[AWTD] Flirt with Every Woman in the Group
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 25th, 2007.
Flirt with Every Woman in the Group
Women love to flirt with guys!
The funny thing is you can use this natural tendency to increase your ability to attract women.
Let me explain…
When you first approach a woman, she’s typically surrounded by her friends. The typical move that most guys make is to concentrate on one woman and ignore her friends.
Instead of doing this, you should focus on flirting with her AND her friends. (Including the ones you don’t find attractive.
The main reason you should flirt with every woman in this group is you’ll set up a competitive atmosphere. When you flirt with each woman, you’re showing positive qualities and make each one feel good about yourself. By not concentrating on a particular woman, you’re making each one compete for your attention.
The psychology of women is a tricky thing. It’s in their nature to be only interested in a guy who provides a bit of challenge. By flirting with every woman in the group you approach, you’ll be able to trigger this attraction mechanism. Once this happens, you’ll create a competitive environment where they want you’re the prize and the winner will be the one gets you!
So if even if you’re interested in one woman, you should flirt with her friends. By doing this, you’ll receive social approval from her friends which raises your status. In the end, you’ll attract her because her friends find you interesting.
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March 15, 2007
[AWTD] Develop the Right Body Language on Your Approach
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 14th, 2007.
Develop the Right body language on Your Approach
You know what?
Approaching a woman is the MOST important element to attracting her. As humans, we make instant judgments of people within the first couple seconds of meeting them. This means if you want to tattract her, you have to ensure that you have the right kind of body language.
Now most guys make the mistake of giving off the right kind of body language when approaching a woman. Whether they’re acting too intimidating or they’re behaving in a wussy manner, most men give off the WRONG type of body language.
If you’re having trouble with attracting women during your initial approach, try this system:
First lock eyes with a woman and smile at her during your approach. Your goal is to give off a warm and friendly personality with your approach. In other words, you’re acting like a long lost friend.
Next you want to avoid directly facing a woman. One of the principles of body language is we tend to be uncomfortable by people who directly face us. So
instead of facing her directly in front. Try approaching her to the side. If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle, you’ll reduce her nervousness and tension.
Finally once you’ve approached the woman you should strike a relaxed pose. In order to appear confident, you have to give off the appearance like you’re not anxious or too into the outcome of the situation. By giving a relaxed posture (like leaning back) you’re showing her that she’s in the presence of a confident male.
If you use this three part body language system on your approach you’ll increase your chances of developing a successful conversation.
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February 20, 2007
Part 2 of the Seduction School Video With PUA Master Wayne Elise
This video is the second part of the “Seduction School: Size Doesn’t Matter” series featuring Wayne Elise ‘aka: Juggler’ which was featured on British TV. In the last video, they showed the three ‘wanna-be’ seduction masters, Adrian, Dave and Neil try to pick up women. Obviously these three failed miserably.
This video starts out with a demonstration by Wayne (Juggler) and his sidekick Johnny. Both go right up to girls and close pretty quickly.
Then the video shows the first lesson which is the approach. According to Juggler the approach involves three things, smiling, walking tall and confident and then applying kino. Once the teachers demonstrate a good approach, the three students try their hand at approaching. Again, you can tell they have a lot of work to do.
When they have learned the basics, Juggler takes them out into the field and lets them practice with live women. You can tell that while they’re not doing well, they’re at least getting used to approaching girls.
So watch the video, if you feel like you have problems with your game, take a look at these three. I guarantee that you’re probably doing better then these guys
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January 29, 2007
[AWTD] Use Shopping Malls to Practice Meeting Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 29th, 2007.
[AWTD] Use Shopping Malls to Practice meeting women
Want to know the secret to getting better at talking to women?
It’s simple…
…Just talk to as many women as possible!
Now if you’re like most guys, it can be hard to walk up to dozens of women each day and start talking. But there is a simple way that you can talk to a lot of women without having fear of approaching them.
It’s at your local shopping mall.
Seriously dude, shopping malls are literally filled with attractive women in their 20’s and 30’s. All of them are working in the various clothing and retail stores in this location. All you have to do is walk into one and start browsing.
The great part is it’s THEIR job to come talk to you. Once this happens just tell her that you’re looking for a particular item.
For instance, if you’re in a clothing store, ask for her help picking out a particular sweater.
Then when you’re being helped, just practice your conversation skills. Tell funny stories, flirt with her and establish kino.
The great part is you don’t have to be nervous because all you have to is remember this is for practice. Then when you’re going out to meet women *for real* you’ll be much more comfortable talking to them.
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January 16, 2007
A Great Technique For Approaching Women at the Beach
Got another great video from YouTube!
The video, another clip from of the David DeAngelo seminars. It features a guest speaker who talks about how to approach women at the beach. Basically the video quickly demonstrates a technique that’ll definitely attract a woman’s attention and is an incredible way to initate a conversation.
My only advice is to practice this approaching women technique in private till you can master it. Otherwise, you’ll end up looking like a fool.
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January 12, 2007
[AWTD] Don’t Be Afraid of Other Guys Around an Attractive Woman
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 11th, 2007.
[AWTD] Don’t Be Afraid of Other Guys Around an attractive woman
This happens all the time…
I’ll be out in a club, looking around, when I’ll notice an attractive woman who has a guy or two around her. What usually happens is many other men want to go talk to her, but they ASSUME that one of these guys is her boyfriend.
Now the problem with this is they disqualify themselves for even taking a chance.
What you have to remember is ALL girls have at least a few MALE FRIENDS who they like to go out with. Just because she has a guy next to her, this doesn’t mean she can’t be approached. Furthermore, she probably is DYING to have a guy come talk to her, because all other men are afraid to take any action.
In fact, I recommend you should ALWAYS approach a girl if she’s surrounded by guys.
What I like to do is go up to this group and use the “question opener” which I learned from ‘The Art of Approaching‘ system. Usually this is a way you can open the group in a friendly manner without coming across as too aggressive. Then I ask questions to the group and find out how they know one another. Usually I can learn if my target woman is going out with any of the guys. If I discover she’s single, then I make a quick transition and isolate her from the group.
By approaching women who are surrounded by men, you’re taking a chance that other guys are afraid to do. The end result is you could be rewarded by getting her number and setting up a date.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 10, 2007
Review of ‘The Art of Approaching’ By Joseph Matthews
Please excuse my audacity, but I’m willing to bet you have trouble approaching women. If that’s the case, read closely because I’m about to reveal something that’ll help you become a MASTER at approaching AND attracting women.
As you know by now, pick up lines are the worst way to approach women. If you try to use this method to approach women, you’ll end up being LAUGHED AT!
The problem with using pick up line is they do nothing to make a woman interested in you. Usually all they do is demonstrate a lack of originality and thought.
BOTTOM LINE…you need a BETTER way to approach women.
Now instead of trying us a lame pick-up line you have to approach a woman in a way that’ll get her INTERESTED, while making her WANT to know more about you.
So how do you do that?
Well recently I discovered something that BLOWS OPEN THE DOORS on all other guides to approaching girls. In fact, this resource contains a completely REVOLUTIONARY technique to strike up a conversation with a woman.
What is this method you ask?
Simply put, this technique emphasizes a simple approach method called an ‘opener’.
Basically an opener is a way to approach a woman with the express intent of engaging her in a conversation. With this technique, you’re able to get her interested in you while avoiding any initial resistance at you approaching her.
Doesn’t this sound a lot better then using pick up lines?
Of course!
But the trick is to know the proper method for using openers on women.
That’s where ‘The Art of Approaching’ comes in!
Written by Joseph Matthews, this guide contains an incredible wealth of information about approaching women.
So what makes this guide stand out from the other 10,000 “how to meet women” ebooks?
Well before I talk about what I like (and don’t like) about ‘The Art of Approaching’, let me discuss the one thing the other guides lack:
They don’t tell you how to INITIATE conversations with women!
While many ebooks provide good information about building confidence and attraction, they do little to tell you how to start talking to a woman. Usually their advice is to walk up to a woman with a smile and start talking.
But what are you supposed to say?
If you’re like me, then you know approaching a woman without a plan or idea of what to say is damn near impossible.
Fortunately ‘The Art of Approaching’ takes all the guess-work out of approaching women. In fact it give SPECIFIC examples of how to initiate a conversation with a woman that’ll spark both her curiosity AND interest.
I would consider it to be one of the few places I’ve found which gives you detailed information on how to walk up to a girl and start talking to her. In addition, you can use these techniques even if you’re the fattest, oldest and poorest slob in the crowd!
Now there are few other things that make ‘The Art of Approaching’ stand out:
First is Joseph’s guide emphasizes adapting a whole lifestyle change. What he focuses on is how to increase your confidence and make yourself a better person. Unlike a lot of resources, he seems to actually LIKE women.
It seems like a lot of the other guides out there are written by former losers who want to use and abuse women to make up for years of being scorned.
‘The Art of Approaching’ isn’t like that!
It’s more about making changes to yourself and learning how you can be more attractive to women.
Another thing I liked about this resource is it provides a ‘Boot Camp’ section where you receive a checklist to help you learn the art of approaching. This is one of the first places which tells you ‘how to do it’ instead of ‘what to do’.
The boot camp section is perfect for those who can’t think of how to start meeting women.
Finally and most importantly, I enjoyed ‘The Art of Approaching’ because it can teach you how to open women and engage them in conversation.
You can tell Joseph spent a lot of time on this one particular section. In fact, there are over 100 pages of material which covers many different techniques you can use to approach women.
All have been ‘field-tested’ and are proven methods to initiate conversations with women.
It’s perfect for guys who aren’t sure what they should say to a woman to get her interested.
So if you’re have ANY trouble with APPROACHING women, this is the guide for you.
I urge you to go right now and grab a copy
January 3, 2007
Revealing Flirt Tips Part #2- The Flirting Guide to Her Body Language Secrets
Yesterday I talked about the importance of picking up on women’s flirting signals. What discussed was women will send you a certain flirting cues that mean she wants you to approach her.
In this flirting guide, I mentioned that will send you specific looks from a distance in the hopes that you notice her and start talking. Some of these signs include constantly looking your way, smiling at you and making attempts to get your attention.
Today I am going to provide a flirting guide to women’s body language cues. These flirting signs are subconscious actions that women do in order to attract your attention. So if you’ve made eye contact with a woman and you see any of the following body language signs, approach her and strike up a conversation:
Flirt Signal #1- She touches and caresses her hair
Women often demonstrate interest in a guy by touching or caressing their hair. It’s a subconscious preening mechanism that almost all women do. To most women, their hair is a source of their confidence. By playing with it, they’re trying to act in a seductive and alluring manner.
Flirt Signal #2- She uses her legs to flirt with you
In this part of the flirting guide, I am going to discuss the power of women’s legs. You can learn a lot about a woman from the way their legs are acting.
For instance, if her feet are pointed towards you, she has likes and wants you notice her legs. A subconscious cue among all women is point her feet towards men they like. So when checking out a woman, make sure you take a look at her feet.
Another flirting signal is when a woman crosses and uncrosses her legs. This action is a sign of being unsure on how to act when she knows a guy is looking at her. If you see this, then you know she’s a little nervous with your glances.
Finally if she is dangling a shoe off her foot, that means she’s trying to be a little sexy.
Flirt Signal #3- She licks her lips
Women’s mouths are a constant source of pleasure. When they see a guy they like, a woman will get a dry mouth and will want to lick their lips.
In addition, a lot of women know licking their lips is a thing that guys find really sexy. By doing this overt action, a woman is telling you that she’s attracted and wants you to go talk to her.
Flirt Signal #4- She exposes her wrists, neck and other parts of her body
In the final section of this body language flirting guide, I want to touch on how women will expose intimate parts of body in order to demonstrate attraction. If you see her exposes her wrists, neck, or inner thighs towards you, then that means she wants you to see her erogenous areas. This is a classic sign of flirting.
All four of these signs of the flirting guide demonstrate a subconscious way that a woman will tell a guy she likes him. If you pay close attention, you’ll be able to notice these cues. If you seem them, you’re basically getting an invitation to go talk to her.
So get off your butt and approach her!
Want to learn 50 different ways to
meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s
Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
January 2, 2007
Revealing Flirt Tips Part #1-How She Uses a Flirt Signal to Have You Approach Her
Women use flirting as a way to demonstrate attraction to guys they like. When you’re talking to a woman, she’ll use certain actions to subtly tell you that she likes and wants to have things become more intimate.
The one problem with trying to interpret a flirt signal from women is they often send off mixed information. On one hand she might genuinely like you and find you attractive. On the other hand, she might be trying to be polite and not hurt your feelings.
But how do you know when she is showing flirt signals?
As we all know women can be a mystery. Their actions are difficult to interpret. However, there are certain surefire ways that you can absolutely tell if a woman is giving you a flirt signal. If you can identify these flirting cues, you will know she’s probably interested in you.
Once you know she’s flirting with you, you’ll be able to continue the conversation with confidence and perhaps let it progress to something more intimate.
In this next couple of days, I’ll cover a variety of flirting signals that women can give you. Each article will be broken down into different phases of a conversation- from the moment you look at her to when you’re about to “make a move”.
Today I am going to cover the different flirt signals a woman can give before you approach. All of the following flirt signals are given to have you to approach her.
Flirt Signal #1- She keeps on looking at you
When you’re scoping out women, you might catch a woman who keeps glancing at you. While you might catch a stray look from a girl who is not interested, any girl who keeps checking you out is probably flirting. Furthermore if she locks eyes with you, she’s definitely into you!
Typically most women will use eye contact as their primary way to flirt with a guy. This means they probably won’t be the one to initiate a conversation. So your first step to identify a girl who is flirting is to see if she’s glancing at you.
Flirt Signal #2- She smiles at you
When a woman is looking at you, she might smile. This is definitely a lot more forward then simply glancing in your direction. Unlike a woman who a only looks at you, a girl who gives you a smile shows an honest interest in having you approach you.
If you see this flirting signal, you’re definitely receiving a sign that she wants you to come approach her. Women don’t casually give this look to guys who they don’t like. It’s a clear sign that she wants you to come over and talk to her.
Flirt Signal #3- She tries to get your attention
Another great sign of flirting is when a woman tries to get your attention. She could do this by repeatedly walking by you or standing near you. If you catch a woman around you and she’s nowhere near her friends, she might be tying to get your attention
Bottom line: if you see her actively attempting to get you to notice her, then you know she’s demonstrating a sign of flirting.
Well these are the three signs of flirting that a woman will show to get you to talk to her. If you see any of these signs, she’s basically letting you know she’s attracted to you and wants to know more. So it’s up to you to walk over and initiate a conversation.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.
December 27, 2006
[AWTD] Approach Women in Groups
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 24th, 2006.
[AWTD] approach women in Groups
Let’s be honest here…
approaching women in any situation can be tough for most guys…And it gets even harder when they’re with their friends.
That’s why a lot of men wait till a woman is alone before approaching her.
But waiting for a women to be by herself never works because she’ll probably travel everywhere with her group (even to the bathroom). As a result, it’s really hard to get one alone to talk to her. In addition, when a woman is alone, she tends to be distrustful of any guy who approaches her.
The end result is you have to learn how to approach a woman when she’s with her friends!
Here’s how to do it:
When you see an attractive woman with her friends, you should approach the group and engage them in a conversation. Even if you’re interested in one particular girl, you start talking to the group. You can ask an opinion from the group and try to get them into a dialogue.
Your main objective when approaching a group of women is to get them to like you. Once this is done, you can isolate the woman you’re interested in.
An easy way to do this is to say to them, “Can I borrow {her name} for a couple of minutes. I promise to bring her back.”
Then you bring her to a different area, and start working on your rapport and attraction building skills.
I know for a lot of you, the idea of approaching a group of women can be terrifying. But if you practice what I described today, you’ll find it’s fairly easier to approach women and win them over!
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December 16, 2006
A Breakthrough Way to Never Get Rejected by Women
One of the worst feelings in the world is being rejected by a woman when you’re trying to start a conversation with her. Not only is she turning you down, she’s also making you feel like there is something wrong with you.
Although you know it has anything to do with you, rejection still hurts. In fact, this pain is so bad many guys avoid talking to women simply from a fear of rejection.
However there is a very simple technique which can virtually eliminate any chance of rejection!
Want to know what it is?
Well I’ll explain this technique in a little bit.
First I wanted to talk about a typical way a lot of guys approach women. This will illustrate why my breakthrough technique is probably the best way to approach women.
Let me explain…
If you’ve ever been to a bar or club with loud music, you might have seen a guy pulling a move which is almost always rejected.
What this guy will do is lurk around the dance floor looking for an available woman. His next move is to approach his target woman from behind and start grinding up against her.
Pulling this kind of maneuver really annoys women. Not only is he invading her personal space without permission, he comes across as a desperate idiot. Any guy who does this is likely to get pushed away or slapped.
This crap happens all the time, yet many men think this is an acceptable way to pick up women.
Another problem with this technique is the guy hasn’t set himself up as somebody a woman would like to meet. Her first impression is his crotch pressing up against her backside.
As you can see, this is a pretty lousy way to approach a woman!
Now as I promised before, there is a method I commonly use which practically eliminates all chance of rejection.
It’s simple…
When you see an interesting woman, lock eyes on her and wait. Eventually she’ll look your way. Once she does, give a warm smile and wave at her.
If she smiles and waves back, approach her and start a conversation.
Seems pretty basic right?
Well you would be surprised at the number of guys who fail to use this technique. It works like magic because when a woman smiles back at you and waves, she’s indicating a level of interest in you.
By smiling and waving back, this woman has given you the green light to go talk to her. Since she’s already aware of your presence and has smiled at you, there is very little chance of rejection.
To recap, the next time you’re out at bar or club, take the time to observe your surroundings and find a woman you like to know more about. Make eye contact with her, smile and then wave. If she gives you a “come-hither” look, then walk up and start talking to her.
I guarantee you won’t be rejected!
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
December 13, 2006
[AWTD] Look For Opportunities to Talk to Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 13th, 2006.
Look For Opportunities to talk to women
Believe it or not, there are often cases when an attractive woman gives you an opportunity to come talk to her. If you pay close enough attention, you’ll discover that many girls will check you out. When you see this action, it’s pretty much an invitation for you to approach and engage her in a conversation.
Here’s what you should do…
Next time you’re at a social gathering, make eye contact with different women. If you come across a girl that locks eyes with you, give her a warm smile. If she smiles back or gives you a quick vertical scan (ie: checking you out), then it means she probably has some interest you.
Don’t hesitate!
Immediately go up to her and engage her in conversation. In all likelihood she is interested in you. By taking the time to lock eyes with her and allow her to check you out, you are making it easy to find an opening to go talk to her.
Like any system this isn’t foolproof, but if you only approach women who give you an “invitation” to talk to them, you’ll definitely increase your success with women.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
November 27, 2006
[AWTD] The 5 Second Rule for Approaching Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for November 27th, 2006.
The 5 Second Rule for approaching women
Yesterday I talked about nervousness and how it prevents you from striking up conversations with women. What I recommended was to take every opportunity to engage a woman in a conversation. Today I will discuss the importance of approaching women as soon as you see them.
One of the best pieces of advice I have ever heard about approaching women is the “5 Second Rule”. It works like this…
Whenever you see an attractive woman, you give yourself exactly five seconds to think of what to say before approaching her. The idea behind this rule is when you take a long time to talk to a woman, you might start to develop negative thoughts and might even “psych yourself out”.
By giving yourself only a few seconds to gather yourself, you won’t have time to think about everything that goes wrong. Instead you’ll focus on what you want to say then you approach her.
If you teach yourself to approach women as soon as you see them, it’ll become second nature.
When you use the 5 second rule, you’ll find that going up to a woman is actually quite simple. In fact, one you start to eliminate your negative thoughts and nervousness, you’ll discover that approaching women is actually quite simple.
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.