[AWTD] Competence and Authority Attracts Women

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for March 26th, 2007.  

Competence and Authority Attracts Women

One thing women find really attractive in men is their strength.  Now when I say strength, I don’t mean physical prowess and a large muscular body.

Instead I’m talking about strength as a personality trait which can magnetically draw women to you.  A strong guy can be someone a woman can look to for protection or advice.  In essence, his personality can protect her from her concerns.

So how do cultivate this personality trait?

Well it’s simple…

All you have to do is work on your ability to become a competent person in everything you do.  What you want to do is eliminate all the wishy-washy behaviors you have and eliminate body language which projects an unsure attitude.

For instance some wussy behaviors could include:

• Stuttering or stammering when nervous
• Being indecisive about what you want to do
• Look to others for cues about what to do
• Following not leading

In addition to your body language there are certain phrases which demonstrate a lack of competence.  So ditch all the phrases you say like:

• “I don’t know”
• “I’m not sure”
• “Maybe” or “Probably”

Your ultimate goal is to be perceived a strong person who can make instant decisions with force and conviction.  And once you’ve cultivated this personality, you’ll instantly become a strong and attractive guy.

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