[AWTD] The Extra Ticket Close

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 8th, 2007.  

The Extra Ticket Close

Imagine this…

You’ve been talking to a woman for a bit.  During the conversation, you’ve received a number of Indicators of Interest (IOI) and know that she is attracted to you.  But you realize that you have to leave soon.

So what do you do in this situation?

Well the natural instinct for many guys is to tell her you want to call her sometime and then get her number.

Unfortunately this a huge mistake.  Let me tell you why…

While getting a woman’s number is important, you’ll be wasting your time if you don’t have a concrete plan of how you use it.

The problem is when get JUST a woman’s number, you do nothing to make her EXCITED about you calling her.

Instead of grabbing a woman’s digits, you should use what I like to call “The Extra Ticket Close”.  It works like this…

During your conversation, you talk at length about the different (and exciting) things that are going on in your life.  Every so often you mention different actities you like to do.  To expand on this, you give her an example of what you’re doing in the next couple of days.  Talk about how much fun it’s going to be.  Then you change the conversation.

What you’re doing here is seeding the conversation with a glimpse into your life, but you’re not inviting her.

Then you continue the conversation using other attraction techniques.

Finally when the conversation comes to a conclusion, you implement the second phase of “The Extra Ticket Close” .  As you’re talking to her, make it seem like you suddenly had a thought…

You tell her that you just realized that you have an extra ticket to this awesome thing you were talking about.  Then tell her it’ll be okay if she tagged along.  At this point you get her number and tell her that you’ll call her with more details.

What I like about this technique is you’re getting her on a date without coming across as a needy person.  In addition, since you’re assuming the close, you’ll come across as a confident guy.

So if you’re stuck with how to ask a woman on a date, you easily use “The Extra Ticket Close” to seal the deal.

Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson’s Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.