6 Steps to Get Rid of Her Boyfriend and Make Her Yours

So, you meet a great woman but find out that she has a boyfriend. You ask yourself how you can get rid of your boyfriend and make her want you. Has this ever happened to you? Actually, guys who find themselves in this situation can be quite frustrated because so many interesting and attractive women are already taken. Don’t worry. You are not the only guy who has thought this.

If this is you, pay attention to the following as I reveal a six-step system to ultimately make a woman get rid of her boyfriend and want to be you instead. This pursuit may sound somewhat “unethical,” so keep in mind that I am not suggesting you mess with an established relationship. Someone will get hurt in such a situation. So, if you find a great girl but she has a boyfriend, try sticking to a friendship with her and date only the available women. This will make you happier in the end.

But, if you meet a girl and desperately want to be more than friends with her, go ahead and try the system below.
 

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Step 1: Analyze the Situation

The first thing you must do is look at your relationship with her. The reasoning is that if you are already in her “friend category” her boyfriend is, actually, not the obstacle to be overcome. Girls often hesitate in dating one of their friends, mostly because they do not want to ruin the friendship. Even if she does ultimately get rid of her boyfriend, she will not want to date you because she already considers you a friend and will not want to cross that line. The solution is, then, to get out of this friend category and transition into a potential date rather than a friend. Don not act like her friend and take steps toward becoming a sexual threat to her.

Step 2: Pretend He is Not There

Once you understand your relationship with her as described in step one, you are ready to apply step two. Simply put, you must ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend. Do not talk about him with her. Wait to see if she brings him up. If she rarely mentions her boyfriend when she is withy you, chances are that she is not that interested in him making it easier to get rid of her boyfriend at some point. During this time, you should continue to work on your attractiveness to her and flirting skills. The boyfriend does not have to be an obstacle if you pretend he is not involved.

Step 3: Do Not Criticize her Boyfriend

Now, if she does talk about her boyfriend several times, you will have to change you strategy. To turn her interests your way, you need to change her mindset to make her see you as everything her life is missing. However, it is important to never talk negatively about her current boyfriend. This will only cause her to defend him, keeping her focus on him rather than you. Stand apart from other guys and respond positively about him. Comment on how great he sounds, which leads us to the next step.

Step 4: Talk about Her Boyfriend

You are probably wondering why I even included step two on pretending she does not have a boyfriend. While that is the case when she does not talk about him, you must ask questions about him when she does bring him into the conversation. Throughout the conversation, be sure to exaggerate his positive traits.

Try saying something like this. “Wow, you both sound like a cute couple. I can picture you both still married in ten years, a nice house in the suburbs and four kids.” This technique works because you are attaching that to her fear of losing her freedom and independence. Consequently, she will begin to think about what she is giving up and never having fun, even if it is not true.

Step 5: Compare yourself to Her Boyfriend

You need to tell her why you are different than her boyfriend by telling her how terrible of a boyfriend you make. The point is to describe yourself as a guy who loves life, adventure and fun and would never settle down.

Step 6: Explain Why You Would Not Be a Good Boyfriend

Now, you cannot just tell her you would make a terrible boyfriend. You must transition into telling her why. Talk about your adventures. Make yourself sound like, despite your bad boyfriend material, you would be fun to be around and provide tons of excitement.

By following the steps above in combination with the basic attraction and dating advice, you can change a woman’s mindset and think of you as a potential dating partner rather than a friend. Many women are in relationships out of convenience. Gradually, she will want to be around YOU, the fun and exciting guy. Once this happens, she will be attracted to you at which point she just may get rid of her boyfriend.

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