[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 4
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 12th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 4
Well, here is the conclusion to our four part series focusing on how to make a woman remember you. In these tips, I’ve discussed how to make a lasting impression on every woman that you meet. The focus of these articles is to take specific actions that will make women excited to see you after you’re initial meeting.
In this final section, I’ll discuss what to do to build up physical attraction and hopefully land a date.
Establish physical contact
The best way to quickly create attraction with a woman is to establish physical contact. Whether you touch her to emphasize a point or use cold reading techniques to touch her hand, some level of touching must be initiated. By doing this, you’ll trigger her attraction levels simply by touching her.
Be exciting
Women want adventures in their lives. This is especially true for the guys that they want to date. So when you first meet a woman, you have to give the impression that you’re a person who can be provide her with exciting things to do.
The best way to demonstrate excitement is to learn how to tell interesting stories about funny little anecdotes in your life. These stories should showcase the fact that she’ll HAVE FUN when she’s around you.
Now one way to be really exciting AND make a lasting impression is to discuss things that you’re doing during the week. Talk about these things like they’re going to be the greatest time EVER.
This leads us into the last tips…
The right way to set up a date
If you follow the advice from the last tip, then you’ll have planted the seeds for creating the perfect date opportunity. When you bring up a great event you’re attending, you’re making it seem like you have a great life.
The key to setting up a date is to talk about this event and then ask her if she “wants to tag along”. By asking her out in this manner, you’re giving the impression that you’re exciting while not directly asking for a date. Instead you’re appearing like a cool guy, who will give her a great time.
Well, that concludes our four part series on how to make a woman remember you. If you followed the 12 tips I’ve described in this plan, you’ll definitely behave like a guy who ALL women will remember. Then you’ll easily be the guy they want to date and become intimate with.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 3
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 11th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 3
Welcome to part 3 of how to act like a guy who women will remember! In these tips, I provide a few simple ways you can act in a manner which will make you stand out from other guys.
Today I’m going to cover three more ways you can make a lasting impression with EVERY woman you meet.
Let’s get started…
Act like a lover not a provider
When you first meet a woman, she’ll instantly place you into TWO categories: Lover or Provider
When you act like a lover, you behave in a sexually aware manner with your body language and communication. This triggers her attraction levels and makes her want to pursue you.
When you act like a provider, you show yourself as guy who takes care of women and treats them like queen. This is the type of guy who takes women on dates and tries to woo them. Women generally delay sex with these guys and let THEM do the pursuing.
If you want to make a lasting impression with a woman, you MUST act like a LOVER. Women are always meeting guys who act like providers. So instead of doing things which supplicate yourself to a woman, you need to act in a way which demonstrates sexual characteristics.
Have standards
Women don’t want to be around guys who will accept ANY girl. Instead they want to be with guys who aren’t afraid to set standards and make people adhere to them. By showing a core set of beliefs, you’ll act like a strong guy who isn’t afraid to call somebody out when he or she doesn’t fit with his ideal image of a friend or lover.
The best to show this is to talk about what you like and don’t like in women. Then bring up specific incidents where you weren’t afraid to walk away from a woman who didn’t fit your ideal image. You’ll find that almost every woman will act in a manner to fit in with your standards.
Don’t complain about things
Women are NOT attracted to weak men.
I hate to be this brutal, but if you act in a way which shows weakness and lack of confidence, you’ll quickly destroy any chance of attracting a woman. Even if you’re not happy in your life, don’t use a conversation to talk about the things that are wrong in your life.
Instead of behaving in whiny manner, you should do things which show a strength of character.
Be a man
Now that we’re on the topic of talking about strength of character, let’s focus on what it means to be a man. If you can demonstrate core personality traits, you’ll act like a man who ALL women want to date.
For instance, to become a MAN, you should learn how to show these traits:
- Initiative
- Honesty
- Calmness
- Confidence
- Deliberateness
- Humor
- Leadership
If you can cultivate EACH of these traits, you’ll easily become a guy who women will definitely remember.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
June 8, 2007
[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 2
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 7th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 2
Continuing with yesterday’s tip, we’re going to discuss how to make a woman remember you. As I mentioned before, it’s important to take specific actions to stand out in a woman’s mind. If you can make her remember you, then it’ll be easier to build attraction and set up more dates.
Here are 3 more ways you can give the impression that you’re a completely unique AND interesting guy:
Play hard to get
One of the ways that guys turn off women is to be too aggressive at first. Although women LOVE sexual tension, it’s important to not make any overt moves when you first meet a woman. Instead of trying to “put the moves” on a woman, you should focus on building trust and comfort. By not trying to hook up with a woman right away, you’ll act like you don’t NEED her approval for your own sense of identity.
Act in a sexual manner
Now while it’s important to not come across in a predatory manner, it’s equally vital that you act in a way which triggers her attraction mechanisms. The best method for doing this is to introduce sexual tension into the conversation. This can be accomplished by telling stories and teasing her in a seduction manner.
The key to this trait is to never tell her that you’re attracted to her. Instead just introduce sex into the conversation and just let the conversation flow from there.
Misinterpret everything
In the last tip, I discussed the “cocky-funny” technique. While I think it’s important to incorporate this into your overall personality, the most important aspect of this trait is to communicate with women on a different level then other guys.
One of the best ways to do this is to take ALL her comments and misinterpret them as her “coming on to you”.
For instance, you can start the conversation about how “she’s moving too fast for your tastes” or “you don’t know if you can commit to a girl like her”. If you do this in a joking manner, she’ll eat it up.
Well, that completes part 2 of our tips on how to make a woman remember you. In the next few days, we’ll cover a few more ways to create a lasting impression with attractive women.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
[AWTD] How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 1
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 7th, 2007.
How to Make a Woman Remember You Part 1
Women are strange creatures! You might meet a woman, talk to her for awhile, create attraction and then get her number. But when you go to call her, she won’t return your messages.
This makes you wonder “what did do wrong?”. Well to be honest, while you’re probably a great guy, if this is happening to you then you’re not doing something right when you’re talking to women. Specifically you’re not making a strong enough impression on the women you’re meeting.
In order to make women remember you, it’s important to do specific things which will make you stand out in her mind. So YOUR goal is to do positive and rememberable things each time you meet a woman. In the next couple of posts, I’ll cover about a dozen ways you can make a strong impression on a woman so she CAN’T wait for you to call her.
Be a cocky-funny Guy
I cannot stress this enough, but being a cocky-funny guy is probably the best way to stand out in a woman’s mind. Women, especially beautiful ones, are used to having guys kiss their ass. By acting an arrogant, yet humorous manner, you’ll put her in a relaxed and fun state of mind. Furthermore, if you can pick out small flaws in her and turn it into a funny joke, you’ll get her laughing even if it’s at HER expense.
Demonstrate Higher Value
One of the ways to attract a woman is to prove that you’re a higher status male. Women WANT to be with guys who are providers of good times and make them feel like they’re in the presence of someone who is important. That’s why you have to demonstrate that you are high status guy.
The good thing is you can demonstrate higher value without have money, fame or power. All you have to do is make an instant connection to her emotions. This can be easily done by doing cold reading tests, Eliciting Values (EV) or telling specific stories.
Ask interesting questions
Most guys make the critical mistake of asking “interview type” questions to a woman. These are the boring “Name, rank, serial number” questions like “What’s your job” or “Where you from”. I’m going to be honest here. These questions are one the quickest ways to KILL attraction. If you want to think of her in an exciting way, you have to ask interesting questions. This will help you stand apart from the other wusses who ask boring questions.
For instance, you should ask questions which connect instantly to her emotions. They should involve drama, excitement and humor. Don’t be afraid to ask her questions like “What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?” or “What is the one thing you want to do before you die?” By asking questions directed to her emotions, you’ll spark a high level of attraction.
Well, that’s it for today’s tip! Tomorrow, I’m going to cover more ways you can make a lasting impression on ANY woman you meet.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
May 11, 2007
How to Overcome Your Shyness Around Women
Do you find that you become shy around women?
Is your shyness affecting your dating life?
If so, there is good news. You can overcome your shyness with a few easy steps and finally have the dating life you want. For many men, their shyness is why they simply avoid approaching women or even try to attract them. Your shyness may be preventing you from meeting the beautiful women you watch other men meet and take home.
Here are a few tips to help you finally eliminate your shyness and become that confident man women are attracted to and desire.
Let go of your expectations!
Yes, when trying to meet a woman, the initial conversation is the means to an end. Ultimately, you desire to get her number or secure a date. However, going into the conversation focusing on your expectation of the outcome is a good way to reduce your chance of success.
Relax, enjoy the conversation and have fun. It should go without saying that the topics of the conversation should be light. Do not get into your dating history or emotional baggage, even if she asks. Remember, just concentrate on how much you are enjoying talking to her.
Repeat to yourself “I don’t care. I don’t care.” Okay, avoid taking that advice too literally. But, the point is that you should not care about the outcome. If she does not give you her number in the end, there will be other opportunities. Just consider it practice for next time.
Know what you want to happen!
Now, you are probably thinking right now that I have contradicted myself with this second tip. Let me explain a bit further. I suggested above that you let go of your expectations for the outcome of the conversation. However, you must still have a plan of action and go into the conversation knowing what you want.
Do not dwell on the outcome during the conversation, but you must determine the purpose of that conversation. Do you want a date with her? Do you want to get her number? Do you want to sleep with her? Or, do you just want to have a good time? Basically, do not worry about whether or not it will happen but have a plan. This way, you can steer the conversation toward your goal and better achieve the results you want. It is much easier to get what you want when you know what it is you want.
Practice makes perfect!
Yes, practice your way out of shyness and into confidence. The more conversations you have with different women, the more confident you will become and, hopefully, the less shy you will be. Give yourself time to find out what conversation skills work best for you in different situations. In time, you will have learned what works best and will be comfortable about talking to women. Once you feel confident around women, this confidence will become part of your personality and one of your most attractive features to women.
If you want to gain confidence around women and eliminate your shyness, go ahead and try these three tips. In time, you can say goodbye to your shyness. Remember, let go of the goal yet know what you want and, most importantly, practice!
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
April 25, 2007
[AWTD] Never Ask For Her Permission
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 24th, 2007.
Never Ask For Her Permission
Women HATE guys who act like wusses!
If you’ve read any of the posts on my blog or the information in my free ebook, Attraction Mastery, then you know women are strongly drawn to guys who can act in a confident manner. By demonstrating basic masculine characteristics you can trigger instant attraction with a woman.
Now the problem there are specific actions which instantly demonstrate a level of wussiness with a woman.
When you ASK permission from a woman, you’re showing an incredible amount of lower status.
Here’s what I mean…
Women are attracted to guys who have enough balls to take control of a situation and be the one to initiate things.
This means whenever you’re with a woman, you should never ask her permission. In other words, never:
* Ask to kiss her
* Ask for sex
* Ask if she likes you
* Ask for a date
* Ask for her number
The key technique for asking for her permission is to “act as if”. This means that at all times when you’re with a woman, you have the mindset that you “act as if” she likes you and wants you to escalate things. When you follow this personality, you’ll act in a confident and “non-wussy” manner.
Once this is done, you’ll have the magnetic personality which attracts ALL women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
April 20, 2007
[AWTD] How to Establish High Status With Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 20th, 2007.
How to Establish High Status With Women
At the core of almost every course on meeting and attracting women is the principle of higher status.
The idea behind this trait is women are attracted to men who can demonstrate they’re an important person to know. One reason this is true is because people look to others for social proof. By establishing yourself as a guy with higher status, you’ll be a guy who is naturally attractive to women.
So how do you establish higher status?
Well, to be honest higher status is very complex principle to incorporate into your life. If you can learn ONE technique about attraction, then you should take the time to learn how to become a superior status male.
Now that being said…there are a few different ways you can quickly establish higher status with women
- Have lots of friends and other women around you who say complementary things
- Be the leader in your group
- Use cocky funny, negs and other teasing techniques to bust on a woman
- Show alpha male characteristics: confidence, integrity, strength of character and respect
By having higher status, you’ll automatically become the guy who women want to date. In fact, if you can stand out from your friends, women will automatically select you as their potential dating partner.
So take some time and work on establishing higher status.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
April 9, 2007
[AWTD] You Are Always In Control
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 9th, 2007.
You Are Always In Control
You’re attitude is one of the determining factors in how successful you are with women.
What I mean is the more dominant and confident you act, the more you’ll find that women will comply with your requests.
Let me explain…
In the dating scene, women are always encountering weak guys who act needy and are constantly looking to them for approval. By acting in a position of dominance and competence, you’re demonstrating that you have confidence in yourself and you’re not afraid to show it.
You can display this personality trait by paying attention to a woman’s body language during interactions. What I mean is a lot of times, women will be telling you one thing with their statements, but their body language will be saying something completely different.
Here’s a way to be dominant personality:
* You disagree with her viewpoints and she alters her opinion to match yours
* You do nice things for a woman, because YOU want to, not from a request she makes
* She’s laughing during your conversation and saying “Stop that”, but you can tell she’s enjoying your interaction
Having a dominant personality is a great way to convey to women that you’re not able to be controlled. When you show this personality trait, a woman knows you’re coming from a place of higher status and she has to step up her game in order to impress YOU.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
April 5, 2007
[AWTD] Make Women Glad They’re Dating You
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 4th, 2007.
Make Women Glad They’re Dating You
Here’s a great technique you can use on your first date…
As you probably know by now, sales is a lot like dating. Basically instead of selling a product, you’re selling yourself. (Actually you can make an
argument that sales DOES involve selling yourself)
Anyway, one of the biggest obstacles to sales is what’s known as “Buyer’s Remorse”. This is an emotional condition where a person feels remorse or regret
after the purchase of an item. What happens is if a salesman doesn’t successfully follow-up, a person with buyer’s remorse will end up unhappy with his or
her purchase decision.
A simple technique to remove buyer’s remorse is to ask the customer why he or she chose to purchase from you. Then when the customer starts listing all the
positive qualities about you and the product, he or she is making a deeper commitment to what you’re selling.
Now this technique can easily be adapted to your dating life. When you’re on the date, simply ask her what made her want to go on a date with you.
Hopefully she’ll start listing all your positive qualities and things she finds interesting.
When this happens, she’s almost telling herself about all the wonderful things that you have to offer. In essence, she’s establishing an strong connection
to you. This will make it easier to establish and rapport on your date.
So the next time you’re on a first date, try this “Buyer’s Remorse” technique.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
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April 3, 2007
[AWTD] Visualize Your Success with Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 3rd, 2007.
Visualize Your success with women
Let’s be honest here…
EVERYONE gets nervous before they approach a woman and initiates a conversation with a woman.
So what separates the men from the boys?
It’s simple…the successful guys are the ones who can quickly squash their nervousness and approach women with confidence.
In my free ebook, Attraction Mastery, I discuss many tips for eliminating nervousness, but let me talk about a simple technique you can use TODAY to reduce your nervousness.
Many guys use the simple psychological technique called “Visualization” to reduce nervousness around women.
It’s actually a fairly easy concept. All you have to sit quietly for a few minutes each day and make a picture in your head about approaching women. In this “pre scripted movie” you picture yourself approaching women confidently and instantly attracting them.
Visualization works because you’re coaching yourself into being confident around women. Furthermore, the mind doesn’t remember the difference between reality and your imagination. If you’re constantly using visualization, you’ll convince yourself that you’re a master at approaching women.
So if you’re having trouble or feeling nervous around women, try to use visualization to eliminate this condition.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
April 2, 2007
[AWTD] Practice Your Timing with Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 2nd, 2007.
Practice Your Timing with Women
When it comes time to dating women, timing is an important skill to learn.
For instance if your timing if off, you might escalate things before a woman is ready. Conversely if your timing is off, you might miss out on an
opportunity to make a move when a woman is sending clear signs of attraction.
As you can see, a master of timing knows how to avoid being both too aggressive and too wussy.
So can you ensure that you’re timing is going well?
It’s simple…
You have to learn how to read the signals you’re receiving from women.
When it comes to attraction and seduction, women are CONSTANTLY sending you signals. For instance if you see a woman constantly trying to make eye contact
you from across the room, then you know that she wants to be approached.
On other hand if you’re talking to a woman and she seems uncomfortable, then you should know NOT to attempt to kiss her.
In essence, timing is being able to pay attention to the body language of women and knowing EXACTLY what you should do in each situation.
All you have to do is observe women, and understand what you should do in each situation. If you practice your timing enough, you can easily when to escalate your actions with women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
March 22, 2007
[AWTD] Why Women Love Drama
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 22nd, 2007.
Why Women Love Drama
You ever wonder why women love watching reality shows or soap operas? Are you ever left puzzled by their addiction to reading romance novels?
Well I used to wonder this all the time!
Then it hit me one day…
Women tend to absorb these pieces of entertainment simply for the fact that it brings drama into their lives.
While men tend to love the status quo, women love to have some sort of action or drama in their lives.
That’s where the expression “drama queen” came from. It’s basically an extension of inner-feelings a woman has about her life being too boring or stagnant.
Now most women outgrow (or never develop) the drama queen stage. But deep down inside, ALL of them secretly desire a man who is provides a little excitement in her life.
I’ll give you a little secret my friend…
If you’re ALWAYS on the couch watching Sportscenter or wrapped up in the new GrandTheft Auto game, you’re definitely not giving her ANY excitement.
In order to become the kind of guy women want to be around, you should do fun things. This doesn’t mean you have to act like a crazy man. But you should be the kind of guy who can make women FEEL excited. In other words, try being a little spontaneous and fun. In addition, don’t be afraid to do things a little bit against the status quo.
If you can be a man who brings POSITIVE drama to women’s lives, you’ll be the MAN who turn to for excitement in their lives.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
March 7, 2007
[AWTD] Learn How to Gain Control and ‘Condition’ Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 7th, 2007.
Learn How to Gain Control and ‘Condition’ Women
When I was in college, I was a psychology major.While I never pursued a career in the field of psychology, I’ve learned to use a lot of it’s principles in my business and personal life.
In fact, there is one technique I pulled from Psychology 101 which is great way to build attraction with women.
Let me explain…
If you’ve read David DeAngelo’s ebook- Double Your Dating, then you know being in control of your relationships with women is a great way to build attraction. Without going into too much detail, women are STRONGLY attracted to guys who act in a confident manner and don’t act too needy.
Now the way you can control women is use the ‘operant conditioning’ principle from Psychology 101. When you use this technique you give her attention in an unpredictable manner.
Why should you do this?
Well if you study psychology, then you know that you get the most amount of responses from people if you use a ‘Variable Ratio’ reward system.
For instance, if you immediately return her calls EVERY TIME, then she knows she has you trained like one of Pavlov’s Dogs.
But…
If you call her back once in awhile, then she’ll start to realize that she doesn’t have control over you. Furthermore, giving her spaced out reward will make you more attractive because you’ll give off the impression that you’re a busy guy with stuff to do.
So if you want to gain control over women in your life start using the variable ratio technique.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.