6
Steps to Get Rid of Her Boyfriend and Make Her Yours
So, you meet a great woman but find out that she has a
boyfriend. You ask yourself how you can get rid of your boyfriend and make her
want you. Has this ever happened to you? Actually, guys who find themselves in
this situation can be quite frustrated because so many interesting and
attractive women are already taken. Don’t worry. You are not the only guy who
has thought this.
If this is you, pay attention to the following as I reveal a six-step system to
ultimately make a woman get rid of her boyfriend and want to be you instead.
This pursuit may sound somewhat “unethical,” so keep in mind that I am not
suggesting you mess with an established relationship. Someone will get hurt in
such a situation. So, if you find a great girl but she has a boyfriend, try
sticking to a friendship with her and date only the available women. This will
make you happier in the end.
But, if you meet a girl and desperately want to be more than friends with her,
go ahead and try the system below.
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Step 1: Analyze the Situation
The first thing you must do is look at your relationship with her. The reasoning
is that if you are already in her “friend category” her boyfriend is, actually,
not the obstacle to be overcome. Girls often hesitate in dating one of their
friends, mostly because they do not want to ruin the friendship. Even if she
does ultimately get rid of her boyfriend, she will not want to date you because
she already considers you a friend and will not want to cross that line. The
solution is, then, to get out of this friend category and transition into a
potential date rather than a friend. Don not act like her friend and take steps
toward becoming a sexual threat to her.
Step 2: Pretend He is Not There
Once you understand your relationship with her as described in step one, you are
ready to apply step two. Simply put, you must ignore the fact that she has a
boyfriend. Do not talk about him with her. Wait to see if she brings him up. If
she rarely mentions her boyfriend when she is withy you, chances are that she is
not that interested in him making it easier to get rid of her boyfriend at some
point. During this time, you should continue to work on your attractiveness to
her and flirting skills. The boyfriend does not have to be an obstacle if you
pretend he is not involved.
Step 3: Do Not Criticize her Boyfriend
Now, if she does talk about her boyfriend several times, you will have to change
you strategy. To turn her interests your way, you need to change her mindset to
make her see you as everything her life is missing. However, it is important to
never talk negatively about her current boyfriend. This will only cause her to
defend him, keeping her focus on him rather than you. Stand apart from other
guys and respond positively about him. Comment on how great he sounds, which
leads us to the next step.
Step 4: Talk about Her Boyfriend
You are probably wondering why I even included step two on pretending she does
not have a boyfriend. While that is the case when she does not talk about him,
you must ask questions about him when she does bring him into the conversation.
Throughout the conversation, be sure to exaggerate his positive traits.
Try saying something like this. “Wow, you both sound like a cute couple. I can
picture you both still married in ten years, a nice house in the suburbs and
four kids.” This technique works because you are attaching that to her fear of
losing her freedom and independence. Consequently, she will begin to think about
what she is giving up and never having fun, even if it is not true.
Step 5: Compare yourself to Her Boyfriend
You need to tell her why you are different than her boyfriend by telling her how
terrible of a boyfriend you make. The point is to describe yourself as a guy who
loves life, adventure and fun and would never settle down.
Step 6: Explain Why You Would Not Be a Good Boyfriend
Now, you cannot just tell her you would make a terrible boyfriend. You must
transition into telling her why. Talk about your adventures. Make yourself sound
like, despite your bad boyfriend material, you would be fun to be around and
provide tons of excitement.
By following the steps above in combination with the basic attraction and dating
advice, you can change a woman’s mindset and think of you as a potential dating
partner rather than a friend. Many women are in relationships out of
convenience. Gradually, she will want to be around YOU, the fun and exciting
guy. Once this happens, she will be attracted to you at which point she just may
get rid of her boyfriend.
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