How to Overcome Your Shyness Around Women
Do you find that you become shy around women?
Is your shyness affecting your dating life?
If so, there is good news. You can overcome your shyness with a few easy steps and finally have the dating life you want. For many men, their shyness is why they simply avoid approaching women or even try to attract them. Your shyness may be preventing you from meeting the beautiful women you watch other men meet and take home.
Here are a few tips to help you finally eliminate your shyness and become that confident man women are attracted to and desire.
Let go of your expectations!
Yes, when trying to meet a woman, the initial conversation is the means to an end. Ultimately, you desire to get her number or secure a date. However, going into the conversation focusing on your expectation of the outcome is a good way to reduce your chance of success.
Relax, enjoy the conversation and have fun. It should go without saying that the topics of the conversation should be light. Do not get into your dating history or emotional baggage, even if she asks. Remember, just concentrate on how much you are enjoying talking to her.
Repeat to yourself “I don’t care. I don’t care.” Okay, avoid taking that advice too literally. But, the point is that you should not care about the outcome. If she does not give you her number in the end, there will be other opportunities. Just consider it practice for next time.
Know what you want to happen!
Now, you are probably thinking right now that I have contradicted myself with this second tip. Let me explain a bit further. I suggested above that you let go of your expectations for the outcome of the conversation. However, you must still have a plan of action and go into the conversation knowing what you want.
Do not dwell on the outcome during the conversation, but you must determine the purpose of that conversation. Do you want a date with her? Do you want to get her number? Do you want to sleep with her? Or, do you just want to have a good time? Basically, do not worry about whether or not it will happen but have a plan. This way, you can steer the conversation toward your goal and better achieve the results you want. It is much easier to get what you want when you know what it is you want.
Practice makes perfect!
Yes, practice your way out of shyness and into confidence. The more conversations you have with different women, the more confident you will become and, hopefully, the less shy you will be. Give yourself time to find out what conversation skills work best for you in different situations. In time, you will have learned what works best and will be comfortable about talking to women. Once you feel confident around women, this confidence will become part of your personality and one of your most attractive features to women.
If you want to gain confidence around women and eliminate your shyness, go ahead and try these three tips. In time, you can say goodbye to your shyness. Remember, let go of the goal yet know what you want and, most importantly, practice!
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April 27, 2007
[AWTD] Why Overcoming Your Fear of Women Will Help Your Dating Life
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 27th, 2007.
Why Overcoming Your Fear of Women Will Help Your Dating Life
Is your fear of women having a negative effect on your dating life?
Well, don’t worry if you answered yes. It’s a simple truth that a lot of guys have a fundamental fear of approaching and talking to women. In fact, even the BEST looking guys have a fear of women at certain points in their lives.
Now let me tell you something about fear…
It’s holding you back from achieving long term success with women. For instance, fear of women can include:
* Being scared of approaching women
* Letting nervousness prevent you from getting a woman’s number
* Having fear of going for a kiss or establishing sexual contact
* Avoid women in different aspects of your life
As you can see, your fears are hurting your chances with women. So, you need to learn how to cure your fear of women.
Now a simple way to do this is to meet your fears head on. Instead of running from them, you should actually face your phobias and make a concerted effort to eliminate.
This means whatever aspect of your fear of women should be challenged. This means if you have a fear of approaching women, then you should make it a point to approach every woman you see.
By desensitizing yourself to the things that make your scared, you’ll eventually get comfortable in this situation. Ultimately you’ll overcome your fear of beautiful women. And once this fear has been faced, you’ll see a dramatic turn-around in your dating life.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
February 22, 2007
[AWTD] How to Get Rid of Your Neediness Around Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 22nd, 2007.
How to Get Rid of Your Neediness Around Women
I’m going to be honest with you here!
Women HATE guys who act needy or desperate.
While they want men who pay attention to them, they don’t want to be smothered by some wussy guy who NEEDS constant attention from women.
They like guys who are confident enough to enjoy the company of women, but don’t require it to be fulfilled.
In essence, they’re attracted to the “I love women, but I don’t NEED them in my life” guys.
So if you’re one of those guys who has bit of neediness issues, try using the following tips to get rid of this undesirable trait:
Forget what’s happened in the past
People tend to be needy due to some event in their past.
If you’re having trouble with this issue, then you should look deep inside and figure out why you’re acting this way.
I would bet it probably has something to do with a relationship that went awry.
Bottom line: If you want to build a new relationship with women, you have to be willing to forget the past and NOT let it affect your interactions with women.
Find other activities
People are often needy merely out of boredom or a lack of things to do.
If you’re serious about getting rid of your neediness, get a hobby!
By having stuff to do, you’ll occupy your mind and time with fun stuff which isn’t centered on a particular woman. As a result, you’ll feel less of a desire to be around her.
Be more confident
Neediness comes from a lack of self confidence!
If you can develop you’re self confidence you’ll become less needy. The confident guy understands the importance of having your own life and knows that being an individual person is the best way to attract women.
Now if you’re having trouble with build self confidence, I recommend you check out the HypnoDate system which can teach you how to be a confident guy around women.
So if you’re a needy guy, try implementing these three tips in your life. You’ll find that it’s easy to eradicate needy feelings and become the kind of guy who is fun to be around without being too demanding.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
February 19, 2007
[AWTD] How to Gain Self Confidence Around Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 19th, 2007.
How to Gain Self Confidence Around Women
If you’ve ever tried to attract a woman, then you know a lot of the results depends on your self-confidence.
The more you have it, the better off you’ll be!
So what should you do if you lack self confidence around women?
Well here are a few tips you can use to gain self confidence around women…
1) Learn to relax
Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture, body and thinking about a positive outcome from the conversation you’re about to have.
The advice I often give to my readers of ‘Seduction Secrets…Revealed‘ is by removing all expectations you’ll become more relaxed around women.
2) Try meditation and exercising
There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi) which make more relaxed. By practicing these exercises, you’ll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it, including the times when you’re trying to pick up women.
So if you’re serious about building self confidence, try one of these activities.
3) Use your strengths
One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the qualities that make you a great person. Then whenever you’re faced with a situation where you’re not feeling confident, you can recall your list about what makes you great.
By mentally reviewing your strengths, you’ll be able to quickly ramp up your confidence levels
4) Be positive at all times
It’s widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women.
So no matter what you’re feeling inside, ALWAYS have a positive outlook and do your best to guy who women enjoy being around.
What’s funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality, you’ll eventually develop this personality trait!
Well if you’re interested in learning how to gain self confidence around women you should use these 4 tips to increase this type of personality.
If want to know more about gaining self confidence, be sure to check out the HypnoDate website
January 17, 2007
[AWTD] Learn to Control Your State of Mind When Meeting Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 16th, 2007.
[AWTD] Learn to Control Your State When meeting women
Your emotions and how you display them can have direct impact on how succesful you are with women.
Even on a subconcious level, girls can pick up on your emotions. So if you’re feeling nervous, then you’ll probably end up acting nervous and awkward around a woman. In turn, she’ll be turned-off by your defeatist attitude.
That’s why learning how to control your “state of mind” is an important thing to learn.
While it can be hard to control how you feel, you have to learn to at least mask your emotions.
One trick that many guys use is self-hypnosis. They learn to put themselves in a positive state by listening to certain music or reciting a positive affirmation.
You can implement this trick by learning to recognize nervous emotions and then thinking about times when you did something great. Just keep practicing this trick till you get to the point where you feel confident around women or when you can mask negative emotions.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 15, 2007
Review of HypnoDate
Did you know I can READ MINDS?
Well actually, I can’t.
But I can make a quick GUESS about your dating life.
In fact, if I was a BETTING MAN, I would say my prediction is probably right…
My guess is your CONFIDENCE is one of the MAJOR reasons why you’re struggling to meet the kind of women you deserve.
How do I know this?
Well recently I polled my list subscribers and 83% of you stated that you sometimes feel a lack of confidence when talking to an attractive girl.
This means your confidence is the ULTIMATE factor in your ability to meet and attract the kind women you TRULY want.
Furthermore, the one trait women find the MOST attractive about a guy is his confidence. So you’re DESTROYING any chance of success if you cannot act in a confident manner around women.
SIMPLY PUT- YOU NEED CONFIDENCE TO attract women!
Without it, your chances at pick up that hot chick across the bar are slim to none.
But if you’re one of the 83% who don’t feel confident around women, there is still a way you can develop UNSTOPPABLE confidence around women.
Here’s how it’s possible…
Recently I stumbled upon a system that can help ANY guy develop incredible confidence in EVERY situation with a woman.
This resource, called HypnoDate, focuses on helping YOU develop TREMENDOUS confidence around women. In fact, this site even goes as far as to state how you can learn how to “attract and sleep with TWO women by the end of the week”.
How’s that for a promise?
Now at first I was a bit skeptical of this site due to the ’salesy’ title. But after reading through this system, I
realized that it’s one of the BEST places I’ve found on which can help you increase your confidence around women.
What this guide covers is how to use self-hypnosis to become 100% confidence and charismatic around women.
Unlike other systems, HypnoDate avoids using canned lines and pick-up techniques. Instead of memorizing a lot of useless information, you’ll learn how to INTERNALIZE your seduction abilities and TRANSFORM yourself in into a DON JUAN.
Once you have the unshakeable, undeniable, ultra-confidence, beautiful women will be drawn to your magnetic charms and will start to approach YOU!
One thing I really like about HypnoDate is the simplicity of the system. Unlike other sources, you can easily read and
IMMEDIATELY implement their techniques into your life.
In a few short minutes, you could be on the pathway to a new You.
Another great thing about HypnoDate is it provides an in-depth peek into the thought process of women.
Once you know what she’s thinking, it becomes SUPRISINGLY SIMPLE to attract and seduce her.
Now the one misconception some guys have when they first look at this site is they think it’s about hypnotizing women and convincing them to have sex.
This is completely false!
HypnoDate is about how to become ULTRA-confident and CHARASMATIC around ANY woman.
Since we already know system will help you become the kind of man which all women LOVE TO BE AROUND.
The bottom line is the HypnoDate system can help you ELIMINATE any ideas, thoughts and patterns which are preventing you from meeting and attracting women.
If you have ANY problem with your confidence, take a few minutes and look at the HypnoDate system
December 10, 2006
[AWTD] Stop Worrying About Your Looks
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 10th, 2006.
Stop Worrying About Your Looks
A lot of guys worry about their looks when talking to a woman. They feel that they might be too bald, short, fat, old or poor to truly attract a woman.
The one thing they have to realize is many women look at attraction in a different way then men do. For instance, we tend to be attracted to the thin, large-breasted, model types. To us, that is the epitome of what is the most attractive about women.
On the other hand, what women find attractive really depends on their personality. Some love large hulking men, while others are attracted to thin, intellectual types.
What most men don’t realize is that personality and *chemistry* can be a huge factor to the levels of attraction among women…
This is good news!
That means no matter what you look like, you can still be VERY successful with women. If you can develop an interesting personality, you’ll do well with women. By paying attention to the instructions in my ebook “Seduction Secrets…Revealed” and from the information on this blog, you will have enough information to help develop a personality that women will absolutely love!
So remember it’s not the looks that matter, it’s your personality!
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 5, 2006
[AWTD] Build Confidence and Stop Being Nervous When You Talk to Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 5th, 2006.
build confidence and Stop Being Nervous When You talk to women
A lack of confidence is one of the biggest obstacles to meeting and attracting women. Most guys get so nervous about talking to women that they would rather hang out with their friends instead of risking the chance of rejection. By doing this, they’re letting their nervousness get in the way of find a women with whom they can really connect.
But there are a few simple ways that you can quickly get of your nervous and approach women with confidence:
1) Don’t worry about the outcome! When you’re approaching women, you have to remind yourself that the outcome really doesn’t matter. If she doesn’t want to talk to you, you haven’t lost anything.
2) Before you walk up to her (or go out), get in the habit of breathing slowly and deeply. This will slow your heart rate down and relieve some tension.
3) Visualize yourself as already being successful when you’re talking to a woman. By picturing yourself as confident and smooth, you’ll be able to predict your own success.
If you take the time to practice these three steps, you’ll discover that your nervousness will be drastically reduced.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
November 29, 2006
[AWTD] Confidence is Key to Success with Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for November 29th, 2006.
Confidence is Key to success with women
Want to know the one thing that women find most attractive in men?
It’s having confidence in yourself!
Generally, women like it when a guy is comfortable with himself and his surroundings. To them, a confident man demonstrates the fact that he doesn’t worry about the outcome of any conversation with women. Instead, he takes the time to enjoy spending time with a woman.
If you want to want to instantly build attraction with a beautiful woman, you should take the time to develop your confidence. But if you are having trouble with feeling comfortable in social situations, then you probably need to work on building your self-confidence.
One site I found can help you work on your confidence and feel more at ease when you are talking to women.
So if you want to improve your chances of attracting women, then start working on your confidence.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
November 25, 2006
[AWTD] Keep Talking to Women Even if You are Nervous
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for November 25th, 2006.
Keep Talking to Women Even if You are Nervous
One of the biggest obstacles to meeting and attracting women is the nervousness factor. For many guys, just talking to women makes them tongue-tied and unable to think. In fact, many *tough-guys* would rather go into combat rather then approach and engage a pretty girl in a conversation.
So how do you get over this?
It’s actually quite simple…
To talk to women, all you have to do is talk to women.
What do I mean by this?
I mean you should strike up a conversation with every woman you encounter. If you get into the practice of talking to every girl you see, you’ll find it much easier to approach women that you are attracted to.
Eventually you’ll find that it’s actually quite simple to start a conversation with a woman. Just remember that practice always makes perfect. So look for any opportunity to start talking to women.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.