[AWTD] How to Deal With Women in a Club Part 1
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for June 20th, 2007.
How to Deal With Women in a Club Part 1
If you’re like a LOT of guys, you probably HATE going to a club in order to meet women. The music is loud, it’s crowded and the drinks are incredibly expensive. And unlike other locations, it’s difficult to engage women in conversations.
But I have to tell you something…
If you’re a single guy, then at some point you’ll find yourself in a club. So it’s important to know how to act. Well in the next couple of tips, I’ll provide a quick guide on how to attract women whenever you’re in a club.
What to wear
Unlike your local bar, it’s NEVER acceptable to look like a bum in a club. In this environment, it’s MANDATORY to wear clothes that will help you stand out in a positive way. When you wear nice clothes, you’ll stand out from the other guys who pay little attention to what they’re wearing. Simply find a shirt that is fashionable and wear pants/shoes which matches it.
Grooming
Again, it’s important to never look like a slob when you’re in a club. This means you HAVE to shave and make sure you’re hair is neat and orderly. While you don’t have to go out and get the perfect haircut, you should at least make sure your grooming is NOT decreasing your chances with women.
Prepare
There are a few key items you need to have when you’re in a club. By carrying specific items, you’ll improve on your pick up techniques. Here are a few items you MUST have with you:
- Pen or cell phone for taking down numbers
- A lighter (You can start talking to a woman by lighting her cigarette)
- Camera
- Condoms
Just remember the Boy Scout motto…”Always Be Prepared”
Your buddies
When you’re trying to meet women in a club, NEVER travel with a big group of guys. It’ll only end up intimidating or annoying around you. If your sole purpose for going to a club is to meet women, then travel with ONE guy who has some approach skills. A single wing man is all that’s required in the club environment.
Well we’ve covered what to do before you arrive at the club. In the next tip, we’ll go over simple rules for handling women inside this environment.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
April 19, 2007
[AWTD] How to Handle a Woman’s Friends
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 19th, 2007.
How to Handle a Woman’s Friends
A great expression I once heard from Mystery (a famous pickup/Venusian artist) is this:
“Women of beauty are never alone”
Yes it’s true. A good looking woman always has somebody around her. Whether it’s her boyfriend, female friends, family members or guy friends, a beautiful woman will never be by herself.
What does that mean to you?
Well, it’s simple. You have to learn how to engage other people in a conversation. In other words, you can’t walk up to a group of people and only talk to the attractive girl. If you do that, her friends do their best to interrupt your attempts at building attraction.
This means you have to handle her friends. In fact, I highly recommend that you gain approval from the rest of the group before you even think about trying to talk to her.
Part of attraction process is getting social proof from her friends. If you can get her friends to like and find you interesting, you’ll be on the road towards building attraction.
You can handle her friends by doing these things:
* Establishing higher status
* Demonstrating higher value by cold reading, telling an interesting story and doing a personality tests
* Joking and teasing your target
* Complimenting her friends
By paying attention to her friends and making THEM become comfortable with your presence, you’ll find it easy to build attraction with your target women. Once this happens, it’ll become that much easier to isolate her and move things towards the next level.
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February 22, 2007
When Should You Call a Woman?
Here’s a question, I received from a reader of my newsletter and my Attraction Mastery
Hey Scott-
I wanted to get your input on a current situation that has just come up today. I was walking home from a morning class when I struck up a conversation with this good looking blonde. I was smooth, confident, the works and it worked. I tried to set up a date and she said maybe.
Since I had to get going to another class I asked her for her number and she willingly gave it to me. I just wanted to know if I should give her a ring as soon as tomorrow so that she won’t forget who I am or should I wait a few days. Also if I call her should I try to set something up right away or just call and have a brief conversation with her.
Thanks again Scott and please get back to me as soon as possible. You’re the man!
Thanks,
Mr. P
Whenever I get an email like this I think of the scene in the movie ‘Swingers’ where Trent is telling Mike to wait a couple of days to call because “if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who’s ready to party”
While I love this movie, I think calling too late is the worst thing you can do when you’ve built up attraction with a woman.
Remember, good-looking women are a rare breed!
From the moment they wake up to the moment they go to sleep, they’re consistently being hit on by guys.
That means even if your game is great and you’ve done an incredible job of creating attraction, you’ll be quickly forgotten if you don’t follow-up within the next couple of days.
So here’s what you should do…
When you first meet a woman, use the attraction and flirting techniques that I described in my ebook. Your focus is to build attraction and rapport with her.
Towards the end of your conversation, mention how you’ve enjoyed your conversation. Then either go for setting up a date or getting her number. (In my book and newsletter, I give advice on how to figure out which to go for).
Now getting back to the point of the question…
How long should you wait to call?
My answer is to call within a day or so!
By doing this you’re continuing with the attraction you’ve built with this woman and you’re also at the forefront of your mind.
My general rule of thumb is to women with a purpose. If you don’t have a plan of action, then talking to a girl over the phone is really not worth your time.
So when you call, steer the conversation towards setting up a date. You can chat a little, talk for awhile and have a normal conversation, but your primary goal is to set up a date.
And…
Once you’ve set up a date, you can meet her in person and work your magic!
Well Mr. P, hope this answers your question.
If you want to know more about attracting women, check out my free ebook- Attraction Mastery
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February 15, 2007
Wing Girls Explain Pick Up Techniques at David DeAngelo Seminar
Found another great video from a David DeAngelo seminar. In this clip, he brings a couple of ‘Wing Girls’ who discuss different techniques for approaching women in groups.
The interview provided a few great bits of knowledge that you can use to improve your success with women.
First the video discusses how there are certain times when you’ll see women huddled together talking with no obvious entry point. What the ‘Wing Girls’ recommend is to NOT approach them, because they are probably focused on talking to each other. Basically any guy approaching them will be viewed as an instrusion. I think it’s excellent advice, because guys always think they should approach women in EVERY situation. Sometimes it’s important to sit back and look for an opportunity to approach.
Besides that one section, the ‘Wing Girls’ discuss a lot of other excellent points:
* Why women are competitive with each other and how to use that to your advantage
* How to identify the ‘Come Help Me’ look that women give and what to do when you see it
* Why having a hot girl with you can help you increase your success with women
* What to do with ‘Hired Guns’ who only want a big tip from you
Well, check out the video. After that, be sure to check out the ‘Double Your Dating‘ system by David DeAngelo
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February 7, 2007
[AWTD] Do You Use the ‘Walk Away’ Compliment to Pick Up Women?
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 5th, 2007.
Do You Use the ‘Walk Away’ Compliment to Pick Up Women?
By now, you’ve probably realized I have include a lot of different pick up techniques on this site. Some are ones I’ve effectively used, while others have been tested by friends of mine.
Well here’s one that goes against the normal advice that MANY ’seduction gurus’ will tell you. What’s great is this pick up technique is perfect for those guys who are a little shy or nervous around approaching women.
It works like this…
First you go to a place where you know you’ll continue to see the same women over a course of a couple of hours. Typically this could be a bar or club, but can work at many other ‘contained’ venues.
Then you should look for an attractive woman who is not occupied with something and has something unique about her. Then you confidently (if you’ve read Seduction Secrets…Revealed then you know the importance of confidence) walk up to her and give her a genuine compliment. Typically she’ll smile at your compliment or thank you. Then tell her that you just wanted to tell her that and then WALK AWAY from her.
Since you walked away from her, she’ll be REALLY intrigued with you. Here’s why…
1) You were confident to walk up to her and pay her a compliment
2) On this surface, you appeared to want NOTHING from her
3) You controlled the situation, especially in the fact that you walked up to her and then walked away. Most women are used to having to push off guys
4) She’ll be interested in you because you noticed some tiny detail about her which makes her unique
Now after you do this, she’ll start to look for you and track you throughout the bar. Most of the time, she’ll look for an excuse to come over and talk to you. That’s when you can break into your flirting and attraction building techniques.
I personally think the ‘walk away’ compliment is an excellent way to initiate a conversation in a low pressure way.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
February 5, 2007
The ‘Man Show Boy’ Tries to Pick Up Girls and Attempts to Get Laid
Here’s a few classic videos I found on YouTube. If you ever saw “The Man Show”, they had this one bit where they sent this little kid out on the street to talk to people. Dubbed, “The Man Show Boy”, this kid would go up and say some pretty funny stuff to people passing by on the street.
In the following videos, The Man Show Boy tries to attract women. In the first video, he uses a cute puppy to attract women. Then in the other video he walks around and uses pick up lines on women. The reaction of some of these girls is priceless.
Anyway, enjoy the videos! If you want to know how a *real* way to approach women, check out my free ebook- “Seduction Secrets…Revealed“.
Video #1- The Man Show Boy on the Street
Video #2- The Man Show Boy Tries to Get Laid
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February 2, 2007
[AWTD] How to Use the ‘Hershey Kiss’ Pick Up Trick
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 3rd, 2007.
Share a ‘Hershey Kiss’ With a Girl
Here’s a great tip that I found on SoSuave.com. In a brief article, the author described a great pick-up technique which virtually guarantees you won’t be turned down.
It works like this…
First you go to a grocery store and purchase a bag of Hershey Kisses. Make sure you buy two different types of bags. Ie: Chocolate, swirl, almond, etc.
Then make sure you carry these Hershey Kisses with you everywhere you go. (Obviously replacing the ones that melt)
Then when you spot an attractive woman, you walk up to her with one Hershey Kiss in each of your hand. Approach her with a big confident smile and tell her “When I see a beautiful woman, I always have to give her a kiss…” Then hold out both of your hands and say “Which do you prefer, chocolate or swirl?”
From what I gathered in the article, this pick-up technique works really well with women.
Personally I think it’s a unique way to approach a woman. It’s definitely unique and some women will find it pretty cute. The key to doing this is to target a woman who doesn’t look too preoccupied and looks like she wants to be approached.
So how do you know if a woman wants to be approached?
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February 1, 2007
[AWTD] Make Your Pick Up Techniques Automatic
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 1st, 2007.
Make Your Pick Up Techniques Automatic
Today’s tip covers a common question I get from my readers…
The question I most often receive has to do with guys wondering if they should “go for it” when they talk to a woman. Typically these guys are unsure of
their actions during a conversation. They don’t know if they ask for a date or number when they’re conversing with a girl.
My response is…
Always go for it!
I think you should always ‘go for it’ with a woman. In fact, you should make it completely automatic.
If you train yourself to do this every time you encounter a woman, you’ll reduce nervous and increase your success with women.
In addition, you have to make your response automatic in every situation. By embracing an ‘automatic response’ with women, you must automatically:
* Approach attractive woman you spot
* Engage interesting girls in conversation
* Ask for phone numbers or set up dates with single women
* Flirt during your conversation
* Kiss women when you see signs of attraction
Like I said before, in order to succeed with A LOT of women, you have train yourself to respond in an automatic way. So get out there and just throw caution
to the wind and start ‘going for it’.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 25, 2007
[AWTD] How to Pick Up a Woman in the Rain
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 25th, 2007.
[AWTD] How to Pick Up a Woman in the Rain
A guy who is successful with women is prepared to approach and attract women in ANY environment…including inclement weather.
The other day I was driving in the rain and was stopped at light when I noticed something interesting.
On the sidewalk there was a VERY attractive woman who has getting soaking wet from the rain. From behind her, a guy walks up and puts his umbrella over her and protecting the rain.
From her body language it was obvious that she never met him before, but she didn’t hesitate or pull away when he approached her. In fact, they walked away laughing both huddled under the umbrella.
I imagine that he was pretty successful at getting her number and setting up a date.
The rain/umbrella approach works really well because it shows a bit of chivalry and class which a lot of guys have forgotten.
So next time it’s raining out, look for a woman who is getting rained on and go help her out. If you can approach her in a non-threatening way, you should easily grab her number.
If you want to know additional ways to approach women, take a look at my free ebook, Seduction Secrets…Revealed, and discover different methods for initiating conversations with women!
Video that Discusses if Bad Pick Up Lines to Pick Up Chicks
Here’s a video provided from the guys over at DoubleViking.com
In the video, Marcus Estrada does a field test to find out if bad pick up lines can pick up chicks. It shows him approach 10 different women and use a really bad pick up line.
While it was hard to hear some of the lines, I loved to watch the various reactions he received from these women. Some seemed genuinely terrified while others were somewhat interested.
My personal favorite from the bunch was this line: “You’re so hot I would murder your boyfriend”
The final conclusion, which is no surprise is the fact that the pick up lines were not very successful in attracting the attention of these women. Instead of getting these women interested, the pick up lines repulsed them.
As a I discuss in my free ebook, ‘Seduction Secrets…Revealed‘, you have to approach them in a way that will get them instantly attracted to you.
Anyway, take a look at the video. I know you’ll find it funny…
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January 23, 2007
[AWTD] How to Use the Scarcity Principle to Attract Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 23nd, 2007.
[AWTD] How to Use the Scarcity Principle to attract women
I bet you get frustrated when you approach a beautiful woman and she blows you off.
If that’s the case, then this tip can help you out.
Today’s tip covers the Scarcity Principle and why it’s important for attracting women.
According to the Scarcity Principle, humans tend to operate on a fear of loss instead of a fear of gain. In other words, if a woman thinks she “has” you, she won’t be that interested. On other hand, if she thinks she’s going to lose you, then she’ll be more interested in pursuing YOU.
Here’s how the Scarcity Principle would work when you’re talking to a woman:
Say you’re getting a vibe from a woman that shows she’s not interested in you. Or she tells you she doesn’t want to give her number or go on a date.
Normally most guys would give up and walk away.
You won’t!
Instead of giving up, you should make her think she’s going to miss out on something incredible.
You could say something like:
“If we went on a date, YOU could have had the best time of your life. But your hesitation is hurting your chances. You could be losing out on something that could have been great!”
This principle works great because you are describing a great benefit she’s receive, then telling her that she can’t have it.
So next time you’re talking to a woman, try using some scarcity lines to get her interested in getting your number or setting up a date.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 13, 2007
[AWTD] How to Pick Up Women in Four Simple Steps
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 13th, 2007.
[AWTD] How to Pick Up Women in Four Simple Steps
Knowing how to pick up women is an important thing for all guys to know. In today’s tip of the guy, I am going to briefly outline how to pick up a woman in a four simple steps.
So next time you see an attractive woman, use the following to pick her up:
Step 1- The Approach
When you approach a woman, you should project a confident aura with a pleasing smile on your face. Your goal is to put her at ease with her presence.
Step 2- The Conversation
To initiate conversation, use something unique instead of canned pick-up line. You can try asking a question, getting her opinion or simply introduce yourself. Your main focus is to make sure your conversation is interesting.
Step 3- The Physical Contact and Flirting
To get her attracted, you have to build flirting into a conversation. This means you should initiate contact with her. The more you can touch her in a fun and flirting way, the more she’ll in to you.
Another key element to flirting is how you speak to her. During your conversation, you should treat her like a “bratty sister” and tease her slightly. Also, don’t be afraid to bring up the topic of sex.
If you can make your conversation fun and exciting, it’ll be easy to pick her up.
Step 4- The Close
Once you have built enough attraction, you should go for the close. Typically the close involves getting her number or setting up the date. Usually you can tell her how much you’ve enjoyed yourself and how you want to continue the conversation at a later point. If you did the previous three steps correctly, you’ll find it’s easy to close the deal.
Well there you have it…
How to pick up women in four simple steps!
While there is a lot more that goes into meeting and attracting women, this quick tutorial should provide you with enough information to get you started.
Good luck!
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 12, 2007
How to Get Laid Tonight in Seven Simple Steps
Here’s a recent letter I recently received from a reader…
“Hey Scott-
Thanks for the great tips man! Reason I am writing you is because you have too much stuff to learn. Can you give me like a quick breakdown on how to get laid tonight! I really need to know how I can be knockin’ boots like as soon as possible.
Peace,
Tim (Gulfport, MS)”
Well Tim (and fellow readers), knowing how to get laid with ANY random woman takes a bit of practice. So while I can’t guarantee you can succeed with every girl, there is a fairly simple process you can follow that’ll definitely increase your chances of scoring.
If you can learn (and apply) the following seven step system, you’ll see a dramatic increase in your ability to “close the deal” with a woman.
For simplicity sake, I am going assume you’re trying to get laid when you go out to a bar. Just remember you can adapt these steps and apply them to different locations.
How to Get Laid Step 1- Read her body language
The first step is probably the most important of them all. Before initiating a conversation with a woman, you have to target somebody who is interested in you. So what you should do is scope out different women you’re attracted to.
Once you find a woman you like, observe her body language. When you check her out, observe if she is demonstrating the following “positive body language” cues:
• Her back is to the bar and is facing the crowd
• She’s having fun with her friends and seems to be in good spirits
• Her body language is open and not showing closed off signs like boredom
• She is looking around, scoping out different guys
My advice is to ONLY approach a girl who is showing you these signs. While you still can succeed with a girl who’s not showing these body language cues, it’s a pretty hard to do if don’t know what you’re doing.
How to Get Laid Step 2- Make eye contact and approach her
Once you’ve spotted an attractive woman, make eye contact with her and then smile. If she smiles back, then you have received an invitation to go over and talk to her.
Now here’s where many guys make a HUGE mistake…
When you approach her, DON’T use some corny pick up line. Instead try to initiate a conversation in a more natural way.
For instance, you could ask her a question, request an opinion, give a genuine compliment or simply introduce yourself.
The key to getting laid is to immediately make her interested in you when you start a conversation. So make sure you start talking to her in a way that will make her INTERESTED IN YOU!
How to Get Laid Step 3- Have the right attitude and talk about fun topics
Women are attracted to confident guys with the right kind of attitude. This means you must project yourself in a slightly cocky manner with a bit of humor. The best advice I’ve heard on this topic is to treat your target woman like a bratty younger sister.
Use the conversation to bust her balls and tease her. Your focus is to “increase your value” in her eyes while proving that you’re a confident person.
In addition, this conversation should focus on fun topics instead of boring things like work or school. If you have to, write down a list of questions beforehand that’ll spark her curiosity and interest.
Finally you should have a few good stories about yourself that puts you in a positive light and makes your life seem exciting.
How to Get Laid Step 4- Talk about sex in your conversation
The quickest way to get laid is to bring up the subject in your conversation. Now don’t start talking about how you want to bang her. Instead mention a story or two about one of your friends or tease her by saying how you “know she wants you”.
By weaving the topic of sex into the conversation, she’ll subconsciously wonder what it’s like to have sex with you.
If you see her respond back in a positive way, then increase the innuendos and comments.
How to Get Laid Step 5- Initiate physical contact
When you’re talking to her, try to initiate physical contact. You can do this by touching her when you want emphasize a point or lightly swat her in a teasing way.
Physical contact is a way to build attraction and make her wonder what you’re like in the sack, so if you want to get laid tonight, you have to work this step pretty hard.
How to Get Laid Step 6- Remove her and yourself from the location
Unless you like the idea of having sex in a bar, you have to get her out of there and to a place where you two can be more intimate. If you’ve followed the previous five steps correctly, she should be receptive to any request to leave the bar.
Generally a simple move would be to suggest that you “go back to your place and continue the conversation”. By now, she’s probably made up her mind if she’s going to sleep with you. So don’t worry if this comment seems transparent. You both know what going back to your place involves.
How to Get Laid Step 7- Make your move and close the deal
Once you have her back at her place, you should make a move to escalate the physical contact. Typically you can this by kissing her or giving a sensual massage.
In my opinion, there is a lot you can do to close the deal and have sex with a woman. But for the sake of limited space, let me say this…
Your goal during this seventh and final step is to eliminate any last minute resistance to having sex with you. Typically women want to get laid as much as we do. So your job is to get her to want to have sex with you.
This is where knowing how to seduce women is an important skill to have.
Naturally your physical contact and kissing will eventually lead to sex…
Congratulations, you’re getting laid!
Well that was a quick breakdown no how to get laid tonight. While this system won’t always work, it can definitely increase your chances of having a one night stand with a woman.
But one piece of advice, it’s often better to get to know a woman before you jump in the sack. That way, you can have a little bit of time to get to know each other better and maybe avoid doing something that you might regret later on.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource,Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com