[AWTD] Never Fear Failure With Women

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for December 8th, 2006.  

Never Fear Failure With Women

Guys are often afraid to approach and engage women in conversation due to a fear of failure.  Many of them think they will be laughed at by women or ridiculed in some way.  But by letting their fear control their actions, men are missing out on a lot of opportunities to talk to attractive women.

While you might have some fear of engaging women in a conversation, you have to remember that failure is a good thing.  Let me explain…

One of my favorite expressions is how if someone in baseball gets a hit 3 or 4 times out of 10, they are considered a Hall of Player. The point behind this philosophy is you’re going to fail sometimes when you’re talking to woman. 

However it’s important to remember that everyone fails and you can learn a lot from each experience.  So next you “strike out” or fail with a woman, think about the interaction.  Ask yourself:

Did I talk to fast/slow/loud?

Was she actually available or did she have a boyfriend?

Did I successfully create a dynamic conversation?

By evaluating your *performance* with a woman, you can learn from your mistakes and apply them the next time you talk to a woman.  Just remember avoid getting down on yourself for failing.  Just remember it’s part of the game and it happens to everyone.

So keep on swinging…

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