[AWTD] Around Girls, You Must Stand Out from the Crowd
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 7th, 2007.
Around Girls, You Must Stand Out from the Crowd
One of the best pieces of advice I’ve heard about marketing is this:
“People are bored in their lives. Everyday they live a boring life and go to their boring job. If you can provide excitement to their lives, then you’ll stand out from the crowd” (Paraphrased)
So why is this advice important in the dating game?
Well, I’ll tell you…
Just like everyone else, women are bored in their lives. This is especially true when it comes to meeting guys. Typically women encounter guys who use the same pick up routines and talk about their boring jobs.
So right now, there are millions of women who WANT EXCITEMENT in their lives.
And you could become THAT provider of excitement!
In order to become the Alpha Male and the guy who ALWAYS attracts women, you should become the OPPOSITE of what other guys do. In fact, I encourage you to study what other guys do, then go out and make yourself unique.
For instance, you should be different from other guys by doing these:
- Dressing differently and wearing things that other guys wouldn’t
- Have subtle “peacocking” items which will attract a woman’s attention
- Be the first to joke around and act cocky-funny around women
- Display a bit of overconfidence
- Do outlandish things which make you stand out
By standing out from the crowd, you’ll become the guy who can attract women in any situation. Simply by NOT being boring, you’ll find it easy to meet and seduce women.
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April 30, 2007
[AWTD] What is an Alpha Male
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 28th, 2007.
What is an Alpha Male?
What is an alpha male and how can I become one?
The above is a common question I often receive from my male readers. In fact, the term “Alpha Male” is often mention on men’s dating sites. But what does it mean?
Well to start, let me clarify one thing…
Women are ALWAYS attracted to the alpha male. In fact, it’s part of their psychology as much as we like women with large breasts or a pretty face. In essence, the alpha male is the person who can show dominance and confidence over other guys.
Now if you’re unclear about how to become an alpha male, you should try to cultivate the basic characteristics of this type of guy:
- Confidence in all situations regardless of what happens
- Taking initiative and leading people
- Knows he is a desired person, but doesn’t feel the need to show it or prove it
- Moves with careful and deliberate movement
- Is looked upon as an authority in every situation
- Provides interesting and exciting experiences for women
If you paid close attention to this list, then you noticed I never said anything about being a jerk or an arrogant person. The behavior of the alpha male is becoming somebody who can project confidence around women.
So if you’re having trouble with women, then I recommend you work hard to show alpha male body language and attitudes when you’re around women.
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April 26, 2007
[AWTD] Why Being Childish Around Women Can Be Attractive
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 26th, 2007.
Why Being Childish Around Women Can Be Attractive
As you can see from the title of this post, today I’m going to talk about why being childish can be attractive to women.
Now before you start to wonder if I’ve lost my mind, let me explain something…
When I talk about childish, I mean having a playful sense of humor and attitude when talking to a woman. Instead of being boring and stuffy, you act in a way that conveys a natural level of confidence while showing a fun side of you. Now in addition to being funny, you also show positive personality traits like confidence, strength of character and honesty.
So how do you act childish without demonstrating too much of an immature personality?
It’s simple, you follow the advice of seduction master Neil Strauss (aka: Neil Strauss) when he says that everything from the 2nd grade is funny again.
With this attitude, you have fun with the women you’re around.
For instance, you can playfully do the following:
- Teasing a girl about the way she’s acting
- Mock fighting with her
- Playing practical jokes on her
- Telling slightly risky jokes
As I said before, the idea behind this attitude is to have fun with your interactions. This also means that when you start acting this way, you should be prepared for a woman to give it back to you.
By creating a fun and silly atmosphere, you’ll reduce tension and show a fun side of your personality.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.