[AWTD] How to Establish High Status With Women
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 20th, 2007.
How to Establish High Status With Women
At the core of almost every course on meeting and attracting women is the principle of higher status.
The idea behind this trait is women are attracted to men who can demonstrate they’re an important person to know. One reason this is true is because people look to others for social proof. By establishing yourself as a guy with higher status, you’ll be a guy who is naturally attractive to women.
So how do you establish higher status?
Well, to be honest higher status is very complex principle to incorporate into your life. If you can learn ONE technique about attraction, then you should take the time to learn how to become a superior status male.
Now that being said…there are a few different ways you can quickly establish higher status with women
- Have lots of friends and other women around you who say complementary things
- Be the leader in your group
- Use cocky funny, negs and other teasing techniques to bust on a woman
- Show alpha male characteristics: confidence, integrity, strength of character and respect
By having higher status, you’ll automatically become the guy who women want to date. In fact, if you can stand out from your friends, women will automatically select you as their potential dating partner.
So take some time and work on establishing higher status.
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April 8, 2007
[AWTD] The Extra Ticket Close
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 8th, 2007.
The Extra Ticket Close
Imagine this…
You’ve been talking to a woman for a bit. During the conversation, you’ve received a number of Indicators of Interest (IOI) and know that she is attracted to you. But you realize that you have to leave soon.
So what do you do in this situation?
Well the natural instinct for many guys is to tell her you want to call her sometime and then get her number.
Unfortunately this a huge mistake. Let me tell you why…
While getting a woman’s number is important, you’ll be wasting your time if you don’t have a concrete plan of how you use it.
The problem is when get JUST a woman’s number, you do nothing to make her EXCITED about you calling her.
Instead of grabbing a woman’s digits, you should use what I like to call “The Extra Ticket Close”. It works like this…
During your conversation, you talk at length about the different (and exciting) things that are going on in your life. Every so often you mention different actities you like to do. To expand on this, you give her an example of what you’re doing in the next couple of days. Talk about how much fun it’s going to be. Then you change the conversation.
What you’re doing here is seeding the conversation with a glimpse into your life, but you’re not inviting her.
Then you continue the conversation using other attraction techniques.
Finally when the conversation comes to a conclusion, you implement the second phase of “The Extra Ticket Close” . As you’re talking to her, make it seem like you suddenly had a thought…
You tell her that you just realized that you have an extra ticket to this awesome thing you were talking about. Then tell her it’ll be okay if she tagged along. At this point you get her number and tell her that you’ll call her with more details.
What I like about this technique is you’re getting her on a date without coming across as a needy person. In addition, since you’re assuming the close, you’ll come across as a confident guy.
So if you’re stuck with how to ask a woman on a date, you easily use “The Extra Ticket Close” to seal the deal.
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April 2, 2007
[AWTD] Wing Man Tips and Advice
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 1st, 2007.
Wing Man Tips and Advice
Okay, we all know women HATE when guys brag.
To be honest, the quickest way to repel them is to start talking about how wonderful you are or what you’ve accomplished in your life.
But there is a real sneaky way you can have your postive qualities discussed.
All you have to do is get your Wing Man to talk about you!
If you’re familiar with fundamental business principles, the you know “word of mouth” advertising is the best way to market a business. If a company can other people to become raving fans, then it’s easy to sell a product.
Now this technique can be used with women, if you get your buddy to say great things about.
In essence, he’ll bring up awesome things about you. And since YOU’RE not the one who is bragging, you won’t appear to be an arrogant jerk. Furthermore, by having him say good things about you, it’s almost like a personal recommendation.
So what you need to do is talk to your buddy and work on your Wing Man skills. If you learn good things about one another (and learn how to say them), you’ll be able make meeting woman a TEAM effort.
Once this happens, it’ll become MUCH easier to attract them.
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March 14, 2007
[AWTD] How you Isolate Women From Her Friends
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 13th, 2007.
How you Isolate Women From Her Friends
If you’re familiar with approach techniques, then you know you need to approach groups of women.
Yes! If you want to become a master of seduction, you must become great at walking up to multiple women, engage them in a conversation and make an instant connection with the woman you’re pursuing.
Now remember…
Your goal of the approach is to attract one particular woman.
So how do you do this?
Well you can use a technique known as ‘Isolating’. It means getting a woman away from her friends, so you can work on building attraction.
Isolation works like this…
As you know by now, when a woman is with her friends she’ll be more reserved and won’t be as open to the things you’re saying to her. So in order to attain your goal of attracting her you must remove her from her friends.
The first thing you should do is look for genuine signs of attraction. If you don’t see ANY IOIs (Indicators of Interest), then you should make a decision- switch your focus to another woman or end the approach.
But if you do see she’s trying to get your attention and is open to being isolated, start directing your comments and questions JUST to her. By now her friends will pick up on the fact they’re developing a one-on-one conversation.
When this become obvious, say to your target “Hey ____ , I want to show you something” then turn to her friends and say “Can I borrow your friends for a bit, I promise I’ll bring her back”.
This technique works because NO woman wants to appear to be controlled by her friends. Even if she’s not TOTALLY into you, she’ll be open to being isolated just to show she’s an independent woman.
Now once you’re alone with her, you can continue your conversation and work on building attraction and working towards landing a date.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
February 5, 2007
[AWTD] Why Practicing on ‘Hired Guns’ Can Help You With Your Attraction Techniques
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 4th, 2007.
Why Practicing on ‘Hired Guns’ Can Help You With Your Attraction Techniques
In my free ebook- ‘Seduction Secrets…Revealed‘ and ‘Double Your Dating‘ many attraction building techniques are discussed. While it’s ALWAYS important to know the right things to say or do, it’s equally vital that you get practice using them on beautiful women.
But there’s a problem…
Most guys try to use these techniques when they meet women at a bar. Unfortunately many women in bars tend to put a defense to guys approaching them. So if you’re trying to practice your attraction techniques, a bar is a hard place to start.
The good news is there are plenty of places with beautiful women where they HAVE TO talk to you.
Let me explain…
In many industries, there is a group of beautiful women called ‘Hired Guns’. Basically the prime requirement for a woman to work at a place and be a ‘hired gun’ is to be attractive and young.
Now hired guns are basically paid to do their job, but at the same time, they have to talk and flirt with male customers. What’s great about approaching these type of women is they HAVE to talk to you. So if you need to practice your attraction and flirting skills, hired guns provide an excellent opportunity to do so.
You can easily find hired guns a wide variety of locations. This can include:
* Trendy clothing stores like Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Banana Republic and Express for Men
* Bartenders at local watering holes and clubs
* Waitresses at places like Hooters
* Alcohol, beer promotion and shot girls at various locations
* Car show spokeswomen
I personally like to approach these type of women at the beginning of the night to “warm up” and practice my flirting skills. You can easily use the hired guns to work on your skills. Then when you feel comfortable, you can move on to
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February 2, 2007
[AWTD] How to Use the ‘Hershey Kiss’ Pick Up Trick
The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for Febuary 3rd, 2007.
Share a ‘Hershey Kiss’ With a Girl
Here’s a great tip that I found on SoSuave.com. In a brief article, the author described a great pick-up technique which virtually guarantees you won’t be turned down.
It works like this…
First you go to a grocery store and purchase a bag of Hershey Kisses. Make sure you buy two different types of bags. Ie: Chocolate, swirl, almond, etc.
Then make sure you carry these Hershey Kisses with you everywhere you go. (Obviously replacing the ones that melt)
Then when you spot an attractive woman, you walk up to her with one Hershey Kiss in each of your hand. Approach her with a big confident smile and tell her “When I see a beautiful woman, I always have to give her a kiss…” Then hold out both of your hands and say “Which do you prefer, chocolate or swirl?”
From what I gathered in the article, this pick-up technique works really well with women.
Personally I think it’s a unique way to approach a woman. It’s definitely unique and some women will find it pretty cute. The key to doing this is to target a woman who doesn’t look too preoccupied and looks like she wants to be approached.
So how do you know if a woman wants to be approached?
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February 1, 2007
Peacocking and What It Means For Attracting Women Is Explained by TenMagnet
One of the techniques that many ‘Master Pick Up Artists’ emphasize is to “Peacock” when in public. Peacocking is basically taking actions to stand out and grabbing people’s attention in a positive way.
In a recent post on the TenMagnet website, he explains what peacocking is and how you can use it to attract women.
Basically in this article, he discusses how peacocking is NOT about wearing outrageous outfits or accessories. Instead he feels, peacocking is a way to take YOUR style and make it stand out.
For instance, he discusses how he took a defense analyst and found an outfit which suited him. After a fashion conslultation, the guy was able to find his unique style and stand out.
So take a look at this article on peacocking and learn how you can find your own style.
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 30, 2007
How to Set Up a Date and Get Her Email Address or Phone Number
Recently I received this email. Here’s how I answered it…
Hi Scott!
I was able to successfully download your free subscription. My problem is not approaching women. I have no problem going up to almost any girl I want to talk to. I feel like I can’t just quite seal the deal when it comes to getting more numbers and dates. I see myself as a pretty outgoing and busy guy. I get numbers but usually it is like 1 or 2 out of 10. Anyway, I know that you probably are flooded with emails but I would really appreciate it if you could give me some advice at your convenience.
- William from Texas
Well William here’s my take on the whole phone number thing. In my opinion, it should be the LAST thing you should go for when you initially meet a woman.
Let me explain…
During your conversation, you want to build up enough attraction where she would like to go out on the date. This means BEFORE you even go for her number, you should make sure you’re doing enough to ATTRACT her.
In other words, you have to focus on creating a fun and dynamic conversation. This can include asking her interesting questions, being cocky-funny, flirting, and establishing physical contact. The more you can do to build attraction, the more she’ll want to go out on a date with you.
During your conversation, you should find out about her interests and hobbies. This information is important because you will want to incorporate it into a date idea.
After you have talked to her for a few minutes, you can try a technique which I copied from David DeAngelo. Tell her that you enjoyed the conversation but must go back to her friends. Then turn to walk away and almost as an afterthought say to her something like:
“I just had a thought! You mentioned that you like ____. I was thinking about doing it this Friday, I’d be cool if you tagged along. Do you have email?”
Now this technique works because typically women tend to answer emails more often then phone numbers. In addition, you can use a bit of cocky-funny if she tells you she doesn’t have an email account. Finally, you are “assuming the close”. Instead of asking for a date, you’re just assuming she wants to come out.
Then when you’re getting her email, tell her to jot down her number as well. Now end the conversation and tell her you’ll send her more information to set things up.
Basically I think this technique works well for a couple of reasons
1- You’re setting up a date that is centered on something she enjoys
2- You’re getting an email address where it’s A LOT easier to contact someone because of busy schedules.
3- You’re showing confidence because you have controlled the situation. You’ve walked up to her, chatted her up, did a bit of flirting then chose the point to end it. It works because women are used to guys hitting on them and NEVER leaving.
Okay William, I hope this helps a little. Just remember to focus on setting up a date and then using an email (or phone number) to finalize plans.
Good Luck!
For more information on how to get a woman’s phone number or email, check out ‘Double Your Dating‘
Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com
January 25, 2007
Advanced Pick Up Techniques- Create Sexual Tension
Recently I’ve had a few of my list subscribers send me emails where they tell me how they already know about the techniques which I describe in my free book ‘Seduction Secrets…Revealed!’
This got me thinking…
After a bit of research I realized that much of what I write is geared towards guys who are just beginning their journey towards meeting and attracting women. While I humbly think I give great information for the men who are new to these principles, I discovered that I don’t have much content for the guys who are out there who have had some success with women.
In other words, I need to provide these guys with information that’ll improve their techniques and will take them to the next level.
So I’ve decided to help them out…
Every week, I will be posting at least ONE article which focuses on ‘Advanced Pick Up Techniques’. This information will focus on helping those men who are already familiar with the basics of meeting and attracting women, but experience certain problems with their pick-up techniques.
Well with that being said, let’s get started…
What I want to talk about today is sexual tension and why you absolutely need it for building attraction.
Recently I had an opportunity to check out the ‘Instant Attraction Program‘. I won’t waste too much time talking about this guide, but I wanted to mention that it has a lot of interesting information which helps men learn the advanced techniques which aren’t discussed in the beginner resources.
Now I discovered something interesting on Pg. 50 of the Instant Attraction Program. On this page, the author mentions how girls won’t respond well to guys unless there is sexual tension.
What this means in order to sleep with a woman, you have to let her know in a subtle way that you want her. The key is to NOT come out and tell a woman that you want to bang her.
Instead you have to display certain body language characteristics which demonstrate that you’re into a woman. To display sexual tension, you should try the following techniques:
1- Keep eye contact with a woman during your conversation.
Weak guys dart their eyes around the room. To NOT be like them, you should give off a masculine presence by looking her in the eyes when talking.
2- Get physical with your conversation.
Establishing kinesthetics when talking to a woman is an absolute must if you want to establish sexual tension. This means touching her arm to emphasize a point or playfully pushing yourself. One trick is to lean in really close when you want to “tell her a secret”.
Physical contact is absolutely necessary to getting a woman to sleep with you. So you have to make her REALLY comfortable being around you.
3- Notice things about her and make comments
Women LOVE being the center of attention, so it’s important to notice things about her and make comments. Now there are two different thoughts on how to do this…
Some prefer to be cocky-funny. If you decide to use this technique, you can joke with her and treat her like a little sister.
On the other hand, there are guys who don’t like to use cocky-funny. If you’re one of them, then try to find something where you can pay her a compliment.
4- Discuss the future
The sexual tension will go nowhere unless you take action. Typically you sexual tension can lead to a more intimate encounter if you can go to a private place. What you can do is set up a date for the future.
What most guys do is just ask a girl for a date. But one technique I’ve found to work is to talk about going out sometime in a non-committed way. Then mention if “she plays her cards right” you’ll agree to go out with her.
This works because putting yourself in the power position where she’ll have to work hard for YOUR attention. As a result, she’ll do more to attract you. In other words, the sexual tension will increase!
If you play your cards right, you can get out of this public place and go somewhere private. Then your sexual tension will probably lead to sex!
Now as I mentioned at the beginning of this post, there are a lot of advanced techniques that can be used to increase your success with women. While I try to include everything that I know, I don’t have a lot of time to do so.
If you’re serious about wanting to know more about approaching and attracting women, I recommend you check out the ‘Instant Attraction Program’
Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.