How to Master Phone Conversations with Women

Imagine this…

You meet a woman, have a great conversation and then get her number.  Then when you call her, the phone discussion goes nowhere and you realize that all the chemistry you had when you met is now gone.

Sucks doesn’t it?

Well this situations happens to guys ALL the time.

Unfortunately knowing how to talk on the phone has never been a great skill for us.  Most of us would rather be outside doing stuff instead of getting trapped on the phone for hours.

But if you want to be successful with women you HAVE to know how to talk on the phone.  Here are a few simple tips to help you become a master at phone conversations:

Phone Tips #1- Be in a Positive State

Whenever you call a woman, you have to be a positive and happy mood.  In other words, don’t call her when your dog just died.

Try putting yourself in a positive state by listening to upbeat music or doing something that you really enjoy.  Then give her a call.  By being upbeat, you’ll convey this emotion during your conversation.

Phone Tips #2- Call her with a purpose

Another mistake that guys make is to call a woman with no clear purpose.  They think the phone should be used to chat with a woman.  Let her *chat* with her girlfriends.

When you give her a call, you should have a clear purpose.  Typically your purpose is to set up a date in the next few days.

Phone Tips #3- Be Confident and funny

Your phone conversation should be a continuation of your in-person conversation.  This means you should continue to talk to her in a confident manner with a bit of teasing humor.  Just remember that flirting is STILL important on a phone call.

Phone Tips #4- Commit to your plans

A real killer of a conversation is a man who acts like a wuss on the phone.  Generally this guy mumbles a lot and when he tries to set up a date, he says something like “Are you busy tomorrow?” 

Instead of acting like a weak person, you need to be assertive.  Just tell her about a wonderful idea you have for a date and then let her know that she’s going with you.  Unless she already has plans, a woman will go with you just because you sound confident enough.

Just remember that the phone is a device that you use to stay in contact with women you meet.  Use it to your advantage and set up dates where you can get more physical.

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