How to Get Laid Tonight in Seven Simple Steps

Here’s a recent letter I recently received from a reader…

“Hey Scott-

Thanks for the great tips man!  Reason I am writing you is because you have too much stuff to learn.  Can you give me like a quick breakdown on how to get laid tonight!  I really need to know how I can be knockin’ boots like as soon as possible.

 Peace,
  Tim (Gulfport, MS)”

Well Tim (and fellow readers), knowing how to get laid with ANY random woman takes a bit of practice.  So while I can’t guarantee you can succeed with every girl, there is a fairly simple process you can follow that’ll definitely increase your chances of scoring.

If you can learn (and apply) the following seven step system, you’ll see a dramatic increase in your ability to “close the deal” with a woman. 

For simplicity sake, I am going assume you’re trying to get laid when you go out to a bar.  Just remember you can adapt these steps and apply them to different locations.

How to Get Laid Step 1- Read her body language

The first step is probably the most important of them all.  Before initiating a conversation with a woman, you have to target somebody who is interested in you.  So what you should do is scope out different women you’re attracted to.

Once you find a woman you like, observe her body language.  When you check her out, observe if she is demonstrating the following “positive body language” cues:
 
• Her back is to the bar and is facing the crowd
• She’s having fun with her friends and seems to be in good spirits
• Her body language is open and not showing closed off signs like boredom
• She is looking around, scoping out different guys

My advice is to ONLY approach a girl who is showing you these signs.  While you still can succeed with a girl who’s not showing these body language cues, it’s a pretty hard to do if don’t know what you’re doing.

How to Get Laid Step 2- Make eye contact and approach her

Once you’ve spotted an attractive woman, make eye contact with her and then smile.  If she smiles back, then you have received an invitation to go over and talk to her.

Now here’s where many guys make a HUGE mistake…

When you approach her, DON’T use some corny pick up line.  Instead try to initiate a conversation in a more natural way. 

For instance, you could ask her a question, request an opinion, give a genuine compliment or simply introduce yourself.

The key to getting laid is to immediately make her interested in you when you start a conversation.  So make sure you start talking to her in a way that will make her INTERESTED IN YOU!

How to Get Laid Step 3- Have the right attitude and talk about fun topics

Women are attracted to confident guys with the right kind of attitude.  This means you must project yourself in a slightly cocky manner with a bit of humor.  The best advice I’ve heard on this topic is to treat your target woman like a bratty younger sister.

Use the conversation to bust her balls and tease her.  Your focus is to “increase your value” in her eyes while proving that you’re a confident person.

In addition, this conversation should focus on fun topics instead of boring things like work or school.  If you have to, write down a list of questions beforehand that’ll spark her curiosity and interest.

Finally you should have a few good stories about yourself that puts you in a positive light and makes your life seem exciting.

How to Get Laid Step 4- Talk about sex in your conversation

The quickest way to get laid is to bring up the subject in your conversation.  Now don’t start talking about how you want to bang her.  Instead mention a story or two about one of your friends or tease her by saying how you “know she wants you”.

By weaving the topic of sex into the conversation, she’ll subconsciously wonder what it’s like to have sex with you. 

If you see her respond back in a positive way, then increase the innuendos and comments.

How to Get Laid Step 5- Initiate physical contact

When you’re talking to her, try to initiate physical contact.  You can do this by touching her when you want emphasize a point or lightly swat her in a teasing way.

Physical contact is a way to build attraction and make her wonder what you’re like in the sack, so if you want to get laid tonight, you have to work this step pretty hard. 

How to Get Laid Step 6- Remove her and yourself from the location

Unless you like the idea of having sex in a bar, you have to get her out of there and to a place where you two can be more intimate.  If you’ve followed the previous five steps correctly, she should be receptive to any request to leave the bar.

Generally a simple move would be to suggest that you “go back to your place and continue the conversation”.  By now, she’s probably made up her mind if she’s going to sleep with you.  So don’t worry if this comment seems transparent.  You both know what going back to your place involves.

How to Get Laid Step 7- Make your move and close the deal

Once you have her back at her place, you should make a move to escalate the physical contact.  Typically you can this by kissing her or giving a sensual massage.

In my opinion, there is a lot you can do to close the deal and have sex with a woman.  But for the sake of limited space, let me say this…

Your goal during this seventh and final step is to eliminate any last minute resistance to having sex with you.  Typically women want to get laid as much as we do.  So your job is to get her to want to have sex with you.

This is where knowing how to seduce women is an important skill to have. 

Naturally your physical contact and kissing will eventually lead to sex…

Congratulations, you’re getting laid!

Well that was a quick breakdown no how to get laid tonight.  While this system won’t always work, it can definitely increase your chances of having a one night stand with a woman.

But one piece of advice, it’s often better to get to know a woman before you jump in the sack.  That way, you can have a little bit of time to get to know each other better and maybe avoid doing something that you might regret later on.

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource,Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource visit his site right now: http://www.ChickMagnet101.com