[AWTD] Don’t Be Afraid of Other Guys Around an Attractive Woman

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 11th, 2007.  

[AWTD] Don’t Be Afraid of Other Guys Around an Attractive Woman

This happens all the time…

I’ll be out in a club, looking around, when I’ll notice an attractive woman who has a guy or two around her.  What usually happens is many other men want to go talk to her, but they ASSUME that one of these guys is her boyfriend.

Now the problem with this is they disqualify themselves for even taking a chance. 

What you have to remember is ALL girls have at least a few MALE FRIENDS who they like to go out with.  Just because she has a guy next to her, this doesn’t mean she can’t be approached.  Furthermore, she probably is DYING to have a guy come talk to her, because all other men are afraid to take any action.

In fact, I recommend you should ALWAYS approach a girl if she’s surrounded by guys. 

What I like to do is go up to this group and use the “question opener” which I learned from ‘The Art of Approaching’ system.  Usually this is a way you can open the group in a friendly manner without coming across as too aggressive.  Then I ask questions to the group and find out how they know one another.  Usually I can learn if my target woman is going out with any of the guys.  If I discover she’s single, then I make a quick transition and isolate her from the group.

By approaching women who are surrounded by men, you’re taking a chance that other guys are afraid to do.  The end result is you could be rewarded by getting her number and setting up a date.

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