[AWTD] How to Deal With Women in a Club Part 1
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 20th, 2007. Â
How to Deal With Women in a Club Part 1
If you’re like a LOT of guys, you probably HATE going to a club in order to meet women. The music is loud, it’s crowded and the drinks are incredibly expensive. And unlike other locations, it’s difficult to engage women in conversations.Â
But I have to tell you something…
If you’re a single guy, then at some point you’ll find yourself in a club. So it’s important to know how to act. Well in the next couple of tips, I’ll provide a quick guide on how to attract women whenever you’re in a club.
What to wear
Unlike your local bar, it’s NEVER acceptable to look like a bum in a club. In this environment, it’s MANDATORY to wear clothes that will help you stand out in a positive way. When you wear nice clothes, you’ll stand out from the other guys who pay little attention to what they’re wearing. Simply find a shirt that is fashionable and wear pants/shoes which matches it.
Grooming
Again, it’s important to never look like a slob when you’re in a club. This means you HAVE to shave and make sure you’re hair is neat and orderly. While you don’t have to go out and get the perfect haircut, you should at least make sure your grooming is NOT decreasing your chances with women.
Prepare
There are a few key items you need to have when you’re in a club. By carrying specific items, you’ll improve on your pick up techniques. Here are a few items you MUST have with you:
- Pen or cell phone for taking down numbers
- A lighter (You can start talking to a woman by lighting her cigarette)
- Camera
- Condoms
Just remember the Boy Scout motto…”Always Be Prepared”
Your buddies
When you’re trying to meet women in a club, NEVER travel with a big group of guys. It’ll only end up intimidating or annoying around you. If your sole purpose for going to a club is to meet women, then travel with ONE guy who has some approach skills. A single wing man is all that’s required in the club environment.
Well we’ve covered what to do before you arrive at the club. In the next tip, we’ll go over simple rules for handling women inside this environment.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
May 3, 2007
[AWTD] Why the Best Places to Meet Women are NOT Clubs or Bars
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 3rd, 2007. Â
Why the Best Places to meet women are NOT Clubs or Bars
I have to admit something…
Most of the advice I give to men focuses on approaching women in a bar or club setting. The main reason I recommend these venues is because they’re the perfect place to practice fundamental approaching and attracting techniques. It’s the one environment where you’ll have a large selection of single and available women. Within a few hours, you could practice your attraction skills on dozens of girls.
But there is one major problem with trying to pick up women in a bar or a club…
Women know when a guy is hitting on them!
Since bars/clubs are known to be singles hangouts, women are being constantly approached by guys who use cheesy pick up lines. Eventually they get tired of guys hitting on them.Â
What usually happens is they form what’s known as a “bitch shield” where they act wary (and sometimes rude) to any guy who approaches them. As you can see, approaching women in a bar or club is really challenging.
Now while I recommend you should use these environments to practice your attraction techniques, I recommend that you use other venues which are good places to meet women. By going to different places, you’ll be able to talk to women who don’t have the “bitch shield” and will be more receptive to your advances. Furthermore, you’ll have less competition from other guys.
So if you’re serious about trying to meet single women, I recommend you get out there and try places that are NOT bars or clubs.
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February 7, 2007
4 Ways You Can Find a Sexual Partner Tonight
I know this doesn’t come as a shock to you, but there are times in every man’s life when he just wants to get laid!Â
While it’s important to date and establish relationships with women, we all get that instinct sometimes to have a one night stand. Now as well know one of the worst ways to accomplish this way is to hire a prostitute. Unless you like the idea of exposing yourself up to STDs, hiring a hooker is never a good idea.
Fortunately there are a few ways you can quickly locate a sexual partner without being forced to pay for it. In the next few paragraphs, I detail four different ways you can find a sexual partner in a limited time.
Let’s get started…
1: Hook up with your booty call
The most obvious resource for having sex in the near future is track down a “Booty Call.” If you’re like me, then I’m sure you know a few women who you’ve dated in the past that you can meet at a moment’s notice.Â
What’s great about the ‘Booty Call’ is you both have established your relationship. In other words, you both understand that the interaction is primarily physical and it won’t lead any situation where feelings could be hurt.Â
Now it’s important to remember to always stay in contact with your ‘Booty Call’ and make sure you talk to her once in awhile. In essence, you’re ensuring that you continue to have a resource that you can go back to time and time again.
2: Contact women you’ve dated briefly
In your life, there are probably a few women who you’ve gone dated a few times. While you might not have slept with these women, you could still have an opportunity to make things more intimate.Â
Now I don’t mean you should call them up like you would with a booty call. Instead try contacting them and ask them out for a few drinks. If you play your cards right, this date could lead back to your bedroom.
3: Find an old girlfriend
Here is one tip I am mentioning with a bit of hesitation…Â
One of the find a sexual partner is to contact an old girlfriend. Since you two probably had a sexual relationship, you could easily contact her, meet up and then have sex.
But I have to warn you, trying to rekindle an old flame could have some disastrous results.Â
By having sex with an old girlfriend, you might create a situation where one of you starts to develop feelings for the other person. Just remember there was a reason the two of you broke up. So keep that in mind if you decide to contact her.
4: Use an ‘adult friend Finder’ service
One of the most interesting ways to quickly find a sexual partner is to use what’s known as an ‘adult friend Finder’ service. Basically these sites work similarly like an online dating site, but it has one difference. Instead of meeting to establish a relationship, you’re trying to work towards a purely sexual situation.
It’s kind of like shopping for a sex partner.
While I’ve never personally used one of these services, I do see it as an excellent place to make an instant connection.
Well these are four ways you can find a sexual partner in the next few days. If you noticed, I talked at length about different women you have in your life. If you don’t have any women in your life, then I recommend you check out my free ebook- Seduction Secrets…Revealed and learn different ways to meet and attract women in your area.
January 24, 2007
Where to Find Single and Attractive Women in Your Area - Part 4
Well here we are at part four of our series on where you can find single women in your area. Here’s what we’ve covered so far:
• Two places to meet your average woman- Supermarkets and coffee houses
• Three “off the wall” places to find girls- Karaoke bars, dance classes and yoga/meditation classes
• Four athletic venues which are great for meeting women- Local 5k runs, athletic teams, your gym and local sporting events
Now we are going to shift our focus and discuss the different types of stores where you can find women.Â
Here’s how men typically shop…
They think of what they want. Go into a store and walk right to the object, grab it, pay for it and then leave.
As a gender, we’re not known for our ability to browse or take our time when shopping. Instead we attack stores with military precision.
Women on the other hand take their time when shopping. Fortunately this makes it easy for us to approach them.
So if you’re interested in meeting women in a more laid-back atmosphere here are a couple different types of stores which will provide you with an excellent opportunity to do so.
Clothing Stores
If there is one place that women LOVE to go to its there favorite clothing store. While most clothing stores cater to one gender, there are a few which have both men’s and women’s sections. All you have to do is try something on then approach a girl and ask her opinion.
Now if you’re truly brave, you can try going to a store which only has women’s clothing. Just walk up to a girl then say you’re buying a gift for your sister/cousin/etc. and you want her opinion on what to get.
Hobby and Craft Stores
If you’re into hobbies or crafts, then these types of stores are great for meeting women. Typically you can find MANY women at your standard arts and craft stores, with very LITTLE men. So finding a woman to approach is an easy thing to do.
You can start talking to a girl in this place by asking about her purchases and finding a common interest you share.
Home furnishings store
Whenever I go to places like Bed, Bath and Beyond I am amazed at the amount of attractive women who shop there. Usually these places are filled with women, and almost no men.
You can easily initiate a conversation in this store by approaching a woman and asking her opinion on a certain type of home decoration. Since females tend to have better taste in design and home décor, this question won’t seem too “in your face” and you can then use this approach to transition into a quick conversation.
Bookstores
One of my favorite places to meet women is at bookstores. Since I tend to gravitate towards the more intellectual type of girl, I find this type of venue to be the best place to find them.
While there are a lot of women who go to these stores, I would recommend that you stick to your particular literary interests. Don’t waste time thinking about why type of books will “get the chicks”. Instead just go to the sections which you find most interesting and initiate conversation with the women that you find there. Again, you can use the “opinion opener” to start talking to women.
Well I hope you found these places useful. The next time you’re shopping be sure to leave enough time to approach any woman you find interesting.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 17, 2007
Where to Find Single and Attractive Women in Your Area - Part 3
Welcome to part three of our series on the different places to meet women. In the first posts I discussed how you can use supermarkets and coffee shops to meet your “typical woman”. And in the second post, I discussed how you can use off the wall places to meet women like dance classes, meditation/yoga classes and karaoke bars.
Today I am going to talk about how to use athletics and sports to meet women.
In modern society athletics and exercise has become a natural part of our lives. In addition to gaining health benefits, you can also use these venues to find attractive women.
In the next few paragraphs, I’ll cover 4 different places that have a large selection of single and available women. If exercising is an important part of your life, you’ll be happy with the type of women you find in these locations.
The Gym
A lot of adults spend a couple of hours each week at the gym. They go in, do their workout, and then leave. If you’re one of those guys who spends a couple of hours pumping iron or working out on the cardio machine, you can also use this time to initiate conversations with women.Â
But here’s a warning…
Many other men also use the gym to approach women. Don’t use the typical “you need me to spot you?” or “let me show you how to correctly life that” lines. She’s probably heard this before and won’t think too highly of your technique.
If you can approach her in a natural way and not get in the way of her workout, she’ll be more receptive to your advances.Â
Local 5K Race
If you like to walk or run, then a local 5K race can provide an excellent opportunity to initiate conversations with a woman. If the race is large or low-key, you’ll find a lot of women who like to do these events for fun and enjoy mingling once the race is completed.
To get the best results, you should approach women after the race is over. That way, pre-race nerves or time constraints won’t prevent you from shamelessly flirting.Â
Athletic Teams
Almost every community has a large selection of co-ed athletic teams. Whether it’s softball, volleyball, flag football or kickball, in every town there are plenty of to get involved in.
What’s great about joining an athletic team is you get to have fun while potentially meeting women. Even if you don’t find an attractive girl on your team, you can approach the women who come to the games to support their friends.
Local Sporting Events
Well I guess WATCHING a local sporting event doesn’t qualify as being athletic. But at these events there is always a large sampling of females who at least share your passion for sports.
Now generally most sporting events are populated by guys. But often you’ll discover a few girls who go together to cheer on their team. What’s great is these a lot of these women go to sporting events to meet guys. So they won’t don’t mind guys approaching them.
Well that’s it for the four different athletic places to meet women. If you’re into ’sporty chicks’ then going to these venues will help you find them. By taking the time to participate in athletic events, you’ll discover that it’s easy to find the type of women you want.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 15, 2007
[AWTD] Plan Out the Night When Meeting Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 15th, 2007. Â
[AWTD] Plan Out the Night When meeting women
Did you know your surroundings can directly affect your success with women?
Why…
Well, imagine you’re talking with a woman and you’ve done all the right moves. You’ve built attraction, she’s into you and you’re receiving all the signs that she wants to go home with you tonight.
But what happens if you are 45 minutes from your house.Â
Well unless you can talk her into going to her place or a hotel room, you’ll proabably lose out on this opportunity.
To prevent this from happening you should ALWAYS plan out the logistics for the night.
In other words, if you know you’re going to be far away from your house, plan on just setting up dates or snagging phone numbers. Your goal when meeting women is to build attraction and use it to build expecation for your next encounter.
On the other hand, if you live close by, then you should set up your house for the possibility that you bring a woman home. In other words, you should make sure that you the place clean enough that you can entertain company.
Then you go meet women, you have a place where you can “continue your conversation”.
To sum up, always think about the location you’re in and how it will affect your pick-up techniques.
December 18, 2006
[AWTD] Know How to Meet Women in the Right Kind of Environment
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 17th, 2006. Â
[AWTD] Know How to meet women in the Right Kind of Environment
You probably wouldn’t hunt for a bear in the middle of an ocean, right?
Unfortunately that’s what see a lot of guys doing when they’re look for a specific type of woman at a bar.Â
Once common complaint I hear from guys is how they can’t find the right kind of girl when they go out. Typically these men want a nice, homebody type of girl, but are out looking at their local club which is filled with party girl.
In my opinion, they are hunting for a bear in the middle of an ocean!
If you want to find a specific type of girl, you go to the places where she would be.
In other words, if you want spiritual church girl, then get your “Sunday’s Best” and head over to a church.
Now I’m not saying nice girls don’t hang out at bars and clubs. But statistically speaking, you’ll most likely find girls who like to party and have a good time. Usually settling down is the farthest from your mind.
So if you want to encounter a certain type of woman, start going to the place where she would be!
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 14, 2006
Where to Find Single and Attractive Women in Your Area - Part 2
In a previous article I discussed the importance of trying to find alternative means for meeting women instead of hanging out at your local bar. Due to their competitive nature and noisy environment, I feel bars aren’t the best place to approach women.
Instead of going to bars, I made two suggestions of locations which are filled with attractive and available women- coffee shops and supermarkets.
Since both places allow for relaxed conversations, I feel both of these places provide an excellent opportunity to meet women.
But this is just the tip of the iceberg!
The truth is there are a lot more locations which are filled with women. Today, I am going to reveal three unique places which have an incredible ratio of women to men.
At first you might think they’re a little off-the-wall. However if take a chance and check them out, I guarantee you’ll discover a treasure trove of attractive women.
Dance Class-
One of the best suggestions I ever heard about meeting women is to take a dance class.
At first I thought enrolling in a dance class was a too *chickish*. But when I swallowed my pride and showed up the first day, I was pleasantly surprised at the amount of available women.
In fact, I figured out that there were three girls for every guy in the dance class!
Obviously, it was pretty easy to talk to women in this environment!
By taking this type of class, you’re showing an attractive side to women because you’re getting out there and learning how to dance. Even if you stink at first, you’ll still make a good impression.
2- Yoga, Pilates or Meditation Classes-
Nowadays, there are a lot of places that offer yoga, Pilates and meditation classes. By attending a class like this, you can easily find a lot of girls with an athletic and spiritual side.
Furthermore, these classes have the same incredible ratio of women to men. So this is another place where you have no problem finding a girl to talk to.
What I like best about the “spiritual/athletic” type class is the women here to respect themselves a lot more then the girls who spend every weekend at a bar. They also tend to be in a lot better shape!
3- Karaoke Bars-
Okay, I am actually saying with a straight face that Karaoke bars are incredible places to meet women.
Think of it this way…
A lot of women go to these bars to have fun with their friends and not be subjected to the annoyances of a typical bar. Primarily they are at a Karaoke bar to have a little fun and meet new people.
That means with a little self-deprecating humor, you can easily start a conversation with any girl of your choice.
Now I understand the prospect of singing can be quite intimidating. The truth is the singing skill can be easily learned.
So you might want to invest in lessons which can help both your singing and your voice. A byproduct of taking voice lessons is you gain confidence in your ability to speak with women.
If you take the time to check out all three of the locations that I described in this article, you’ll be surprised at how easy it is to meet incredible women. While they might seem a weird place to go, I guarantee you’ll like the results.
So take a chance and check them out!
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 13, 2006
To Men Who Want to Locate Attractive and Interesting Women- Part 1
Recently I received an email from one of my list subscribers. It went something like this:
“Hey Scott-
 My friends and I are getting sick of meeting chicks at local bars. Since they’re always being hit on by other dudes, they think they’re hot sh*t and won’t give us the time of day! Can you suggest other places to meet women? I am sick of chasing after the same stuck-up girls. Thanx man!
Frankie V. (Brooklyn, NY)”
What I found interesting about this particular email is I see one like this very week. Right now, there are hundreds of thousands of guys who are sick and tired of trying to meet women at bars and clubs.And I bet you are too! meeting women in a noisy, crowded bar can be a challenging prospect. Not only do you have to compete with a lot of guys, but you also have to overcome the nature of women who distrust men that approach them in this setting. In short, trying to approach women in bars can really suck sometimes!
So I decided to do something to help you out. I have sat down and jotted down a number of places which are great for meeting interesting women. Since this list is quite comprehensive, I am probably going to have to create a series of articles that you can use to locate interesting and attractive women in your area. But for now I am going to cover two of my favorite places to meet women. Let’s get started… Supermarkets
Believe it or not, supermarkets are incredible places to meet women. Since they make up a large percentage of shoppers, you’ll be amazed at the opportunities you can find there. In addition, since everyone has to shop for food, you’ll find all types of women here. What you should do is wait till around 5:30 in the evening to go a supermarket. Since this is typically the time that people get off work, you’ll have no problem finding women to approach. All you have to do ask their opinion about a particular item and you’ll have an instant conversation. (Just make sure you don’t ask her about something like adult diapers).Coffee ShopsÂ
It seems like coffee shops have become a “feeding ground” for single and attractive women. For instance, I recently took the train into New York City and went to grab a cup of tea from Starbucks (Yeah I know I am a wuss, but I hate coffee). When I went inside, there dozens of tables filled with hot women. Â
Now this was a Tuesday afternoon in middle of November and there were almost a hundred attractive women. Think of the possibilities of that one!Â
In my opinion, coffee shops are a huge untapped area which most guys don’t take advantage of. All you have to do is grab a cup of coffee (or tea) and start talking to a girl who catches your eye.Â
Both coffee shops and supermarkets offer low pressure situations where you can meet interesting women. Since you’re not overwhelmed with loud music and crowds of guys, these locations offer a way to confidently approach women without fear of rejection!
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com Â
December 10, 2006
How to Use Singles Travel Groups to Meet Women
Finding places to meet women has always presented a challenge to men, especially those with busy work schedules. With long hours and bars becoming veritable meat markets, it has become come common for guys to look at alternative means of meeting women.
It is for these reasons that singles travel groups have become a common option for guys to find interesting and available women.
But one problem with singles travel groups is how you can you find the right one that fits your needs. Since each one caters to a different clientele you have to make sure you do your research and find one that will allow you to find a woman who will fit well with your lifestyle.
In the next few paragraphs, I’ll provide you with a few tips about singles travel groups which make it easy to locate and choose one that matches your lifestyle.
1- Find a group with an activity you find interesting
One of the keys to having a great time with singles travel groups is to locate one that matches your interests. What I mean is if you like to exercise or be outdoors, you should try to locate a group that caters to adventurous people. On the other hand, if you want to have a good time and drink, then look for travel groups which emphasize social events.
One great part about singles travel groups is how you can connect with women who have a common interest. By selecting one that fits your interests, you’ll be more likely to meet a girl who likes the same things as you.
2- See the average age of the participants
A lot of guys make the mistake of going on travel groups without doing their research first. For instance, some want to find a travel group filled with young and attractive females, but end up surrounded by senior citizens.Â
To prevent doing this, you have to make sure your travel group fits your age demographic. The good news is there are a large number of singles travel groups that cater to specific age demographics. So if you want to find attractive women under the age of 30, then you can easily track down a company that fits this requirement.
3- Get prices and compare
All singles travel groups have offer different packages and prices that you select from. Before you agree to buy from any particular company, you should shop around and compare what you would get by signing up. By taking the time to do your research, you might end up finding a deal that is both inexpensive and a fun time.
4- Have fun meeting women
After finalizing your plans, it’s time to go have fun!Â
One of the greatest aspects of singles travel groups is the fact that everyone on the trip is available and is looking to meet new people. You can take advantage of this by engaging a lot of women in conversations and perhaps finding one that fits your lifestyle.
Going with a singles travel group is an excellent way to meet available women. If you take your time to do your research and find one that matches your personality, you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the results.  Â
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
November 22, 2006
The one question that I receive almost daily from my male list subscribers is where they can find attractive women to approach. Most of them are tired of trying to talk to women in places like bars and clubs. Instead they want to find areas where there is a wide selection of good-looking women without too much competition from other guys.
In my opinion, it’s very easy to find interesting women. All you have to do is know where to look.
But before you start looking, you should make a decision about what type of girl you want.
For instance if you want to find a fun girl and have sex with no strings attached, then the best place to go would be a local bar or nightclub. So before you can even think of a place to find a woman, it’s important to make a decision on you really want.Â
This means asking yourself if you want a long term relationship or a quick hook-up. In addition, you should think about the type of girl you’re seeking. This could be “the nice-girl”, “the freak”, “the outdoors girl” or “the athletic woman”.
Once you make a decision on what type of woman you want, you should start frequenting the areas where they go. So if you’re trying to land an athletic girl, then you could try looking at places like your local gym, running club or co-ed athletic league.
But what if you’re having trouble thinking of a suitable place?
Well if that is the case, then you should pay attention to this series of articles.
Over the next couple of weeks, I’ll cover the different types of women and where you can easily find them. Each article will profile a certain category of girl and where she frequently hangs out.
As an example, in the next article I’ll discuss where you can find “the nice girl”. Speaking in general terms, you’ll have little chance of finding the stereotypical nice girl in a bar or club. I’m not stating there aren’t nice girls at these locations. Instead I am saying that a bar tends to create an atmosphere where people go for instant hook-ups. As a result, you’ll be more likely to find a girl who likes to party rather then a woman you can “take home to mom”.
So if you’re interested in finding a woman that matches your interests, then keep an eye out for future follow-ups to this article…
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
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