[AWTD] Give Her Your Best Seductive Smile
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 14th, 2007.
Give Her Your Best Seductive Smile
In today’s tip, I’m going to discuss something which you might think is very basic…
It’s your smile!
Probably the #1 way to attract a woman when you initially approach her is to give her a nice seductive smile. Unfortunately many guys don’t realize the importance of giving a woman a nice smile. So while it’s important to understand body language and specific routines, sometimes you can simply impress a woman by giving her your best smile.
When you smile at a woman you’re demonstrating a lot of positive qualities about yourself. It shows that you’re a relaxed, open and frienldy guy. In addition, by smiling you’re telling a woman that there is something interesting and attractive about her. So when flashing her a smile, she’ll probably get a “all warm and fuzzy” inside.
Now you might be worried about the appearance of your smile. My advice is to not get too work up about having the perfect smile. It’s not the look that matters. Instead it’s simply the act of smiling which makes women feel good about themselves.
Fortunately a lot of other guys approach women with rather serious looking expressions on their face, which does nothing to build attraction. If you can learn how to smile the right way, you’ll definitely stand out from these guys.
So how do you smile?
Well it’s simple…
Whenever you meet a woman or initiate a conversation, simply establish eye contact with her. Then all you have to do is give her a slow smile which demonstrates that “you just saw something you really like”. Then continue to hold her gaze and commence with your opener.
All you have to do is practice smiling a couple of minutes each day and make it point to smile at everyone around you. If you do this enough, it’ll become a reflex.
So if you really want to build instant attraction, I recommend you work hard on your smile.
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April 6, 2007
[AWTD] Always Maintain Killer Eye Contact with a Woman
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 6th, 2007.
Always Maintain Killer eye contact with a Woman
As you know by now, confidence is the best trait to instantly attract women.
But how do you show confidence from the moment a woman notices you?
It’s simple…
Give her eye contact which displays a confident look.
Now the important thing to remember about eye contact is you should ensure you’re doing it from a position of higher status. Whereas weaker (or wussy) guys look away immediately when initiating eye contact, you should hold your eye contact for a bit longer then socially acceptable.
The idea behind giving her this type of eye contact is that you want her to see you as a confident, sexual male. In other words, you’re not afraid to look away or back down from a challenge.
What’s interesting about killer eye contact is it means two different things to people based on their gender. Men will find it almost like a challenge or aggressive. On the other hand, women will notice that you’re confident enough to not to look away.
Then when you have her eye contact, you can either give her a simple smile OR you can use it as an excuse to approach her and start talking.
Confidence is the best way to build instant attraction with a woman. So if you can give a woman eye contact which reveals your inner-strength, you’ll have taken that crucial first step towards attracting her.
March 15, 2007
[AWTD] Develop the Right Body Language on Your Approach
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 14th, 2007.
Develop the Right body language on Your Approach
You know what?
Approaching a woman is the MOST important element to attracting her. As humans, we make instant judgments of people within the first couple seconds of meeting them. This means if you want to tattract her, you have to ensure that you have the right kind of body language.
Now most guys make the mistake of giving off the right kind of body language when approaching a woman. Whether they’re acting too intimidating or they’re behaving in a wussy manner, most men give off the WRONG type of body language.
If you’re having trouble with attracting women during your initial approach, try this system:
First lock eyes with a woman and smile at her during your approach. Your goal is to give off a warm and friendly personality with your approach. In other words, you’re acting like a long lost friend.
Next you want to avoid directly facing a woman. One of the principles of body language is we tend to be uncomfortable by people who directly face us. So
instead of facing her directly in front. Try approaching her to the side. If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle, you’ll reduce her nervousness and tension.
Finally once you’ve approached the woman you should strike a relaxed pose. In order to appear confident, you have to give off the appearance like you’re not anxious or too into the outcome of the situation. By giving a relaxed posture (like leaning back) you’re showing her that she’s in the presence of a confident male.
If you use this three part body language system on your approach you’ll increase your chances of developing a successful conversation.
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February 12, 2007
[AWTD] How to Tell if a Woman Is Interested in You
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 9th, 2007.
How to Tell if a Woman Is Interested in You
When you start dating a woman it’s always important to find out if she’s actually interested in you. If you’re like me, you probably don’t want to hang out with any girl who wastes your time. If you can quickly identify a woman who is wasting your time, you can quickly get rid of her and focus on women who deserve your attention.
The following are a few indicators that she’s probably NOT interested in you. If you see any of these, then you might want to think about ditching her and moving on…
1) She doesn’t give you her right phone number
2) She never has enough time to go out on a date with you
3) She uses you and makes you pay for everything
4) She never initiates contact like calling you or emailing. Every time you talk to her, you’re the first to do it.
5) She has a boyfriend who she is NOT breaking up with
6) She doesn’t kiss you or rejects your advances
7) She breaks dates and acts in a flaky way
Bottom line is these actions are an indication that she probably regards you as a friend or a back up. In other words, you’re NOT on the path towards a meaningful intimate relationship.
If you want a woman that is right for you, then you should avoid girls who demonstrate these traits.
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January 3, 2007
Revealing Flirt Tips Part #2- The Flirting Guide to Her Body Language Secrets
Yesterday I talked about the importance of picking up on women’s flirting signals. What discussed was women will send you a certain flirting cues that mean she wants you to approach her.
In this flirting guide, I mentioned that will send you specific looks from a distance in the hopes that you notice her and start talking. Some of these signs include constantly looking your way, smiling at you and making attempts to get your attention.
Today I am going to provide a flirting guide to women’s body language cues. These flirting signs are subconscious actions that women do in order to attract your attention. So if you’ve made eye contact with a woman and you see any of the following body language signs, approach her and strike up a conversation:
Flirt Signal #1- She touches and caresses her hair
Women often demonstrate interest in a guy by touching or caressing their hair. It’s a subconscious preening mechanism that almost all women do. To most women, their hair is a source of their confidence. By playing with it, they’re trying to act in a seductive and alluring manner.
Flirt Signal #2- She uses her legs to flirt with you
In this part of the flirting guide, I am going to discuss the power of women’s legs. You can learn a lot about a woman from the way their legs are acting.
For instance, if her feet are pointed towards you, she has likes and wants you notice her legs. A subconscious cue among all women is point her feet towards men they like. So when checking out a woman, make sure you take a look at her feet.
Another flirting signal is when a woman crosses and uncrosses her legs. This action is a sign of being unsure on how to act when she knows a guy is looking at her. If you see this, then you know she’s a little nervous with your glances.
Finally if she is dangling a shoe off her foot, that means she’s trying to be a little sexy.
Flirt Signal #3- She licks her lips
Women’s mouths are a constant source of pleasure. When they see a guy they like, a woman will get a dry mouth and will want to lick their lips.
In addition, a lot of women know licking their lips is a thing that guys find really sexy. By doing this overt action, a woman is telling you that she’s attracted and wants you to go talk to her.
Flirt Signal #4- She exposes her wrists, neck and other parts of her body
In the final section of this body language flirting guide, I want to touch on how women will expose intimate parts of body in order to demonstrate attraction. If you see her exposes her wrists, neck, or inner thighs towards you, then that means she wants you to see her erogenous areas. This is a classic sign of flirting.
All four of these signs of the flirting guide demonstrate a subconscious way that a woman will tell a guy she likes him. If you pay close attention, you’ll be able to notice these cues. If you seem them, you’re basically getting an invitation to go talk to her.
So get off your butt and approach her!
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meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s
Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 15, 2006
[AWTD] Pay Attention and Read Her Body Language
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 15th, 2006.
[AWTD] Pay Attention and Read Her body language
At any given moment, women are sending signals to you through their body language. If you know how to read and interpret these signals, you’ll be ahead of the competition.
When talking to a woman, you can easily tell how you’re doing simply by studying her body language.
For instance, when you say something which attracts her, she’ll move closer and start touching you more. When you a signal like this, you know whatever your doing is working!
When talking to her, you’ll often see either a positive or negative reacation. Once you see a sign like this, you should try to determine if your conversation is going well. Here are few positive and negative body language signs a woman will often display:
* She moves closer or farther away when talking to you
* She is locking eyes with or looking around the room
* She often touches you or closes herself off to you
Women will often tell you exactly what is going on in her head, all you have to do is pay attention to her body language and you’ll get all the answers you need.
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meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s
Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 8, 2006
[AWTD] Beware of Womens Body Language
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 7th, 2006.
Beware of Women’s body language
One of the problems with trying to meet and attract women is understanding their body language. A lot of women who already have boyfriends display the same exact signs of attraction that single women do. This can include direct and prolonged eye contact, smiling at you, playing or twirling with her hair, and dilated pupils.
For some reason a lot of women with boyfriends display these signs while they have not interest in meeting guys. They typically want to have fun with friends and like to still feel attracted.
The good news is there are a few *hidden* signs that ONLY women who are attracted will display. Here are just a few signs you should look for:
* Blushing or showing a flushed appearance when you direct look at her.
* Showing the inside of her palms and hands to you. In addition turning her body towards you.
* Making attempts to get you to look at her or be noticed by you.
* Trying to remain isolated from her friends in an attempt to get you to approach her.
Being able to distinguish between the different kinds of body language is an important step to meeting women. By knowing which signs are actually showing a level of attraction, you won’t have to waste time with women who are not available.
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December 5, 2006
Which of These 7 Signs of Flirting Does She Show?
Women and the signals they send us can be quite confusing. When talking to an attractive woman, a lot of men are left wondering if she’s just being nice or if she is showing classic signs of flirting. Since many women tend to send men mixed signals, it can be quite hard to figure out if she is actually attracted to you.
But there are a few basic signs of flirting that you’ll see that show she’s definitely interested in you. So when you’re approaching and talking to a girl, try to figure out if you’re seeing any of the following:
1- She will look directly at you
Before you approach a woman, she will directly look at you and maintain prolonged eye contact. In addition, she’ll smile right at you.
2- She will check you out
Yes women check out guys. If see her look at your face then look lower she is definitely checking you out! When she looks at you, that means she has found something great about you and wants to see more.
3- She will look her best for you
Once she knows you’re looking at her, a woman will make a point look her best for you. This means preening her clothes and hair. A lot of this is subconscious, but will see signs of flirting which demonstrate she’s trying to look her best for you.
4- She will open herself up to you
After you approach a woman and strike up a conversation, she will display an “openness” with her body language. Her arms will be spread and her wrists will be turned towards you.
5- She will stroke herself
When a woman is talking to you she might stroke her neck or touch her hair, perhaps even her thigh. These signs show that she’s thinking about her sensitive areas and quite possibly what you could do to them.
6- She will draw closer
One of the best signs of flirting is when she draws closer to you during your conversation. This shows a desire to create more intimacy when you’re talking to her. A woman might even lower her voice to get you to draw in closer.
7- She will let her eyes wander all over your face
The final flirting signal is when she moves her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth. This is one of the classic signs of flirting where she’s thinking of you kissing her. So when you see this signal, don’t hesitate. Start kissing her!
Women give subtle signals to men that demonstrate that they’re interested. If you take the time to look for the standard signs of flirting, you’ll discover she is probably sending you a lot of signals which show she is attracted to you.
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December 4, 2006
6 Secrets to Body Language in Flirting with Women
Having the proper body language in flirting with women is an absolute must. Before you can get a woman’s number or possibly go home with her, you have to build attraction and rapport. By developing the “right kind” of body language you’ll be able to increase your overall success with women?
So how do you develop a body language that will draw-in a woman?
Well it can be accomplished in six easy steps that are fairly easy to master:
1) Develop a positive attitude and ambiance
Your overall demeanor is the most important step to developing the proper body language in flirting. This means having fun in your conversation and genuinely enjoying her company. If you take the time to make sure you’re having fun, this attitude will be obvious in your interaction.
2) Carry yourself in a confident manner
A strong and confident personality will always attract women. So when you approach women and engage them in a conversation, take the time to ensure that you come across as confident. Even if you don’t feel particularly confident, keep practicing till you can at least fake it.
3) Maximize the power of your facial expressions
Your facial expressions in conversations have a direct impact on how quickly you can develop rapport with a woman. So make sure you’re sending the right kind of messages. This can be done by maintaining a confident smile and maintaining eye contact with her.
4) Lightly touch her during your interactions
A simple way to quickly build attraction is to lightly touch women during your conversations. By breaking the “touching barrier”, you’re subconsciously demonstrating that you have some attraction to her. But if she pulls away or looks upset, don’t touch her again. This pretty much means she doesn’t want you to touch her right now. (Later on, this could change)
5) Direct your body and attention to her
When you’re talking to woman, make sure that you’re facing her. While this may seem like common sense, a lot guys make the mistake of not paying full attention to women. So when you’re talking to her, make sure that your body appears both open and directly turned towards her.
6) Keep your concentration on what she is saying
Another huge mistake that guys make is letting their mind wander or thinking about how to “get into a woman’s pants”. When you’re talking to a woman, make sure you’re listening to what she is saying. If you let your concentration slip, she’ll probably pick up on the fact that you’re not listening and will get annoyed. Concentrate on what she is saying and let her know that she is the most important person in the room.
By following the six “body language in flirting” steps I described above, you’ll find that your conversations with women are much more successful. In addition you’ll discover that you can get more numbers and have more fun on dates.
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November 26, 2006
How to Flirt With Women Using the Power of Positive Body Language
Learning how to flirt is probably the best skill you can learn to attract women. By understanding proper flirting techniques, you will be able to build rapport with a girl and demonstrate your sexuality in a nonverbal way. Done correctly, you will be able to make her instantly attracted to you.
Unfortunately finding out how to flirt is hard for a large number of men. In our modern education system, little time is spent on teaching us relationship and sexuality skills. As a result, many of use have no clue about how to flirt and ways we can build attraction with women.
Fortunately flirting is a skill that you can easily learn.
In a previous article, I discussed the nature of flirting and why it’s important to learn this skill. I mentioned the importance of doing two things before flirting with a woman. The first is you have to be completely comfortable with yourself and ignore any faults that you may have. The other is to have the right frame of mind when flirting. Your focus is to have fun and be interesting to any woman you’re talking to.
By doing these first two steps, you will be creating what I like to call a “flirting atmosphere”, which is a fun, low-pressure way to engage women in a conversation. If you do this right, you’ll be able to build an instant connection with any woman.
Once you have the right kind of mindset for creating a flirting atmosphere, you have to ensure that your body language matches your attitude. This means your body should radiate confidence while remaining relaxed and in control.
What I mean by this is you have to show her that you’re having fun in your interaction, but you’re not taking yourself too seriously. As we all know, women love confident men. So you can subconsciously draw in women by giving off a positive aura.
To have the proper body language, you have to carry yourself with a straight, but relaxed posture. This signifies that you are confident while not being too stuffy.
After demonstrating your relaxed attitude, you have to give off a “welcoming attitude” with your body language. This means leaving your arms uncrossed and leaning forward to her as she is talking to you.
The final secret for learning how to flirt is to know how to use your smile. As we all know, a smile is a contagious thing. If you give her a welcoming and friendly smile, you are telling a woman that you like her and find her interesting. So when you’re creating a flirting atmosphere, make sure that you give her a confident smile that lets her know you find her interesting.
Believe me when I say that your smile will be the best arsenal when it comes to flirting with a woman.
Knowing how to flirt is a crucial step to meeting and attracting women. But before you even talk to them, you have to have the right kind of body language. By being able to create a flirting atmosphere and smile with a confident manner, you will set up a relaxing situation where you can easily build rapport and possibly “do more” with her.
So get out there and start practicing your flirting skills.
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November 21, 2006
[AWTD] Never Ignore Her Body Language Signs
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for November 11th, 2006.
Never Ignore Her body language Signs
In general, guys can be quite dense sometimes. Here’s why…
I often see women giving signals to men that they are attracted to them. The problem is most guys fail to recognize these signals or are too afraid to make initial contact.
Why really burns me is when guys do nothing after a woman purposely initiates eye contact with the sole intention of getting him to start a conversation. In my opinion, they are missing out on a golden opportunity to start talking to a girl that is already interested in them.
So if you ever encounter a situation where a girl is constantly making eye contact with you, this means that on some level she is interested in you. Don’t be a fool and do nothing. Just confidently walk up to her and initiate a conversation.
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October 19, 2006
3 Secrets to Reading the Body Language of Women
For single guys, trying to meet woman can be a very frustrating process. Even if we go to the right places and find interesting girls, it still can be difficult due to the fact that guys have to be the ones who initiate a conversation.
Making the first move can be quite intimidating due to the fact that many guys don’t know what to say or how to start talking to women.
Even worse, a lot of guys are unsure if a girl will be interested in them.
But if you become a master at reading the body language of women, you can avoid that initial uneasiness and have the confidence to approach women.
So what is body language?
Basically body language is the collection of traits and behavior that all people give off which indicates our conscious (and sub-conscious) feelings. By paying attention to the body language of a woman, you’ll be able to tell if she wants you to talk to her.
Having this knowledge will make approaching her that much easier. So when you locate a girl that you are interested in, take a look at her body language and pay attention to these three indicators of interest:
1) eye contact
Before even talking to a woman, try to make direct eye contact with her. Often you’ll see her looking away quickly and then glancing back at you. If she holds your eye contact, then that is a definite indicator that she has an interest in you.
In addition, when she knows that you’re looking at her, study how she interacts with her friends and environment. Try to find anything that indicates a level of nervousness. This shows that she is attracted to you and is having trouble composing herself.
2) Touching Her Hair
For some mysterious reason, women show their interest in a guy by playing with their hair. By watching how she touches her hair, you’ll find out her level of interest.
Once you make eye contact, study how she touches her hair. The first thing you should look for is if she flips her hair. If you see her toss her hair from one side to the other and then looks directly at you, this indicates that she has some level of desire for you and would like you to engage her in a conversation.
Some other hair indicators can include caressing her hair as she talks to her friends or twirling hair around her finger. If you see these actions coupled with looks in your direction, then you’re being sent a subtle message.
3) Pointing Her Body Towards You
A powerful way to find out if a woman likes you is to watch how she positions her body after making initial eye contact. If she positions her body in your general direction, then this shows she is attracted to you.
When studying her, you are basically looking for certain indicators which demonstrate a subconscious desire for you to talk to her. Some gestures can include:
- Feet pointing towards you
- Exposing her wrists in your direction
- Widening her legs
If you see any maneuver from a woman which indicates an “opening up”, she is telling you that she is attracted and wants you to initiate a conversation.
By paying attention to the body language of women, you can find out their level of desire without even speaking a word. If you’re the shy type, then this is a great way to build confidence before making your first move.
So next time you’re looking for women, take some time to check out what they are saying to you without speaking a word.