How to Meet Women with Online Speed Dating
I am sure you may have heard of online dating, but have you heard of online speed dating? I will admit that I often using such dating sites to meet women. You may be surprised to learn that online speed dating has turned into a valuable dating tool for men.
Online speed dating is, basically, no different than regular (offline) speed dating except that you are communicating online rather than in a restaurant or bar. You simply log into the dating site at a pre-designated time and chat with a female about eight minutes, or whatever time the site has set. You then move on to the next woman and begin a new conversation. Similar to regular speed dating, everyone submits the names of those individuals they liked once the session is finished and, if the selection was mutual, contact information is provided to both the man and the woman. However, if the selection is one-sided contact information will not be provided to either party.
The good news is that online speed dating allows for a second chance to make contact with someone you are interested in. You do not have this opportunity with regular speed dating. If your initial conversation online did not go well or the selection was not mutual after the session finished, online dating allows you to view her profile and initiate contact through the dating site’s messaging system. So, even if that beautiful woman did not select you initially, all hope is not lost. You may still be able to chat with her more.
As with traditional dating and “offline” speed dating, it is important to stand out from the other guys and get her attention. Here are a few ways you can improve your chances of successful online speed dating.
First, you must create a profile that will separate you from others. Just like in-person dating, first impressions are important and your photo is your first impression for online dating. It is okay to have several photos on your profile, but have a professional picture taken to use as your primary photo. Remember also that the profile is your opportunity to show the woman more about yourself. Make your profile and, consequently, you enticing. Women are attracted to men with an interesting life full of fun and excitement. Let this shine through in your profile. However, leave a little mystery and avoid disclosing too much about yourself. Finally, use some humor throughout your profile, but do so in moderation. You do not want to give the impression of childish, self-deprecating, impractical or goofy.
Secondly, you must stand out during the chatting sessions also. Remember, you only have a few minutes. Try to make a connection with her and something she loves. She will not only find you more attractive but also be more likely to remember you. Avoid asking the expected, boring questions about her job, for example. Be sure to ask interesting questions allowing them to show their personality, such as questions about her dreams, hobbies, likes or dislikes and personality strengths, to name a few. It also never hurts to use a little humor to relieve any nervousness or tension.
Third, learn about what women really want. Women want a lot of things and, often, what they say they want is not what they really want. For example, they may want a nice guy but opt for the “bad boy.” Generally, women want such things as fun, security, excitement, adventure and romance. By learning what they want, you can more easily show them that you meet their expectations and are what they want. The key to succeeding in the world of online speed dating is to stand out with an amazing first impression and leave the women wanting to know more!
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January 10, 2007
Learn How to Protect Yourself When Using MySpace to Meet Women
If you’re like a lot of men who use online dating to meet women, you’ve probably checked out the MySpace website. Over the past few months, I’ve heard about how many guys successfully use this site to meet women.
But while this site can provide an excellent opportunity to approach women, there is a lot of danger from using MySpace.
According to a recent article posted on CNN, there is a sharp increase in people who use MySpace to prey on guys looking to meet new women.
Some of the crimes perpetuated on this site can include:
* Identity theft
* Bogus females who direct you to a paid webcam site
* Profiles that install spyware or viruses on your computer
As technology expands, these criminals are becoming more sophisticated with their tricks. So always be on guard when you’re using MySpace to talk to women.
Also check out the article on CNN for more information on this growing problem.
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January 7, 2007
[AWTD] Discover How to Find Love on the Net
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 7th, 2007.
[AWTD] Discover How to find love on the Net
If you want to know how to find love on the net, there are a few simple rules you should follow.
First you should research different websites that offer online dating. With the increase in popularity of dating websites, it has become socially acceptable to find love on the net. When looking at an online dating site you should locate one which matches your interests, dating match, and age demographic. For instance if you’re in your late teens and early twenties, then MySpace.com is a great online dating site to try.
After you have found a site you like, create a enticing profile which will attract a woman who match your interests. The key is to list all your most important qualities and be candid about what you want in a woman. Also you want to make sure to take a quality picture which shows you in the best possible light.
Finally you should start browsing through different profiles and find women who are interesting. Only contact ones that YOU find attractive and will fit your lifestyle. Then all you have to do is send an email and strike up a conversation.
Learning how to find love on the net is not that difficult of a process. If you take time to create a unique online dating site profile and contact women who will match your interests. With any luck you can find that one special woman who will complete your life.
January 4, 2007
Review Discussion of eHarmony
Recently I was looking at the blog posts on Joseph Matthews’s Art of Approaching site. On his site, I found a really interesting review that he had about the eHarmony online dating site. Unlike other reviews, his eHarmony review wasn’t didn’t pull any punches about what he really thought. In fact, he made a point to NOT recommend the site to any guys who want to date attractive women.
His assessment of eHarmony is this site requires you to follow a bunch steps in order initiate contact with a particular woman. The end result is you spend all this time answering questions and you’re not even sure if you’ll be attracted to this woman.
Let’s face it most guys need to feel attraction to a girl before finding out if she has other wonderful qualities. What Joseph talks about is how a lot of the women on this site tend to be of a “homelier” nature. That’s pretty much the truth. From what I have heard, eHarmony has a small selection of attractive women. This is unfortunate because their membership can cost a good amount of money.
In addition, I’ve heard that the eHarmony experience isn’t that great for women as well. One of my female friends once told me about a guy she met on this site who was supposed to be her “perfect match”. They went on one date and it was a disaster. Even though there wasn’t any chemistry, he assumed they were “meant for each other”. He would call and harrass her so much that he earned the fun nickname “Persistent Peter”.
So while I think online dating is a great way to meet women, right now eHarmony isn’t the best place to start. But if you still want to know more about this site, I recommend you check out Joseph’s review of eHarmony
Also Joseph Matthews has an incredible guide to approaching and attracting women which is called the Art of Approaching. If you’re still having trouble figuring how to initiate a conversation with a woman, I recommend you check out his site.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.