[AWTD] How to Buy Flowers For a Woman

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for May 11th, 2007.  

How to Buy Flowers For a Woman

Okay, I’ll be honest here…

Generally I’m not a big fan of buying flowers for women.  My reasoning is a lot of guys buy flowers for women as a way to get something from them.  For instance if a guy “likes” a girl or wants to pursue things romantically, he’ll buy flowers to show that he’s interested.

In my opinion, this is mistake!

When a guy buys flowers for a woman to make her like him, he’s showing lower status.  His thought pattern is the girl will suddenly realize what great guy he is and will be attracted to him.  Unfortunately this never happens.

Buying gifts (especially flowers) does nothing to build attraction.  In fact, by showering a girl with gifts, a guy will demonstrates neediness and wussiness.

Now as you can see, buying flowers for somebody you like isn’t the best way to build attraction.  But there are times when a simple flower delivery can really increase the levels of attraction. 

Here are few simple rules for buying flowers for a woman:

1) Go on a few dates first

Buying flowers should be a gift you get after you’ve established a pattern of dating and romance.  If you feel like things are going well and you’re starting to develop a potential relationship, then flowers are a great gift

2) Find out what she likes

DON’T BUY ROSES!

Okay, maybe you can buy roses.  But make sure your woman likes them.  Before you buy flowers, casually ask her what type she likes.  Then send these flowers.

3) Send them to her workplace

Sending flowers to her workplace is a great way to help build attraction.  When a woman receives flowers, she’ll be able to show them off to her jealous friends.  In addition, they’ll make her think of you every time she’s at her desk.

Buying flowers shouldn’t be a way to MAKE a girl like you.  But if you’ve built up some emotion and chemistry between the two of you, then it might be time to send her a floral arrangement which will increases attraction.

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