[AWTD] An Answer to the ‘Do You Kiss on the First Date?’ Question

The Attracting Women Tip of the Day [AWTD] for January 3rd, 2007.  

[AWTD] An Answer to the ‘Do You Kiss on the First Date?” Question

Imagine this scenario…

You’re nearing the end of the date and everything has gone really well.  The two of you are walking to her door and you want to kiss her.  But deep down inside, you wonder “do you kiss on the first date?” 

While it’s important to initiate a more physical relationship with a woman on a date, there are a lot of factors that can help you decide if you should kiss her.

First you should decide if you actually like the woman and want to see her again.  If the date hasn’t gone well and you’re pretty much sure that you’re not going to see her again, then kissing will just make things awkward.  But if you had a great time, then kissing her is an excellent way to create a firmer bond and make things more physical.

Next you should figure out if you received the right kind of signals from her.  If she has been giving you positive body language the whole night, then that means she wants to be kissed.  The body language cues could include leaning towards you, been interested in everything you say and maintaining constant eye contact.

The final thing to pay attention to is if there has been physical contact with one another.  In the dating environment, physical contact almost always demonstrates a level of attraction between a man and woman.  If she’s has been touching you to emphasize a point, that probably means she wants you to kiss her.

If you see these three things that means that is definitely the right time to kiss her.  So an answer to the “do you kiss on the first date?” question is should always go for it if you see the right signs.

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