5 Tips on Turning Your Friend Into Your Girlfriend She is intelligent, beautiful and makes you feel terrific when you are with her, but only considers you a friend. Do you secretly want more with her? Is there a girl that you “want” who is currently your friend? If so, you are surely not alone as many guys find that they desire more than friendship with a particular female friend whether it is simply something physical or even a relationship. The problem many men find is that most girls brush off advances from their male friends because they fear losing the friendship. Or, they have simply become comfortable with the friendship the way it is. However, to most problems there is some type of solution and this is no exception. Here is a step-by-step approach you can use to turn your friend into your girlfriend. Think closely before jumping aboard, though, as some of the steps are a little severe on the cover. 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She will start to view you as one of her female friends and become comfortable with that perception. Rather, act like someone she would want to date as there are certain things a man does or says that determines which category he ultimately is placed in and remains. Basically, portray those classic “guy signs” and act like one of her friends would not. Secondly, stop being there for her all the time. Yes, I did basically repeat myself with this point, but this step is rather intense. If you are already in a serious friendship with her and “just friends,” then it is very important that you remove yourself from the only-friendship situation, at least for a certain period of time. This is a dramatic move, but something dramatic is necessary. Now, do not be a jerk to her, but turn into a very busy guy who has little time to hang out. Stop calling her and emailing her and only return her calls or emails after a couple days have passed. Third, start dating other women after you have stopped talking to your friend. You need to make the decision of whether or not you will remain friends (only) or continue your pursuit of her as your girlfriend. Dating other women during this time period is important for two reasons. It provides you the opportunity to compare what you know about her to other women. This time to explore may help you decide if you really want to pursue her as your girlfriend. Also, dating other women helps you become more confident in yourself as a person and what you can offer her as a boyfriend. Remember, confidence is one of the most attractive traits in a man! Fourth, go ahead and call her. Hold on, not so fast. It is safe to call her after you have dated around for a couple months and have decided where you want the friendship to go, if anywhere. You can pursue the relationship, as was your original desire, or you can choose to remain friends. If you simply want to add a physical element to the friendship, contact her. It is important to remember, though, what you want from the friendship. If your decision is that you want to continue to make her your girlfriend, be sure you do not revert back to buddy-buddy. Talk to her like a prospective date, and not like your friend. Act like a guy she would want to date Finally, not only should you not talk to her like a buddy you should avoid treating her like your buddy. Now that you are talking again, be sure to treat her in a way that will make her more attractive to her. Treat her like a woman you want to date. Flirt with her. Compliment her. Be sure she sees you as a man and, especially, a man she wants to date. It may be tempting to fall back into the friend role, but it is important at this stage that you keep pushing forward into the relationship category and out of the “friends-only” category. As you see, this is not an easy task and quite a process. It is natural for women to place men in one of the two categories, friend or boyfriend. As you see, you can influence which category you are in if you are wiling to apply the effort and make a turnaround from friend to potential partner. Go ahead and shift that friendship into a relationship! Want to learn 50 different ways to meet, approach and attract women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's Free eBook which provides 50 tips for approaching, attracting, and dating ANY woman.