The first date can be either a great way to get to know a woman or it can be a tense and nerve-wracking experience.

That’s why it’s absolutely important to find the right place for your first date!

Now many guys make the mistake of bringing women to a fancy restaurant and buying her expensive gifts.

If you’re smart, you won’t do this.

Remember the cardinal rule of dating…

Your first date should be low key and fun!

While you want to impress a woman, you also have to make sure you’re not appearing too overeager.

When you try too hard to create the perfect date, you come across as desperate.

This does nothing to build attraction.  Instead it creates too much pressure and makes her feel uncomfortable.

So don’t blow tons of money on your first date and creating an uncomfortable situation! Just focus on thinking of first date ideas which are both memorable and fun. 

What you want to do is think of an activity that’ll allow you to establish an emotional and physical connection.  If you both have a good time, then you can go on a second date that is more *standard*- like going to a restaurant.

The following are three general places and activities you can do on your first date:

Dating Idea #1- Meet for drinks or coffee

While meeting for drinks or coffee is a *standard* date idea which many people use, it’s still very effective for getting to know a woman in a low key environment.

When you meet for drinks or coffee, you’re able to converse in a casual manner without the pressure of facing each other from across a restaurant table.

What I like about meeting for drinks or coffee is you’re within a distance to establish physical contact.  This means you’re able to flirt and emphasize different things during your conversation which helps to build attraction.

Dating Idea #2- Play games

Another great place to bring a woman on a date is to a place where you can play games like a pool hall, miniature golf, the boardwalk or a video arcade. 

What I love about playing games on a first date is you’re able to avoid the pressures that often come with meeting for the first time.  You can have fun while being competitive and behaving in a playful manner.   

Dating Idea #3- Get physical

Okay when I say *get physical*, I’m not talking about sex (yet).

Instead I’m talking about a first date idea where you do something which involves in a physical activity. 

Whether you’re going for a hike, rollerblading or ice skating, engaging in a physical activity can be fun.  It’s also a good first date idea because you’ll be able to immediately discover if this woman has an adventurous attitude.

All three of these first date ideas are a great way stand out from other guys.  They can be fun without feeling the pressures of the *job interview* type dates. 

Just remember to keep things low key and fun. Your first date should be an enjoyable time where you’re able to decide if there is any potential for building a fun and exciting time.

Now during the course of your initial conversation with a woman, you should have thought of a first date idea and grabbed her number.  Once you’ve set up the first date, you should start preparing for it.

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