[AWTD] How to Make Cocky-Funny Part of Your Life
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 22nd, 2007.
How to Make cocky-funny Part of Your Life
cocky-funny is probably one of the most famous techniques for building instant attraction with a woman. By developing this attitude, you’re able to talk to women in a sarcastic, yet funny manner. Then whenever she says or does something wrong, you use this advantage, to “bust her chops”.
The rationale behind cocky-funny is to show higher status around a woman and show that you’re a prize that she has to work hard to obtain.
Now the funny thing is many guys know about cocky-funny, but they do little to incorporate it into their lives. In this article, I’ll provide a quick step-by-step plan for demonstrating a cocky-funny personality around women.
Let’s get started…
Step 1- Understand cocky-funny
In order to show this attitude, you have to do research about the cocky-funny technique. The best place to start is the Double Your Dating system by David DeAngelo. Once you know why, how and when it should be used, you’ll find that it’s easy to make it part of your life.
Step 2- Learn how to tell things in a humorous manner
The best way to develop a cocky-funny personality is to know how and why humor should be used. I’ll give you a clue, humor is NOT about telling a joke. Instead it’s more about making selected comments during specific points of conversation. A lot of this has to do with timing and practice. So I’d advise you to pick up a copy of “Comedy Writing Secrets: The Best-Selling Book On How To Think Funny, Write Funny, Act Funny, And Get Paid For It” written by Mark Shatz & Melvin Helitzer. This book alone will teach you a lot of the principles behind having a cocky-funny attitude.
Step 3- Create your own comments
Now one major problem guys have is trying to use other people’s cocky-funny routines. Rather then doing this, I would recommend you create comments to common every day situations. Just look for funny one-liners and comebacks to everything a woman could possibly say to you. Believe me, there is something you can ALWAYS say to a woman to joke around.
Step 4- Practice, practice, practice
Your final step is to practice using your cocky-comedy lines on people, not just women. The more experience you get with using this technique, the better you’ll be. So make sure you’re incorporating the cocky-funny attitude with every person you encounter.
The cocky-funny technique is a great to build instant attraction with a woman. If you follow these 4 steps and learn how to cultivate this technique, your success with women will skyrocket!
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February 22, 2007
The Top 100 Universal Conversation Starters You Can Use in Any Situation
Here’s a great find I recently discovered…
On the ‘Reality Method’ website, the owner has listed 100 conversation starters you can use in different situations. The author of this post states that each on has been successfully used in real life situation.
I do agree with the author when he states that openers should only be used as a crutch if you’re not sure what to say to a woman to initiate a conversation. What I teach in my free ebook - ‘Seduction Secrets…Revealed‘ is the importance of sparking curiosity AND interest when you use a conversation starter. Typically most pick up lines do little to accomplish this.
But…
These 100 openers are actually pretty good. A lot of them are out there, but they seem to be good at getting a woman talking.
On this post, he classifies the conversation starters into these categories:
- Basic
- Observational
- Opinion and Solititous
- Money
- Groups
- With Wingmen
- Nonverbal
- Throwaway humor
- Negs
- Ambiguous
So if you’re having trouble with starting conversations, take a look this great post.
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January 30, 2007
How to Set Up a Date and Get Her Email Address or Phone Number
Recently I received this email. Here’s how I answered it…
Hi Scott!
I was able to successfully download your free subscription. My problem is not approaching women. I have no problem going up to almost any girl I want to talk to. I feel like I can’t just quite seal the deal when it comes to getting more numbers and dates. I see myself as a pretty outgoing and busy guy. I get numbers but usually it is like 1 or 2 out of 10. Anyway, I know that you probably are flooded with emails but I would really appreciate it if you could give me some advice at your convenience.
- William from Texas
Well William here’s my take on the whole phone number thing. In my opinion, it should be the LAST thing you should go for when you initially meet a woman.
Let me explain…
During your conversation, you want to build up enough attraction where she would like to go out on the date. This means BEFORE you even go for her number, you should make sure you’re doing enough to ATTRACT her.
In other words, you have to focus on creating a fun and dynamic conversation. This can include asking her interesting questions, being cocky-funny, flirting, and establishing physical contact. The more you can do to build attraction, the more she’ll want to go out on a date with you.
During your conversation, you should find out about her interests and hobbies. This information is important because you will want to incorporate it into a date idea.
After you have talked to her for a few minutes, you can try a technique which I copied from David DeAngelo. Tell her that you enjoyed the conversation but must go back to her friends. Then turn to walk away and almost as an afterthought say to her something like:
“I just had a thought! You mentioned that you like ____. I was thinking about doing it this Friday, I’d be cool if you tagged along. Do you have email?”
Now this technique works because typically women tend to answer emails more often then phone numbers. In addition, you can use a bit of cocky-funny if she tells you she doesn’t have an email account. Finally, you are “assuming the close”. Instead of asking for a date, you’re just assuming she wants to come out.
Then when you’re getting her email, tell her to jot down her number as well. Now end the conversation and tell her you’ll send her more information to set things up.
Basically I think this technique works well for a couple of reasons
1- You’re setting up a date that is centered on something she enjoys
2- You’re getting an email address where it’s A LOT easier to contact someone because of busy schedules.
3- You’re showing confidence because you have controlled the situation. You’ve walked up to her, chatted her up, did a bit of flirting then chose the point to end it. It works because women are used to guys hitting on them and NEVER leaving.
Okay William, I hope this helps a little. Just remember to focus on setting up a date and then using an email (or phone number) to finalize plans.
Good Luck!
For more information on how to get a woman’s phone number or email, check out ‘Double Your Dating‘
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 26, 2007
How to Master Phone Conversations with Women
Imagine this…
You meet a woman, have a great conversation and then get her number. Then when you call her, the phone discussion goes nowhere and you realize that all the chemistry you had when you met is now gone.
Sucks doesn’t it?
Well this situations happens to guys ALL the time.
Unfortunately knowing how to talk on the phone has never been a great skill for us. Most of us would rather be outside doing stuff instead of getting trapped on the phone for hours.
But if you want to be successful with women you HAVE to know how to talk on the phone. Here are a few simple tips to help you become a master at phone conversations:
Phone Tips #1- Be in a Positive State
Whenever you call a woman, you have to be a positive and happy mood. In other words, don’t call her when your dog just died.
Try putting yourself in a positive state by listening to upbeat music or doing something that you really enjoy. Then give her a call. By being upbeat, you’ll convey this emotion during your conversation.
Phone Tips #2- Call her with a purpose
Another mistake that guys make is to call a woman with no clear purpose. They think the phone should be used to chat with a woman. Let her *chat* with her girlfriends.
When you give her a call, you should have a clear purpose. Typically your purpose is to set up a date in the next few days.
Phone Tips #3- Be confident and funny
Your phone conversation should be a continuation of your in-person conversation. This means you should continue to talk to her in a confident manner with a bit of teasing humor. Just remember that flirting is STILL important on a phone call.
Phone Tips #4- Commit to your plans
A real killer of a conversation is a man who acts like a wuss on the phone. Generally this guy mumbles a lot and when he tries to set up a date, he says something like “Are you busy tomorrow?”
Instead of acting like a weak person, you need to be assertive. Just tell her about a wonderful idea you have for a date and then let her know that she’s going with you. Unless she already has plans, a woman will go with you just because you sound confident enough.
Just remember that the phone is a device that you use to stay in contact with women you meet. Use it to your advantage and set up dates where you can get more physical.
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January 19, 2007
The 4 First Date Questions You Should ALWAYS Ask a Woman
The conversation on your first date can make or break your potential relationship. If you ask the right first date questions, then you’re chances of attracting her and going on future dates will dramatically increase!
So what are the best first date questions?
Well I can tell you there is one type of question which will definitely DESTROY your chances of creating a great first date…
It’s asking anything that’s boring!
Great first dates involve conversations which help to build rapport and attraction. Therefore, your first date questions should focus on getting her INTERESTED in you.
Here are just a few different types of first date questions which you should ask during your conversation:
1- Ask About Hobbies and Interests
Women (and men) love to talk about their passions. If you can ask a woman about things she loves, she’ll start talking about her hobbies with a very positive attitude. As a result, she’ll start to transfer these positive emotions to you and will be attracted to you because you like the same things she does!
2- Talk about her dreams and aspirations
In addition to hobbies, women love to talk about their dreams. When you’re in a conversation, ask about the things she’s always wanted to do. If you do this, you’ll notice how excited she gets about the dreams she has. Again, these positive emotions can easily be transferred to you.
3- Ask ‘what would you do’ questions
A great way to draw out a woman’s personality is to ask her situational questions. An example of this would be- “What would do if you became rich and never had to work again?”
When you ask questions like this, you can create interesting conversations, while showing you’re a deep thinker. If you can’t think of any question to ask, try picking up a copy of “The Book of Questions” by Gregory Stock.
4- Bring sex into the conversation
One of my secret tricks to get a woman attracted to me is to work sexual innuendos into a conversation. If you can tease her in a sexual manner or bring up funny sexual stories that happened to your friends, you can create a bit of sexual tension.
Once this happens she’ll start to wonder what you’re like in the bedroom.
Asking the right first date questions can help you easily transition to building attraction and going on future dates. If you’re able to follow these 4 types of first date questions, you’ll be able to make a great first impression.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 9, 2007
[AWTD] Why Men Use the Same Stories When Talking to Different Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 10th, 2007.
[AWTD] Why Men Use the Same Stories When Talking to Different Women
If you’re like other guys you might have moments in a conversation where you can’t think of anything to say. What sucks is you could be talking to an incredible looking woman, then your mind suddenly goes blank and you don’t have anything to talk about.
Once this happens you can say goodbye to any chance that you had with that woman.
The good news is there is a way to completely CAPTIVATE her attention during a conversation. All you have to do is utilize the power of storytelling.
If you know anything about human nature, the you know we all LOVE STORIES. By telling her entertaining stories, with you as the central character, you’ll present yourself in a fun and interesting manner.
What you need to do is think of different incidents and scenarios which could be entertaining to women. Then practice telling these stories around people.
They key is to get to the point where you can tell this story without pausing to think about it.
Now the one thing you might think is you shouldn’t use the same story every time you talk to a different woman. However, this isn’t the case. Although you might know the story by heart, it’ll be entertaining to any new woman you’re talking to. This is especially true when you know the story cold.
One story I often use when I meet women is centered around the time I almost got hit by Bruce Springsteen while driving a car. I craft the story in a humorous way with him giving me the finger and my reaction. Since this happened MANY years ago, I have a lot of experience telling this story and making it really entertaining.
So before you go out to meet women, sit down and create a bunch of interesting stories. I promise you’ll like the reactions you get from women.
January 4, 2007
Revealing Flirt Tips Part #3- Flirting Tips for Men When Talking to a Woman
Welcome to part three of our mini-course on the flirting cues that women demonstrate which shows attraction.
In the last two articles discussed the different ways that women will flirt with you before the conversation is initiated. In the first article I discussed how women will flirt with a guy by at you and maintaining eye contact. Generally you’ll see these traits when a woman wants you to come over and talk to her.
Then in the second article I discussed how body language places an important part to flirting. By displaying certain physical traits, a woman hopes to demonstrate her sexuality and desirability. Often she’ll give off ‘open’ body language cues in order to attract your attention.
Today I continue this increase your ‘flirting tips for men’ education. What I am going to cover is how a woman will flirt with you once you’ve approached her or are in close proximity to her area.
So this means she’s probably flirting with you if you see any of the following:
Flirt signal #1- She initiates a conversation with you
An obvious sign that a woman is flirting is when she comes up to you and initiates a conversation. Since the typical woman never starts a conversation with a guy, you can tell one is trying to flirt if suddenly comes over and starts talking.
Now there are some women who simply chatterboxes. So if a woman initiates a conversation, it’s not definite that she is attempting to flirt.
What you should do is try to identify instances where she keeps on prolonging the conversation. Ordinarily a woman will do this by asking open ended questions and constantly asks about your hobbies/interest/etc.
She is doing this with the intention for you to continue the conversation and perhaps get to know her on a more intimate level.
Flirt signal #2- She’s into what you’re saying and laughs at your jokes
The second part in this ‘flirting tips for men’ article is when a woman seems to hang on to every word and laughs at your jokes.
A major indicator of flirting can be found in the actual conversations. We often classify the term ‘hitting it off’ as when two people have an incredible chemistry through their conversation.
So if she’s enjoying your conversation and seems to really like talking with you, then you’re probably receiving a subtle message that she wants you to get her number or bring her on a date.
Flirt signal #3- She compliments you
Typically women will wait for a guy to initiate the compliments. Usually this is due to the fact that they’re gotten used to being the ones who are pursued.
So if find a woman who is complimenting you, then you’re receiving a great indicator that she is interested in you.
All three of these flirting tips for men show that a woman is interested in you. When you see her do one of these actions, that means she wants to know you better. So it’s up to you to flirt right back and get her number.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 23, 2006
[AWTD] Speak to Women as an Authority
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 23rd, 2006.
[AWTD] Speak to Women as an Authority
You ever wonder why some guys can practically order women around and still have them listen to everything they say?
Well these guys know the secret of being an authority figure to women.
I once read that if you say something to people with enough confidence, they’ll believe whatever you’re telling them. So if you establish yourself as an authority, you’ll discover women will listen to you and comply with requests you make.
Becoming an authority all comes to having complete complete confidence in yourself and what you’re saying. This means you should practice your conversations and work on your self-confidence.
Bottom line, the more you believe in yourself, the more women will find you attractive!
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 22, 2006
[AWTD] Why You Should Mention Sex When Talking to a Woman
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 22nd, 2006.
[AWTD Why You Should Mention Sex When talking to a woman
I see this happen all the time…
When guys first meet a woman and start talking to her, they bring up “safe” topics. Usually these are typical questions which ask a woman where she works, or what she likes to do. While these questions are safe, they tend to bore women to tears.
Guys tend to ask these questions because they feel there are certain topics, like sex, that are taboo when they first talk to a woman. Typically they’re worried about offending a woman or coming across as a pervet.
The problem is these guys are completely wrong!
A little known secret is women think about sex as much as guys do! Perhaps even more…
If you introduce the topic of sex into a conversation and flirt with a woman, you’ll find it easier to build up attraction between the two of you.
The key to doing this is to bring up the sex topic in the form of innuendos and stories. As long as you’re not lewd, you can create a lot of sexual tension if you bring up this topic.
So the next time you’re talking to a woman, don’t be afraid to flirt heavily and talk about sex.
Want to learn 50 different ways to
meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s
Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
[AWTD] Know What You Want Before Talking to a Woman
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 21st, 2006.
[AWTD]Know What You Want Before talking to a woman
One of the principles behind goal setting is to know what you want before you start working towards it. When you know this, it becomes easier to achieve your goal.
The same could be said about meeting women!
If you know what you want, it becomes much easier to achieve this outcome.
This basically means you should know what you want before engaging a woman in a conversation.
Beforehand, you should ask yourself:
* Do I want to sleep with her tonight?
* Am I going for her number?
* Do I want her as a girlfriend?
* Should I try to set up a date?
By knowing your goal for each conversation, you can adjust the way you talk to her. If you’re trying to have sex with her that night, then you would focus on flirting and bringing sexual innuendo into your conversation. But if you want a girlfriend, then it’s important to demonstrate the characteristics of someone a woman would want to date.
Establishing a goal for each conversation with a woman makes it easier to define what you want and how to get it. If you think of what you want beforehand and steer the conversation towards getting it, you’ll find it’s much easier to achieve your outcomes.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 19, 2006
Should You Use This Technique to Pick Up Women?
Salesmen are widely considered to be the best at persuading folks to purchase products. If you pay attention to their techniques, you can learn a lot about human nature and how to influence other people.
In fact, one technique is so effective it could become your secret weapon to increasing your chances of setting up dates with attractive women.
Let me explain…
This tactic, often called “assuming the sale”, is employed by a salesman towards the end of a conversation about a product. When it comes time to nudge the potential customer to buy a product, the salesman won’t come out and ask if the person is interesting in purchasing it. Instead, the salesman will ask the potential customer what type of product he or she will be purchasing.
Done in a subtle way, the salesman is assuming the person will buy an item and never gives the customer a chance to say no.
Here’s an example of how it would work:
Say you’re browsing and looking at brand new Mustangs, a salesman would assume the sale by asking if you want your Mustang in red or black. At no point did he ask if you wanted the car. Instead the salesman asks you what type of car you’re going to purchase.
Assuming the sale is an incredible way for people to increase their sales and bottom line. It works incredibly well, because the prospect is never given an opportunity to reject the salesman.
Now you can easily implement this tactic when you’re talking to a woman. Instead of “assuming the sale”, you’re “assuming the date”.
Here’s how easy it is to do…
After approaching and talking to a woman for awhile, you’ll get an idea if she’s interested in you. If you determine she’s attracted to you, then you should implement the “assuming the date” technique.
All you have to do is say something like this:
“I really enjoyed talking to you. We should go out sometime. Which is a better day, Wednesday or Thursday?”
Now this part is important…
Once you ask this question, lock eyes with her and wait for a response. Don’t say anything until she does. It’s kind of like a standoff, where the first person to speak loses.
If you’ve read her signals right, then she’ll respond with one of the selections you gave her.
After she agrees to a date, tell her you’ll call her in a few days and get her number. At this point, you can pull another “assuming the date” move and tell her:
“Great, we’ll go have something to eat. Which do you want to give me, your home or cell number?”
I like this technique because in a few minutes you can go from meeting a woman to setting up a date and getting her number. All of this is done without resorting to asking permission to call her.
It’s also a great tactic because you’re able to show confidence while avoiding the possibility of rejection!
So next time you’re talking to a girl and things are going well, just “assume the date”. You’ll probably walk away from the conversation with a new set of digits and a hot night already planned!
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 15, 2006
6 Surefire Ways to Have Amazing Conversations with Women
Building rapport with a woman is vital to creating attraction within her. Without it, a conversation can become stale. Ultimately engaging a woman in a boring discussion will make her quickly find somebody else to talk to.
But there is an easy way you can create a dynamic conversation which will engage a woman and quickly build rapport. Here are six easy ways you can do this:
1- Have genuine curiosity about her
Every woman is different. Use your conversation to open her up and find out what makes her unique.
By taking a genuine interest in a woman and her life, you’ll discover there is a lot to talk about.
2- Have fun with her and the conversation
When you’re talking to a woman, make sure you’re in a fun and flirtatious mood. By honestly enjoying yourself, it’ll be a lot easier to get her to open up and find you more interesting.
3- Master the art of listening
One common complaint from women is how guys never listen to them. You can easily put the reputation to rest if you listen to everything she tells you.
In addition, by paying attention to what she talks about, it’ll become easy to pick up on conversation threads and lead them towards *interesting* topics.
4- Bring sexuality and flirting into the conversation
Don’t make the mistake of not discussing sex or flirting with a woman when you first start talking to her. This is a bad move, because avoiding the topic will make it harder to build *chemistry* with her.
Use this opportunity to talk about sex in a funny manner and flirt with her shamelessly.
5- Bring up off the wall questions and silly topics
Having a sense of humor when you’re talking to a woman is a great way to build rapport. Don’t afraid to bring up funny stories or ask her slightly off-beat questions.
6- Ask her opinion on different topics
When you ask a woman’s opinion, you’re practically giving her license to do most of the talking. You can really get the ball rolling if you ask her opinions on certain things like current events, work, hobbies, sex, family and relationships.
One bit of caution!
Stay away from hot points like religion, politics, abortion, etc. The last thing you want to do is get into a heated debate.
Any conversation with a woman should be done in a fun and flirtatious manner. In other words, it shouldn’t be like a job interview.
If you learn to relax and implement the six tips I provided in this article, you’ll have no problem building rapport and attraction with any woman.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 9, 2006
[AWTD] Developing the Skill For Talking to Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 9th, 2006.
Developing the Skill For Talking to Women
In my post yesterday, I discussed how failure is part of the experience of talking to women. My advice was to get used to failure and learn from each experience. In fact, by taking the time to judge each interaction you’ll be able to work on your *attracting women skills*.
Like everything else we learn in life, there is a certain skill to attracting women. While some are naturals at it, most of us have had to work at developing this skill.
With any skill, you will fail A LOT at first. Over time, you will learn from your mistakes and increase your overall success. Eventually you’ll realize that your successes will outweigh your failures.
But one thing I’ve heard from my readers is failing with women is a hard thing to take. These guys place emotional validation from women and feel less of a man when they’re turned down.
My advice is not get down on yourself if you fail. Just learn from the experience and be happy that your increasing your skills with women.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com