are different with the ways they achieve orgasm. So when you’re having sex, try to listen to her breathing and reactions. If she seems really into something continue with that act and see where it goes.
Bottom line if you want to make your girlfriend orgasm, follow these four steps, If you make sure her needs come first, you’ll discover that it’s quite easy for her to climax.
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December 7, 2006
3 Easy Steps to Improving Sexual Performance with a Woman
One of the biggest fears that men have is not being “good in bed” when they are with a women. By being unable to perform, they think their women will be turned-off and perhaps want to find a different lover. In fact, improving sexual performance is regarded as one of the most important topics among men.
So if you are worried about improving sexual performance when you’re with a woman, there are a few simple steps that you can take:
1- Get Rid of Your Anxiety
The biggest obstacle to having great sex is to make sure that you’re not too anxious about any sexual encounter. It is widely known that fear and apprehension is the top way to kill any sex session.
Unfortunately sexual anxiety is a vicious circle. The more you worry about doing well, the worse off you’ll be. If you want to get rid of anxiety and increase sexual performance, you should simply stop worrying about doing well. If you take the time to just enjoy the encounter and not worry about being “great in bed”, you’ll discover that you’ll improve your sexual performance.
2- Get More Exercise
According to numerous health professionals, regular exercise sessions are one of the keys to improving sexual performance. By exercising, you’ll increase your levels of sexual desire and performance.
In addition, regular exercise sessions activates the blood flow to the sympathetic nervous system and encourages blood flow to your genital region. Ultimately this will help reduce any dysfunction of “your equipment”.
So if you want to enhance sexual performance, make sure that you get out there and start exercising.
3- Go See a Doctor
There are a lot of men who have trouble improving sexual performance due to a medical or psychological problem. So if you’ve tried everything and still cannot increase your sexual performance, you might have a situation that requires medical advice. That means setting an appointment and seeing a doctor.
When talking to a medical professional, explain your condition and work together to find out the underlying problems. Find out if it’ a medical condition or if it’s due to a psychological problem. Then follow any recommendations that he or she advises.
Improving sexual performance is one of the keys to successful relationships and a healthy lifestyle. By taking the time to reduce sexual performance anxiety, exercise more and see a doctor for prolonged problems, you’ll discover that it’s quite easy to have better sex.
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