[AWTD] How to Handle Her Ex Boyfriend

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for April 21st, 2007.  

How to Handle Her Ex Boyfriend

Let’s face it…

No matter how inexperienced a woman appears to be, she’s probably had at least a couple of ex-boyfriends.  In fact, her past relationships (and how they were handled) can have a direct impact on your ability to date her.

First off if a woman just broke up with her boyfriend, you’ll probably have some difficulties.  While having sex with her usually isn’t a problem, a woman with an ex-boyfriend will have some difficulty in a new relationship.

My advice is to ALWAYS take things slow and let remain casual with a woman who just ended a relationship.  While you have fun, it’s important to let things heal. 

Now if a woman has a history of hopping from relationship to relationship, then this probably shows that she is person who cannot be on her own.  She’s probably a person who can’t handle being alone.

So if you start dating a woman and find out she’s never been without a boyfriend, then you know she probably has some emotional issues to work through.  My advice is to avoid getting in a committed relationship with someone who can’t be alone.

Finally, past relationships should not be brought up in your conversations.  While it’s okay to mention things once in a while, constant reference to past boyfriend probably indicates some levels of interest.

So immediately change the topic whenever she brings him up.  Now if she refuses to stop talking about him, then I recommend that you move on and find another girl.  If she is hung up on some other guy, then your potential relationship will go nowhere.

Past boyfriends sometimes get in the way when you’re dating a new woman.  How you handle them will have a direct impact on your future with this girl.  So make sure you address these issues with your woman and then move on.

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