4 Common Mistakes Men Make
With Women
Recently, I was out with my friends and noticed a guy talking
with a nice looking woman. He seemed very confident in his ability to pick her
up, but he must not have noticed the bored look on her face. I could tell that
the only thing she was interested in was trying to get away from him. He,
apparently, had no idea and assumed he would at some point be escaping “with”
her.
The problem was not his appearance or attire, but rather a few common mistakes
that should be avoided and could have been easily avoided had he known about
them. Had he avoided some of the following four mistakes, his chances of success
with her would have increased by leaps and bounds. Be sure to avoid some of the
following mistakes next time you approach a woman and begin conversation hoping
to “pick her up”:
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Mistake 1: Ignoring Her Body Language
Women like to tell us how they are feeling and can do this without even saying a
word. She is always using her body language to tell us how she feels. Her body
language tells you when she is not interested or when she is attracted. If you
are not able to read her body language, then you are missing out some subtle yet
useful cues she is giving that could be just what you need to improve your
chances of success. Pay attention to her body language or you could miss out on
that one thing missing to close the deal.
Mistake 2: Taking “Funny” Too Far
How many times have we heard that women are attracted to men with a “sense of
humor”? Many, yes, but this is not giving you permission to act like a clown
when you are with them. Making a woman laugh is important and a sense of humor
can be attractive, but a fool with a sense of humor is not. Just as important as
it is to make her laugh and enjoy the conversation, it is equally important to
avoid looking like a fool waiting for the next clown act. This does not help
build the attraction you are seeking. Rather than focusing heavily on making her
laugh, try focusing on what is called “cocky-funny” in which you tease her but
with slight arrogance and “I don’t care” attitude.
Mistake 3: Trying to Buy Her Affections
Now, there is a difference between those guys who are constantly buying drinks
for women and those who actually pick her up. The men who buy a woman all her
drinks is successful at getting her drunk, but even better at making it easier
for another guy to pick her up in the end. The free drinks are not helping him
get laid because it gives the impression to the woman that you feel you must
purchase the attention of a woman, as compared to other men who can get a woman
to talk to them for free. Don’t get me wrong. It is okay to buy her one drink.
This is polite, but do not spend the entire night working toward trying to
please her and keep her attention.
Mistake 4- Being Too Arrogant
I mentioned earlier that you should be slightly arrogant around a woman,
especially if you are trying to add a “sense of humor” to the conversation.
However, I must mention that arrogance comes with limits. Women are attracted to
a guy with confidence, but having too much confidence can be a turn-off and
quickly turns into the less attractive version of the word – arrogance. For
example, bragging about yourself, your success and accomplishments tends to
annoy and woman and will quickly push her away. Remember that confidence is best
displayed through body language and actions and does not need to be proven with
words. Learn to read her body language, as stated above, and also learn to
display your own body language to get your message across.
You may get frustrated, but knowing how to attract a woman is not really a
difficult process. By avoiding these mistakes above you will be on your way
toward getting her number and securing a date. Learn these mistakes carefully!
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