[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 4
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 12th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 4
Well, here is the conclusion to our four part series focusing on how to make a woman remember you. In these tips, I’ve discussed how to make a lasting impression on every woman that you meet. The focus of these articles is to take specific actions that will make women excited to see you after you’re initial meeting.
In this final section, I’ll discuss what to do to build up physical attraction and hopefully land a date.
Establish physical contact
The best way to quickly create attraction with a woman is to establish physical contact. Whether you touch her to emphasize a point or use cold reading techniques to touch her hand, some level of touching must be initiated. By doing this, you’ll trigger her attraction levels simply by touching her.
Be exciting
Women want adventures in their lives. This is especially true for the guys that they want to date. So when you first meet a woman, you have to give the impression that you’re a person who can be provide her with exciting things to do.
The best way to demonstrate excitement is to learn how to tell interesting stories about funny little anecdotes in your life. These stories should showcase the fact that she’ll HAVE FUN when she’s around you.
Now one way to be really exciting AND make a lasting impression is to discuss things that you’re doing during the week. Talk about these things like they’re going to be the greatest time EVER.
This leads us into the last tips…
The right way to set up a date
If you follow the advice from the last tip, then you’ll have planted the seeds for creating the perfect date opportunity. When you bring up a great event you’re attending, you’re making it seem like you have a great life.
The key to setting up a date is to talk about this event and then ask her if she “wants to tag along”. By asking her out in this manner, you’re giving the impression that you’re exciting while not directly asking for a date. Instead you’re appearing like a cool guy, who will give her a great time.
Well, that concludes our four part series on how to make a woman remember you. If you followed the 12 tips I’ve described in this plan, you’ll definitely behave like a guy who ALL women will remember. Then you’ll easily be the guy they want to date and become intimate with.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 3
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 11th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 3
Welcome to part 3 of how to act like a guy who women will remember! In these tips, I provide a few simple ways you can act in a manner which will make you stand out from other guys.
Today I’m going to cover three more ways you can make a lasting impression with EVERY woman you meet.
Let’s get started…
Act like a lover not a provider
When you first meet a woman, she’ll instantly place you into TWO categories: Lover or Provider
When you act like a lover, you behave in a sexually aware manner with your body language and communication. This triggers her attraction levels and makes her want to pursue you.
When you act like a provider, you show yourself as guy who takes care of women and treats them like queen. This is the type of guy who takes women on dates and tries to woo them. Women generally delay sex with these guys and let THEM do the pursuing.
If you want to make a lasting impression with a woman, you MUST act like a LOVER. Women are always meeting guys who act like providers. So instead of doing things which supplicate yourself to a woman, you need to act in a way which demonstrates sexual characteristics.
Have standards
Women don’t want to be around guys who will accept ANY girl. Instead they want to be with guys who aren’t afraid to set standards and make people adhere to them. By showing a core set of beliefs, you’ll act like a strong guy who isn’t afraid to call somebody out when he or she doesn’t fit with his ideal image of a friend or lover.
The best to show this is to talk about what you like and don’t like in women. Then bring up specific incidents where you weren’t afraid to walk away from a woman who didn’t fit your ideal image. You’ll find that almost every woman will act in a manner to fit in with your standards.
Don’t complain about things
Women are NOT attracted to weak men.
I hate to be this brutal, but if you act in a way which shows weakness and lack of confidence, you’ll quickly destroy any chance of attracting a woman. Even if you’re not happy in your life, don’t use a conversation to talk about the things that are wrong in your life.
Instead of behaving in whiny manner, you should do things which show a strength of character.
Be a man
Now that we’re on the topic of talking about strength of character, let’s focus on what it means to be a man. If you can demonstrate core personality traits, you’ll act like a man who ALL women want to date.
For instance, to become a MAN, you should learn how to show these traits:
- Initiative
- Honesty
- Calmness
- Confidence
- Deliberateness
- Humor
- Leadership
If you can cultivate EACH of these traits, you’ll easily become a guy who women will definitely remember.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
June 8, 2007
[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 2
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 7th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 2
Continuing with yesterday’s tip, we’re going to discuss how to make a woman remember you. As I mentioned before, it’s important to take specific actions to stand out in a woman’s mind. If you can make her remember you, then it’ll be easier to build attraction and set up more dates.
Here are 3 more ways you can give the impression that you’re a completely unique AND interesting guy:
Play hard to get
One of the ways that guys turn off women is to be too aggressive at first. Although women LOVE sexual tension, it’s important to not make any overt moves when you first meet a woman. Instead of trying to “put the moves” on a woman, you should focus on building trust and comfort. By not trying to hook up with a woman right away, you’ll act like you don’t NEED her approval for your own sense of identity.
Act in a sexual manner
Now while it’s important to not come across in a predatory manner, it’s equally vital that you act in a way which triggers her attraction mechanisms. The best method for doing this is to introduce sexual tension into the conversation. This can be accomplished by telling stories and teasing her in a seduction manner.
The key to this trait is to never tell her that you’re attracted to her. Instead just introduce sex into the conversation and just let the conversation flow from there.
Misinterpret everything
In the last tip, I discussed the “cocky-funny” technique. While I think it’s important to incorporate this into your overall personality, the most important aspect of this trait is to communicate with women on a different level then other guys.
One of the best ways to do this is to take ALL her comments and misinterpret them as her “coming on to you”.
For instance, you can start the conversation about how “she’s moving too fast for your tastes” or “you don’t know if you can commit to a girl like her”. If you do this in a joking manner, she’ll eat it up.
Well, that completes part 2 of our tips on how to make a woman remember you. In the next few days, we’ll cover a few more ways to create a lasting impression with attractive women.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 1
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 7th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 1
Women are strange creatures! You might meet a woman, talk to her for awhile, create attraction and then get her number. But when you go to call her, she won’t return your messages.
This makes you wonder “what did do wrong?”. Well to be honest, while you’re probably a great guy, if this is happening to you then you’re not doing something right when you’re talking to women. Specifically you’re not making a strong enough impression on the women you’re meeting.
In order to make women remember you, it’s important to do specific things which will make you stand out in her mind. So YOUR goal is to do positive and rememberable things each time you meet a woman. In the next couple of posts, I’ll cover about a dozen ways you can make a strong impression on a woman so she CAN’T wait for you to call her.
Be a cocky-funny Guy
I cannot stress this enough, but being a cocky-funny guy is probably the best way to stand out in a woman’s mind. Women, especially beautiful ones, are used to having guys kiss their ass. By acting an arrogant, yet humorous manner, you’ll put her in a relaxed and fun state of mind. Furthermore, if you can pick out small flaws in her and turn it into a funny joke, you’ll get her laughing even if it’s at HER expense.
Demonstrate Higher Value
One of the ways to attract a woman is to prove that you’re a higher status male. Women WANT to be with guys who are providers of good times and make them feel like they’re in the presence of someone who is important. That’s why you have to demonstrate that you are high status guy.
The good thing is you can demonstrate higher value without have money, fame or power. All you have to do is make an instant connection to her emotions. This can be easily done by doing cold reading tests, Eliciting Values (EV) or telling specific stories.
Ask interesting questions
Most guys make the critical mistake of asking “interview type” questions to a woman. These are the boring “Name, rank, serial number” questions like “What’s your job” or “Where you from”. I’m going to be honest here. These questions are one the quickest ways to KILL attraction. If you want to think of her in an exciting way, you have to ask interesting questions. This will help you stand apart from the other wusses who ask boring questions.
For instance, you should ask questions which connect instantly to her emotions. They should involve drama, excitement and humor. Don’t be afraid to ask her questions like “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?” or “What is the one thing you want to do before you die?” By asking questions directed to her emotions, you’ll spark a high level of attraction.
Well, that’s it for today’s tip! Tomorrow, I’m going to cover more ways you can make a lasting impression on ANY woman you meet.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
April 26, 2007
[AWTD] Why Being Childish Around Women Can Be Attractive
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 26th, 2007.
Why Being Childish Around Women Can Be Attractive
As you can see from the title of this post, today I’m going to talk about why being childish can be attractive to women.
Now before you start to wonder if I’ve lost my mind, let me explain something…
When I talk about childish, I mean having a playful sense of humor and attitude when talking to a woman. Instead of being boring and stuffy, you act in a way that conveys a natural level of confidence while showing a fun side of you. Now in addition to being funny, you also show positive personality traits like confidence, strength of character and honesty.
So how do you act childish without demonstrating too much of an immature personality?
It’s simple, you follow the advice of seduction master Neil Strauss (aka: Neil Strauss) when he says that everything from the 2nd grade is funny again.
With this attitude, you have fun with the women you’re around.
For instance, you can playfully do the following:
- Teasing a girl about the way she’s acting
- Mock fighting with her
- Playing practical jokes on her
- Telling slightly risky jokes
As I said before, the idea behind this attitude is to have fun with your interactions. This also means that when you start acting this way, you should be prepared for a woman to give it back to you.
By creating a fun and silly atmosphere, you’ll reduce tension and show a fun side of your personality.
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March 29, 2007
[AWTD] Competence and Authority Attracts Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 26th, 2007.
Competence and Authority Attracts Women
One thing women find really attractive in men is their strength. Now when I say strength, I don’t mean physical prowess and a large muscular body.
Instead I’m talking about strength as a personality trait which can magnetically draw women to you. A strong guy can be someone a woman can look to for protection or advice. In essence, his personality can protect her from her concerns.
So how do cultivate this personality trait?
Well it’s simple…
All you have to do is work on your ability to become a competent person in everything you do. What you want to do is eliminate all the wishy-washy behaviors you have and eliminate body language which projects an unsure attitude.
For instance some wussy behaviors could include:
- Stuttering or stammering when nervous
- Being indecisive about what you want to do
- Look to others for cues about what to do
- Following not leading
In addition to your body language there are certain phrases which demonstrate a lack of competence. So ditch all the phrases you say like:
- “I don’t know”
- “I’m not sure”
- “Maybe” or “Probably”
Your ultimate goal is to be perceived a strong person who can make instant decisions with force and conviction. And once you’ve cultivated this personality, you’ll instantly become a strong and attractive guy.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 26, 2007
[AWTD] Share a Popular Song With Her
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 26th, 2007.
[AWTD] Share a Popular Song With Her
An important way to build attraction with a woman is to get her to think of you when you’re not around.
Now in order to get her thinking of you is to create some sort of memory which is attached to a positive emotion. Typically this memory could be a fun date or a private moment the two of you share.
But I have one really good tip…
The next time you’re with a woman and you hear a popular song on the radio, start singing it…OFF KEY! While typically I don’t like to anything goofy around women, I find this one technique works really well.
If you can sing the song in a memorable way and try to get her join in you have created…
A MEMORY!
What’s great is music is an important part of everyone’s life, so she will probably hear this song multiple times. And everytime she does, she’ll THINK OF YOU!
By sharing a popular song together, you can have her thinking of you for years.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 19, 2006
[AWTD] How to Build Rapport With Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 19th, 2006.
[AWTD] How to Build Rapport With Women
You ever feel that instant connection with a woman?
Sparks are flying and you feel like you’ve known her forever. In fact your conversation is going so well, you feel like could talk to her forever!
Well this is connection is often called “rapport”
So what is rapport and how can you use it to quickly build attraction with a woman?
In a dating sense, rapport can be defined as two people who are in sync with one another and feel heightened levels of attraction. When it occurs, two people can quickly build levels of trust with one other which could quickly lead to an intimate experience.
If you can establish rapport with a woman, it becomes very easy to get her on a date. And if you’re on a date, rapport can help you transition into a sexual encounter.
Rapport can be built when you share a common interest with a woman. Since people tend to be passionate about their hobbies and interests, you can help her transfer these feelings to you.
So when you’re talking to a woman, try to find things that you have in common and center your conversations around them. If you do this, you’ll discover it’s pretty easy to establish rapport with a woman.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 15, 2006
6 Surefire Ways to Have Amazing Conversations with Women
Building rapport with a woman is vital to creating attraction within her. Without it, a conversation can become stale. Ultimately engaging a woman in a boring discussion will make her quickly find somebody else to talk to.
But there is an easy way you can create a dynamic conversation which will engage a woman and quickly build rapport. Here are six easy ways you can do this:
1- Have genuine curiosity about her
Every woman is different. Use your conversation to open her up and find out what makes her unique.
By taking a genuine interest in a woman and her life, you’ll discover there is a lot to talk about.
2- Have fun with her and the conversation
When you’re talking to a woman, make sure you’re in a fun and flirtatious mood. By honestly enjoying yourself, it’ll be a lot easier to get her to open up and find you more interesting.
3- Master the art of listening
One common complaint from women is how guys never listen to them. You can easily put the reputation to rest if you listen to everything she tells you.
In addition, by paying attention to what she talks about, it’ll become easy to pick up on conversation threads and lead them towards *interesting* topics.
4- Bring sexuality and flirting into the conversation
Don’t make the mistake of not discussing sex or flirting with a woman when you first start talking to her. This is a bad move, because avoiding the topic will make it harder to build *chemistry* with her.
Use this opportunity to talk about sex in a funny manner and flirt with her shamelessly.
5- Bring up off the wall questions and silly topics
Having a sense of humor when you’re talking to a woman is a great way to build rapport. Don’t afraid to bring up funny stories or ask her slightly off-beat questions.
6- Ask her opinion on different topics
When you ask a woman’s opinion, you’re practically giving her license to do most of the talking. You can really get the ball rolling if you ask her opinions on certain things like current events, work, hobbies, sex, family and relationships.
One bit of caution!
Stay away from hot points like religion, politics, abortion, etc. The last thing you want to do is get into a heated debate.
Any conversation with a woman should be done in a fun and flirtatious manner. In other words, it shouldn’t be like a job interview.
If you learn to relax and implement the six tips I provided in this article, you’ll have no problem building rapport and attraction with any woman.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 8, 2006
How to Get a Girl to Like You
Imagine this…
You’re in a situation where you see an incredibly attractive and attractive woman. She is everything you want in a woman. In fact, just the thought of being with her makes your heart pound with anticipation.
You’re really into her, but you feel afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. You know making the wrong move could spell disaster!
So what do you do?
Well the good news is this is a common situation. In fact, many of my readers often ask about how to get a girl to like you. They think there is some magical script that’ll make a girl automatically fall in love with them.
But instead of looking for a magical solution, you should instead focus on building rapport with the girl you like.
What exactly is rapport?
Well rapport is basically a subconscious connection with another human being. For instance, you probably have rapport with your best friend. You both have similar interests and often find a sense of commonality which makes you friends.
But with the girl you like, rapport can take an entirely different form. When you’re interested in a woman, rapport can mean a build up of romantic/sexual feelings. It’s what we commonly know as “hitting it off” with another person.
Instead of trying to figure out how to get a girl to like you, you should try to work on building rapport her.
To be honest, building rapport with a woman isn’t that hard to do. All you have to do is create a state of positive emotion and try to make a connection during this period. By giving off a positive vibe, you’ll discover that women will find you very attractive.
Here’s how to create a positive state and quickly build rapport:
First off women are attracted to guys who are energetic and full of life. So when you’re around a woman you like, make sure you give off positive energy, which means that you are having fun and smiling. Also get rid of any negative feelings or emotions which can quickly destroy any rapport that you two might develop.
Next you should make sure you’re confident about your interaction. Even if you’re not a confident person, you should at least give off the vibe that you’re enjoying yourself.
The final step is to remove all worries about the outcome of your interaction with a girl. There will be a lot of times where a particular woman is not interested in you. While it’s always important to be persistent, it’s equally important to know there will always be some girls who aren’t going to be interested in you. By not worrying about the outcome, you’ll internalize the fact you cannot succeed every time and won’t bee too wrapped in whether a girl will likes you or not.
By taking the time to build rapport with a girl, you’ll discover that it’s pretty easy to get her to be attracted to you. So if you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you, the answer is to work at building rapport with her!
Want to learn 50 different ways to
meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s
Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.