[AWTD] Develop the Right Body Language on Your Approach

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 14th, 2007.  

Develop the Right Body Language on Your Approach

You know what?

Approaching a woman is the MOST important element to attracting her.  As humans, we make instant judgments of people within the first couple seconds of  meeting them.  This means if you want to tattract her, you have to ensure that you have the right kind of body language.

Now most guys make the mistake of giving off the right kind of body language when approaching a woman.  Whether they’re acting too intimidating or they’re behaving in a wussy manner, most men give off the WRONG type of body language.

If you’re having trouble with attracting women during your initial approach, try this system:

First lock eyes with a woman and smile at her during your approach.  Your goal is to give off a warm and friendly personality with your approach.  In other words, you’re acting like a long lost friend.

Next you want to avoid directly facing a woman.  One of the principles of body language is we tend to be uncomfortable by people who directly face us. So 
instead of facing her directly in front.  Try approaching her to the side.  If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle, you’ll reduce her nervousness and tension.

Finally once you’ve approached the woman you should strike a relaxed pose.  In order to appear confident, you have to give off the appearance like you’re not  anxious or too into the outcome of the situation.  By giving a relaxed posture (like leaning back) you’re showing her that she’s in the presence of a confident male.

If you use this three part body language system on your approach you’ll increase your chances of developing a successful conversation.

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