[AWTD] Do You Creep Women Out?
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 16th, 2007.
Do You Creep Women Out?
I have to ask you a direct question…
Are you creeping out women when you’re out in public?
The reason I ask this question is when it comes to the “singles scene” there are a large of number of guys who act “creepy” around women. Now if you are one of these guys, then you have LITTLE chance of attracting or seducing them. In fact, your creepy behavior is the quickest way to have women “run for the hills”
So what is creepiness and can you fix it?
Well, it’s simple. Being creepy is doing ANY action which causes women to feel nervous or tense when you’re in close proximity. Whether you’re staring at her from accross the bar or you’re too close to her, creepy behavior is probably does more for turning off a woman then it does for attracting them.
As a result, it’s important to study your own behavior and figure out if you’re acting in a creepy manner. For instance you could be creeping out a woman if you’re doing ANY of the following:
- Invading her personal space without invitation
- Staring at her
- Dancing up close when she doesn’t want you to
- Touching her in a sleezy manner
- Following her around or stalking her
- Not leaving her alone after she asks you to
It’s actually pretty easy for a guy to act in a creepy manner. So if you think you’re doing any of these actions, I’d advise you to immediately cut it out. By acting like a weirdo, you’ll do nothing to attract a woman. Instead work hard at knowing how to create instant attraction with a woman without displaying lower status behavior.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
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[AWTD] Do You Avoid Women Instead of Trying to Attract Them?
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 15th, 2007.
Do You Avoid Women Instead of Trying to Attract Them?
There is one thing which ALWAYS frustrates me…
I get emails all the time from the members of my list which ask where they can meet women. Now this type of email doesn’t normally tick me off, but sometimes I get annoyed at guys who think they have to go to some “special place” to meet women.
It makes me think that these are actually avoiding women.
Let me explain…
There is a simple truth to dating- Women are everywhere! So if you think you’re having trouble meeting women, then it might not be where you’re looking. It might be that you’re actually AVOIDING women.
No matter where you go, there’s always women you can approach and talk to. This means that you have to learn how to OPEN your eyes and look for OPPORTUNITIES.
Now I know you might be a little scared of initiating conversation. If this is true, then let me tell you something…
Women LOVE confidence in guys!
If you’re terrified of approaching women in different places, then you’ll have to get into the habit of meeting them. A simple solution is to approach ANY woman you see. Even if you’re not trying to attract her, you need to practice initiating conversations and flirting.
The more approaches you can do, the easier it’ll be to become comfortable around women.
So I have to ask you…
Are you avoiding women?
If you truthfully answered YES, then I urge you to make a dramatic turn-around in your life. Only by taking the initiative and talking to women will you be able to attract them.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
May 8, 2007
[AWTD] Around Girls, You Must Stand Out from the Crowd
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 7th, 2007.
Around Girls, You Must Stand Out from the Crowd
One of the best pieces of advice I’ve heard about marketing is this:
“People are bored in their lives. Everyday they live a boring life and go to their boring job. If you can provide excitement to their lives, then you’ll stand out from the crowd” (Paraphrased)
So why is this advice important in the dating game?
Well, I’ll tell you…
Just like everyone else, women are bored in their lives. This is especially true when it comes to meeting guys. Typically women encounter guys who use the same pick up routines and talk about their boring jobs.
So right now, there are millions of women who WANT EXCITEMENT in their lives.
And you could become THAT provider of excitement!
In order to become the Alpha Male and the guy who ALWAYS attracts women, you should become the OPPOSITE of what other guys do. In fact, I encourage you to study what other guys do, then go out and make yourself unique.
For instance, you should be different from other guys by doing these:
- Dressing differently and wearing things that other guys wouldn’t
- Have subtle “peacocking” items which will attract a woman’s attention
- Be the first to joke around and act cocky-funny around women
- Display a bit of overconfidence
- Do outlandish things which make you stand out
By standing out from the crowd, you’ll become the guy who can attract women in any situation. Simply by NOT being boring, you’ll find it easy to meet and seduce women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
May 4, 2007
[AWTD] Make Women Respect You
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 4th, 2007.
Make Women Respect You
“How can I instantly turn off a woman?”
This is a question I’ve NEVER received from my readers. However, it’s something many guys SHOULD be asking me. If you’re doing things that are turning off a woman, then you’ll have very LITTLE chance of attracting and seducing women.
So what’s the one thing which always turns off a woman?
It’s when they don’t RESPECT you.
If a woman has a lack of respect for you, she’ll view as an inferior and unconfident person. Typically women are attracted to guys who demonstrate authority and confidence. By showing negative characteristics, you’re conflicting with her attraction levels. Once this happens, you can forget about any chance of sleeping with her.
Now in order to have women show you respect, you have to do a few things:
First you must learn how to respect yourself. If you have confidence in yourself, you’ll project a magnetic personality which attracts women. Just remember that we all have flaws, so you should either fix them or learn to overcome nervousness about your flaws.
Next you should have a clear set of standards. In order to make people respect you, a set code of conduct must be established in your life. Then if somebody breaks them, you’ll call them out and let them know what you think.
This is especially true for women. If a woman shows disrespect, you call her out without hesitation.
Finally, you should learn how to become the Alpha Male. The alpha male is the summation of what’s attractive to women. This guy is confident, takes initiative, shows authority and is the provider of excitement. If you learn to cultivate this personality, you’ll become a guy who can instantly receive respect from women.
By learning how to get respect from the women in your life, you’ll become a more seductive and attractive guy!
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
April 30, 2007
[AWTD] What is an Alpha Male
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 28th, 2007.
What is an Alpha Male?
What is an alpha male and how can I become one?
The above is a common question I often receive from my male readers. In fact, the term “Alpha Male” is often mention on men’s dating sites. But what does it mean?
Well to start, let me clarify one thing…
Women are ALWAYS attracted to the alpha male. In fact, it’s part of their psychology as much as we like women with large breasts or a pretty face. In essence, the alpha male is the person who can show dominance and confidence over other guys.
Now if you’re unclear about how to become an alpha male, you should try to cultivate the basic characteristics of this type of guy:
- Confidence in all situations regardless of what happens
- Taking initiative and leading people
- Knows he is a desired person, but doesn’t feel the need to show it or prove it
- Moves with careful and deliberate movement
- Is looked upon as an authority in every situation
- Provides interesting and exciting experiences for women
If you paid close attention to this list, then you noticed I never said anything about being a jerk or an arrogant person. The behavior of the alpha male is becoming somebody who can project confidence around women.
So if you’re having trouble with women, then I recommend you work hard to show alpha male body language and attitudes when you’re around women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
April 17, 2007
[AWTD] What are Beta Male Characteristics and Traits
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 12th, 2007.
What are Beta Male Characteristics
One of the core principles to attracting women is to learn how to become an Alpha Male. By demonstrating this personality, you’ll become a guy who displays confidence in a quiet, but noticeable manner.
By now you’ve probably heard of the Alpha Male. But there is one problem with this picture…
Since you know that alpha males are the guys who can attract women, how do you know if you’re acting like an alpha or if you’re a beta?
Well it’s simple!
There are certain identifiable characteristics which can quickly identify somebody who is either an alpha or beta male. By figuring out if you’re showing any of these traits, you’ll able to quickly change them.
For instance you should find out if you display any of these “beta male body language” cues:
1) Nervousness in your hands
What you do with your hands tells people a lot about your personality. So be sure not to display any beta male signals with your hands. This can include:
* Shredding napkins or playing with items
* Sitting or hiding your hands
* Trembling or nervous energy with your hands
* Playing or twiddling with your fingers
* Biting your fingers or chewing on your fingers
2) Approval seeking
A beta male is somebody who is constantly seeking approval from other people. He is the guy who tells jokes to get people to like him. Or he is the guy who works hard to make people like him. All of his behaviors display a nature to get permission to do ALL things in his life.
3) Following others
The final beta male characteristic is to look to others for guidance and self respect. In a social setting, he is the guy who is constantly following the trends as a way to fit in and become cool. In essence, he has no personality of his own. Instead he looks to his friends and television to define who he is as a guy.
As you can see, there are a lot of traits which can make a guy a beta male. What’s important is for you to look within yourself and find out if you’re displaying ANY of these characteristics. If you discover you are, then I recommend you take steps to quickly eradicate them.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
March 19, 2007
[AWTD] Why Bragging Will Hurt Your Success With Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 15th, 2007.
Why Bragging Will Hurt Your success with women
A BIG mistake men make is to brag about their accomplishments when theyre around women. While it’s important to be confident about yourself, it’s crucial that you don’t appear TOO full of yourself.
Here’s why…
Guys think women will be impressed by anybody who has lots of money or is in a power position. The problem is constantly talking about great and wonderful you are does nothing to build attraction. In fact, bragging often turns them off.
Women are intuitive about men and will quickly pick up on a braggart. Furthermore they’ll know if a guy is bragging simply to cover up any feelings of insecurity.
Now instead of bragging, try a “action speaks louder then words” technique…
If you want to demonstrate higher value to a woman, act that way. Be confident about yourself without showing arrogance. If you can have pride in your accomplishments while not constantly talking about yourself, women will pick up on this vibe.
So instead of talking about yourself, learn to tell great stories.
Any guy who can tell a story that is both interesting and exciting will have a much better chance then the guy who constantly brags about his accomplishments.
Bottom line: Ditch the arrogance and learn how to be an interesting guy.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
March 12, 2007
[AWTD] Here are a Few AMOG Lines
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 11th, 2007.
Here are a Few AMOG Lines
In yesterday’s tip, I talked about the importance of handling guys who try to AMOG or cock-block you. What I discussed was to act in a friendly manner towards these guys while be subtly insulting. Your primary goal is to remain funny while reducing their status.
Well I’ve decided to give you some of my favorite AMOG one-liners. Feel free to use this whenever you’re presented with situation where another guy is being to overly aggressive. (Just remember to be careful with who you use these on…)
- Call them a sligthly insulting name like: Sport, Buddy, Champ, Slugger, Kiddo,
- Love the shirt man. Didn’t I see that on ‘Queer Eye For the Straight Guy’?
- As you introduce yourself: My friends call me Davey…you can call me David
- To the girl: Wow this dude’s like totally trying to pick you up!
- Hey, are you feeling alright? You don’t look well.
- Wow, you’re smooth…Are you like one of those pick-up artist guys?
- Hey, you’re funny. High-five! Then pull your hand away at the last minute
- If he interupts you, turn to her and say: Wow, SOME people have no manners these days
- Didn’t I see you on that ‘To Catch a Predator’ program? *pause* When did you get out of prison?
- Whenever he says something stupid, give him a big ole thumbs up and a condensending smile
- To a preppy guy: Are you in a frat? I just thought from your Abercrombie clothing…
As you can see there are a lot of lines you can use to prevent a guy from AMOGing or cock-blocking you. Simply use common sense and pay attention to any weaknesses you see in the guy. Then let him have it….
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
March 9, 2007
[AWTD] Learn to Cultivate a ‘I Don’t Care’ Attitude With Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 8th, 2007.
Learn to Cultivate a ‘I Don’t Care’ Attitude With Women
Your attitude has a direct effect on your success with women. The difference between going home alone or with a beautiful woman depends on how you present yourself.
The problem is many guys have problem with women because they’re projecting the wrong kind of attitude. In essence, they’re allowing their neediness to be obvious.
Now if you know anything about the laws of attraction, women are interested with guys who can establish a high level of status and act in a confident manner. When you act in a needy manner, you’re basically giving off a desperate appearance.
This lead us to point of this post…
In order to attract women, you have learn how to project a “I don’t care about the outcome” personality. Although this seems to go against common sense, women are wildly attracted to guys who don’t seem to care about *scoring* or succeeding with women. When you have this attitude, women like the fact that you’re not consumed with hooking up like other guys. Instead you can enjoy conversations and focus on only having fun.
Furthermore by cultivating an aloof attitude, you’ll find it’ll much easier to handle rejection. Since rejection is ALWAYS part of the singles scene, you’ll be able to deal with it, learn from your mistakes and then move on.
So if you learn to cultivate a ‘I don’t care attitude’ you’ll increase your success with women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 23, 2007
[AWTD] How to Stop Being the Nice Who Gets Rejected by Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 22st, 2007.
[AWTD] How to Stop Being the Nice Who Gets Rejected by Women
In today’s post, I am going to finish my discussion of different ways to improve yourself and meet more women. In this tip, I am going to discuss why being the ‘Nice Guy’ can help you repel women instead of ‘attract’ them.
Without going into too much female psychology, the nice guy presents no challenge to a woman. Most of them want a guy who interests them and presents a little bit of challenge.
As a result, you HAVE to present yourself as a challenge to any woman you’re trying to attract. While feel weird or that you’re disrespecting women, there is a method to attracting women. By not kissing her ass and doing everything she asks, you’re getting rid of the ‘Nice Guy’ persona and making yourself into a man that women will DESIRE.
Finally, you have to learn how to be confident around women, even if they reject you. By carrying yourself with a “I don’t care what happens” attitude you won’t seem like you’re trying to attract a woman. Therefore, you’ll be a challenge to her, which will make her PURSUE YOU.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 17, 2007
[AWTD] Women Respect Honesty in a Man
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 17th, 2007.
[AWTD] Women Respect Honesty in a Man
A lot of guys think the only way to attract women is adapt this “player” attitude and LIE to women. Although this type of behavior might get you laid once in awhile, it won’t help you in the long run.
When you’re talking to a woman, there is no need to lie to her. If you get caught, you’re going to ruin any chance of attracting that woman.
Generally lying about your life or job will work against you once she finds out you’re full of crap.
Now if you’re concerned that you won’t have anything interesting to talk about, go out and start doing something exciting. If you’re able to at least find an interesting hobby, then you’ll have fun stories that’ll captivate her attention.
Honesty is important when talking to women- even if it conflicts with her opinion.
Many men make the mistake of agreeing with a woman just to avoid a conflict. If you end up agreeing too much, she’ll lose respect for you because you act like a push-over. Instead of going along with everything a woman says, disagree if you don’t think she’s right. She’ll probably like you more for voicing your opinion.
Just remember what your mother told you, honestly is ALWAYS the best policy.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 10, 2007
[AWTD] The Key to Being Cool Around Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 10th, 2007.
[AWTD] The Key to Being Cool Around Women
Remember back in high school how all the attractive women were attracted to ‘cool guys’?
Well the same is true in the dating scene…women are attracted to the men who can carry themselves in a cool manner.
So how do you present yourself in a cool manner if you’ve never had experience doing so?
Well the truth is most guys can be considered cool once you get a chance to know them. But the problem is they let nervousness and awkwardness get in the way of women really knowing them.
This means in order to cultivate a cool attitude, you have to project this characteristic when you first meet a woman.
The first step is to ditch all your behaviors and mannerisms that is considered UNCOOL. This means stop doing things like:
* Avoiding eye contact with her
* Being nervous and showing unease during your conversation
* Asking dumb and boring questions that do nothing to build attraction
Once you get rid of your uncool behaviors, you have to make an effort to become cool when you’re talking to a woman. Here are a few different traits which demonstrate a cool persona:
* You smile a lot and maintain constant eye contact with her
* You know a lot of interesting stories and you’re not afraid to show them
* You behave in a relaxed and casual attitude
* You talk about topics which you both find fascinating
While you might not have been cool growing, you still have a chance at creating this type of attitude when talking to women. If you can come across as a cool person who women WANT to know more about, you can see a dramatic increase in your success with women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 9, 2007
How YOU Can Display the Ten Traits which Make Women Go Wild
It’s easy to become a successful with women. In fact, it’s surprisingly easy.
If you’ve ever been in a crowded singles then you’ve noticed there are certain guys who have a “harem of women” waiting to talk to them.
All of these men have one thing in common:
They are alpha males!
In short, an alpha male is the guy in the room who displays ALL the qualities which women ABSOLUTELY LOVE.
Now in order to join this exclusive club and become an alpha male, you must teach yourself to demonstrate these same qualities.
Here’s a quick list of traits that an alpha males posses and how you can display these same characteristics.
1- Be confident:
As we all know, confidence is the most important trait to display. By demonstrating a confident manner in a conversation, you’ll be able to overcome any physical limitations that you might have.
2- Be Smiling:
Let’s face it…women are attracted to guys who are honestly enjoying themselves and acting in a fun & playful manner. This means you should always have a smile on your face, no matter what you might be feeling inside.
3- Be Humorous:
Along the lines of being able to smile during a conversation, it’s equally important to be able to find say funny things that will make her laugh. If you can be entertaining to a woman, then you’ve overcome the boredom factor which hurts a lot of men.
4- Be Cocky:
While you want to be funny, it’s also vital that you display a bit of cockiness. Now I don’t mean you should be completely arrogant. Instead you should display a slight amount of a arrogance that will make her work for YOUR attention.
5- Be Unique:
Women LOVE guys who are different from every other poor slob. By standing out from the crowd, you can instantly captivate the attention of women. You can do this by wearing an interesting article of clothing, or doing stuff that sets you apart from the crowd.
6- Be Well-Groomed:
It’s true that looks aren’t that important for a guy to be attractive to a woman. But if you’re not well-groomed, you’ll ruin ANY chance of success. So in order to create desire in a woman, you have to make sure you’re doing anything that would turn her off.
This means always shower, shave, dress nice and put cologne on before meeting a woman. By taking a few minutes to prepare yourself, you’ll eliminate a few obstacles to your success with a woman.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
7- Be Physical:
The guys who are good with women know the key to building attraction starts with initiating physical contact. When you’re talking to a woman, make sure you touch her to emphasize a point or to tease her. If you are touching her during a conversation, it becomes that much easier to increase the intensity of your dialogue.
8- Be Attentive:
Women give clues about themselves during a conversation and through body language. If you’re able to pick up on these cues, you can use them to your advantage. So whenever you see a cue, you can use that to bring up a new topic or use ‘attraction building techniques’.
9- Be Sexual:
Bottom line…guys who bring up the topic of sex get laid a lot. By being able to talk about sex, you’re bringing up the topic in a non-threatening manner. If you talk about sex, she’ll start to wonder what it’ll be like to have sex with you.
10- Be Aggressive:
As we all know, women expect guys to make the first move when it comes to getting a number or setting up a date. When you’re talking to a woman, it’s up to you to be the one to initiate any move to take things to the next step. As a result, you have to be the aggressor and plan out the next time you meet. By doing this, you’ll be able to control your outcomes and set up a situation where things can become more physical.
By demonstrating these ten traits, you’ll present yourself as a dominant ‘alpha male’. In the dating scene, it’s absolutely necessary to come across as a prize which a woman has to work to get.
If you can demonstrate a high level of ‘alphaness’, you can instantly attract the attention of interesting and beautiful women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attracting women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.