Here’s a question, I received from a reader of my newsletter and my Attraction Mastery

Hey Scott-

I wanted to get your input on a current situation that has just come up today. I was walking home from a morning class when I struck up a conversation with this good looking blonde. I was smooth, confident, the works and it worked. I tried to set up a date and she said maybe.

Since I had to get going to another class I asked her for her number and she willingly gave it to me. I just wanted to know if I should give her a ring as soon as tomorrow so that she won’t forget who I am or should I wait a few days. Also if I call her should I try to set something up right away or just call and have a brief conversation with her.

Thanks again Scott and please get back to me as soon as possible. You’re the man!

Thanks,
   Mr. P

Whenever I get an email like this I think of the scene in the movie ‘Swingers’ where Trent is telling Mike to wait a couple of days to call because “if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who’s ready to party”

While I love this movie, I think calling too late is the worst thing you can do when you’ve built up attraction with a woman.

Remember, good-looking women are a rare breed!

From the moment they wake up to the moment they go to sleep, they’re consistently being hit on by guys.

That means even if your game is great and you’ve done an incredible job of creating attraction, you’ll be quickly forgotten if you don’t follow-up within the next couple of days.

So here’s what you should do…

When you first meet a woman, use the attraction and flirting techniques that I described in my ebook.  Your focus is to build attraction and rapport with her.

Towards the end of your conversation, mention how you’ve enjoyed your conversation.  Then either go for setting up a date or getting her number.  (In my book and newsletter, I give advice on how to figure out which to go for).

Now getting back to the point of the question…

How long should you wait to call?

My answer is to call within a day or so!

By doing this you’re continuing with the attraction you’ve built with this woman and you’re also at the forefront of your mind.

My general rule of thumb is to women with a purpose.  If you don’t have a plan of action, then talking to a girl over the phone is really not worth your time. 

So when you call, steer the conversation towards setting up a date.  You can chat a little, talk for awhile and have a normal conversation, but your primary goal is to set up a date.

And…

Once you’ve set up a date, you can meet her in person and work your magic!

Well Mr. P, hope this answers your question.

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